i was just wondering something.. so maybe you can help. well tonight... my bf fingered me.. and we've done it before.. but i guess we did it "rougher" this time... and i went into my bathroom once he left.. and i was bleeding... and it hurt.. and i was just wondering if this is normal? i dunno what it is... but yeah.. plz help!!
maybe when he fingered you he popped your cherry, it happens sometimes when its rough. and it doesnt mean your not a virgin because you still are.
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i don`t kno if it`sz healthy that i`m 12 nd my bra cup size isz a 36B..isz that bad ??
every girls breast size is different and it doesnt matter if your 12 and have big boobs. its normal
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I had sex for the first time last night and I didnt bleed at all. Doesnt every girl bleed? That kinda makes me wonder.. Also, we didnt do it very long or hard so I think thats why? Just making sure Im not strange or messed up..
on your frist time not every girls cherry gets popped. sometimes it takes a few times till it finally does pop.
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well i have a problem, i think that it is better if i admitt i have a problem. I cut, and i think i know why i cut, i cut to know i am alive and i think its so stupid..but i cant do anything about it. I cut and bleed my problems away. I always wear sweatshirts so people dont really know. But i think it is hurting my friends that know, because one time i cut so deep it was bleeding for like ever. im kind of scared.
thats a sign of depression and i think it might help you if you tell someone because that may be the only way to stop yourself from cutting agian. people can help you and so can your friends if you let them. when your ready to tell someone then you might be able to stop. good luck
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hey well i think you should all read this..just think before you act.
....before you make that first cut remember. You will enjoy this. You will find the blood and pain release addictive. Even though you think you can make a few tiny cuts that aren't deep and will heal easily ...they will get deeper. They will scar. They will take sometimes months to heal!!! And years for the scars to fade! IF you think you can limit the cutting to one area of your body think again...it will spread when you run out of skin. Be prepared to withdraw from others and live in a constant state of shame. Even if you are the most honest person ever to live ....you will find yourself lying to the people you love. You will jerk back from your friends when they touch you as if their hands were dipped in poison. You will be terrified that they will feel something under the cloth of your shirt or because it just plain hurts so much to be touched.
Be prepared to get so out of control you fear your next cut because you don't know how bad it will be. Just wait for 10 cuts to turn into 100....Be prepared for your entire life to revolve around thinking about cutting ..cutting and covering up cutting And just wait till that first time you cut "too deep." And you freak out because the blood won't stop...and you are gaping....and you feel yourself shaking all over. You are having a panic attack and you are terrified but you can't tell anyone. So you sit there alone...praying it will be ok swearing you'll never let it go this far again...But you will and further. Don't worry, you will learn how to take care of your cuts so that you can go deeper and deeper and avoid the ER. And the better you get at treating your cuts the deeper they get.
You will lie to yourself and justify it when you find youself spending 20 , 30 or 50 dollars every time you go the pharmacy. You will feel the flutter of your heartbeat everytime you go to the counter to ring up your order. Butterfly strips...3 or four different kinds of dressings...betadine....antibiotic cream..medical tape..scar reducers.....You will tap your foot impatiently hoping the line will just move and no one will stare at you or wonder why you need all these things. And at the same time secretly hope someone will notice...someone who is standing in line with an armful of the same supplies...someone who understands but of course that never happens.
Medical supplies won't be the only thing you spend all your money on. Be prepared to buy a new wardrobe...longsleeve shirts in summer colors, bracelets, wristbands , boots... gloves..the list goes on and on.
You will start looking at everyone in a differnent way...Scanning their bodies for any signs of Self Injury... just hoping that you might meet someone like you so you don't feel so terribly alone. You wont even think about it ..as your eyes scan their wrists arms...hoping just hoping they will be like you....But they are not. You will see their clean arms and feel terribly ashamed and alone.
You will start doing a lot of things alone. You will always have to wash your laundry in private so know one sees the blood stains on your clothes and towels. You will always be cleaning up the blood..Scrubbing your bathroom floor...wiping the blood of your keyboard....
You won't be able to make it through a day without cutting....Next thing you know you are in a public bathroom somewhere breaking open a scab with a sewing needle that you keep in your wallet for emergancies. When you get really desperate anything will be a cutting tool ...scissors...a car key...a needle ... a paperclip..even a pen. Doesn't matter what it is if you need to cut bad enough you will find something.
Say goodbye to things you took for granted. Like wearing shorts or sandals...pedicures...sleeveless tops.
A normal summer day at the beach or in a swimming pool will become a far off memory for you.
Get ready to itch. Beacuase you will itch and itch ..."so much you will look like you have fleas or a skin disease."
You will become an expert on your body as you destroy it carefully.. You will dream about cutting...you will dream about being exposed. It will haunt you day and night and take over your life. You will wish you never made that first cut because while you absolutely HATE cutting...at the same time you love it and can not live with out of it.
wow that was long lol but it was really instersting and im sure when people read that they will think twice about cutting. it kinda made me think twice, so maybe it will help someone else too!
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does anyone know like a technique to quit ciggaretes without money...im not legaly old enough to buy anything with nicotine and i really wanna quit but its a bitch..anyone know nething?? thanks for your time
well a way that you could quit smokeing without buying nicotine is to find a candy or something to eat or do whenever you want a ciggarete. my mom quite smokeing awhile ago and whenever she wants a cig she sucks on a lollipop and it helps her. so you should find something to do whenever you get the urge to smoke!
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ok i think im fat but my friends think that im like really skinny. and so does my friends mom. she always says "god look how skinny she is" and i cnat stand it. its not like i wanna be fat but i dont like to be considered like a tooth pick whne i think im fat. wut do i do?
you could eat alot and gain more weight and then you wont be skinny no more!
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Female almost 15...kay me n my bff r like....sisters we do everything together!!i tell her EVERYTHING..n we have been through sum reallly tough times but we got through em n she has ALWAYS been there for me..we go on vacas together n our familys r like each others seconds familys....well..okay b4 she had me she was really good friends with this one girl Alexa..and i have met alexa once..but alexa doesnt like me..she says she doesnt like me n i8m a bitch bc her current b/f was my b/f over 3 YEASR AGO!!! which i think is kinda dumb but i think its really bc i took Stephanie my bbf away from her a year ago...well 2 months or so ago stephanie alexa n alexas b/f n his good friend Kenny all hung out fer a weekand..well stephanie REALLLLY like Kenny...so she ditched me fer all them..n it got me really mad but i didnt mind bc i mostly had plans on tha couple weekands they all hung out..well then Kenny got a g/f n steph found out n she got REALLLY mad n she dropped kenny n started to ignore alexa again..well now kenny apologized to her n hes single now so alllll last weekand alexa steph kenny n all them hung out..n then yesterday i aked her if she had wanted to come ova n go siwmming in my pool bc she had owed me sum money fer a play ticket n i need tha money n she said "oh i cant bc me n my mom r going to tha cell phone place when she gets home from work" which i noe is a lie n she was guna go hang out with alexa bc i called her @ 1 in tha afternoon n her mom doesnt get home from work till 6 plus she NEVER asks her mom to do nething she just goes n does it...n then today i called her n i told her i needed tha money that she owed me by tha end of today n she said oh well i would come n kik it wid u n give u tha money but i cant bc i have plans with "other ppl" fer tha mall..n i noe fer a fact its alexa n all them...i dont need to be her doormat..i have other friends but its just we had/have a REALLY great friendship...i snapped on her today n i havent talked to her since...im soooo irratated n mad i dont noe what to do..i wanna talk to her but i dont really think she'll listen..n if she doesnt i think she might just lie n make up excuses..what SHOULD i do?? PlEaSe help thanx!!! x0o0x
if i were you i would get another friend and make her jealous and do exactly what she did to you and when she calls you then be like oh sry i cant im going to the mall with my friends or sumthing and then pretty soon shell want to be friends with you agian! cuz shell miss you!
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15-f...I'm not happy at all, and I don't know how to change that. Me and my boyfriend broke up a while ago but I'm okay with it now its just that I don't really have anyone now. I have a few friends, I'm just a shy person. It just seems like once I think I'm happy something comes and ruins it. My mom and I get along, but she just makes me so mad. I know all parents are like that. But then it all builds up and I don't know how to handle it all. One time I cute myself and I know it was stupid, but now everytime I get upset thats what I think about...I don't know how to handle my emotions...I just want to be happy....
i know how you feel. and sometimes when you get depressed and mad you cut yourself because i do it too and me and you are like going threw the same thing! i just want to be happy too and theres no real solution to make that happen. you just have to live life one day at a time and eventaully youll be happy. its going to be hard but im sure you can do it. just live life and dont let anyone bring you down or reck your day =)
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If there is anyone Who LOVES HORSES please talk to me!! i need some ppl to talk to about horses... I have no horse buddies! Talk to me!leave ur aim or msn or email... later
OMG I LOVE HORSES TOO! i want one soo bad! my sn is LoNeLyY x SOuL ... IM ME! lol
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okay. well i just moved out into my own apartment and i'd like to get a pet. the problem is i don't know what kind. i'd like something that doesn't require a TON of care, but something that i can also play with..can you help?
ok um... if i were you i would get a cat! because they dont need as much care as a dog would and they dont pee everywhere they have tehir own litter box and they dont eat alot!
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hi. i've been with my b/f for about 5 mo. and i'm 14 and he's 16. i REALLY want to have a baby! i don't know why i just ReAlLy do! but also my cuz whos 20 's g/f just had a baby and she was 17(now 18) and they really struggle with financial problems. then his bro was dating a woman last year and just 2 weeks ago found out he was a dad. i really want to have a baby! what should i do?
welll your only 14.. are you srue you want a baby? youll have to quit school and live with your boyfriend and get a job working at a fast food place. and are you sure your up for that? its gonna be tough but if you want to have a baby then you should have one but remember once you have it theres no changing your decison. it will always be with you. forever
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I am 14 years old, 15 in 2 weeks.. and I just found out I'm pregnant! I cried for days.. my parents dont know yet and I dont know how to tell them...They said they would ALWAYS support me but I doubt they will now when Im not sure who the father is... how should i bring up the convo with my mom and dad?
if i were you what i would do is sit your parents down and tell them stright up.just be like mommy daddy i have somthing important to tell you and please dont be mad and im really sorry and i hope youll support me.. im pregnant! then see what they say and you guys can talk about it together. good luck!
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okay so ive liked this boy for the longest time and now he told me that he likes me back and he says that he wants to have sex with me but im scared cuz it will b my very first time and i don't knoe if i want to loose that respect for myself this early in my life im only 13. and this boy is kinda a player but ive liked him for a long time and now that i knoe he likes me back i don't want to do n e thing that will ruin this. please help me
um.. ok if you asked me i think hes just using you and im not trying to be mean im just say what i think because you liked him so long and all of a sudden he likes you and wants to have sex! i dont think you should do it with him but its up to you.
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last month i went to my boyfriend's house to watch a movie for the very first time,. so when his sisters and brothers went to bed ,. we were on the couch laying together alone. we though his parents went to bed so we started making out* haha we were really into and we didnt even notice his mom come up behind us and turn on a light!! i was so embrassed. i mean i just met her and i already have a bad impression. he asked where hes sons hands were,. haha - i bet that was embrassing for him.. =/ but yea,. and everytime i ask him " where should we get together" hes always like,. um.. how bout u go to (joe's) or one of his friends house that he myte be going that weekend. s0o,. idk becuz i think his mom or dad would ever let me go to his house again,. she was upset n mad after i left as he told me.. what should i do? i mean i dont want to get a bad impression in front of his friends mom! or anywhere else,. i mean i always have to invite him to my house and we have nothing to do here,.=/
please help x0x i'll rate!
wow lol that must of been embrassing for the both of you! well you talk to his mom and say your sory and that you never wanted to make a first bad impression with her and that you hope what happened isnt going to make her not like you and say that your sorry and you just got caught up in the moment and youll make sure it never happends agian! and if that doesnt work then just go to one of his friends house and have them keep a look out and make sure no one comes in the room!
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ok when i get really upset about something or if i just had a big fight with my mom i cut my self and i know this is stupid but to me its the only way to get rid of the thoughs of what happened and i just want to know if you can help me or give me a soultion to my problem...please
well i know what your going threw because i cut myself too when things get too hard or i just cant take it anymore. but i found a way of dealing with my problems without cutting. my solution was reading. when ever i get the urge to cut i read a book. you should pick something that you like to do in case you get into another fight with your mom or something else. and i hope that works for you like it worked for me. if you need anymore advice just write me because ill be more than happy to answer your questions! and i hope my advice works!
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Alright my boyfriend and i went to see a movie at the theaters before he left for flordia. the movies was packed!! and i wanted to sit in the beakc but there was no more seats,. during the movie i could tell he wanted to make out with me because he kept looking and getting closer to me,.. Its really ahrd to turn side ways on these movie seats!! So yea we Finally did make out,. dude we were in teh middle of the theater,. and i really didnt wanna do it,. but yea,. Omg it was soo embrassing becuz when we were done all these hot guys in the eback screamed get a room and stuff,.. o geez i dont kno how to tell my guy taht i ahte doing that in public but really tahts the only time we have to do it becuz we never go over to each houses,. cuz our mom sdont "approve" lol. he did it everywhere with me ,.. PARTIES.. the BAND dance and ME getting in trouble! ,. and he told my friend he wanted to take the next step with me..besides we have eben going out 2 years and all we did was make out~ =/ oo what should i do?
ok um.. let me think, you dont like makin out in public because of what people say? or because your embrassed? well if you like him alot you shouldnt care what people say and you should be embrassed! your boyfriends not embrassed is he? well you could tell him that you rather make out with your alone because you dont like people staring at you and if thats ok with him. thats pretty much all the advice i can give to you... sry i dont know what else to tell you. but i hope things work out! good luck!
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i feel like an outsider of my own family. My parents are divorced and both of my brothers live with my dad so i'm all alone with my mom living with her boyfriend. They do everything together, like this week they went to the beach without invited me,. they went to Alantic city, Virgina, flordia. . all w/o me,.. my mom use to pay so much attention to me ,it really hurts =/ i tried to talk to her but she just tells her boyfriend everything,. and than they yell at me for not cleaning the house ? SHould i move with my dad cuz my mom IS a complete bitch!! loL -sorry =( // aleast i would get more attention in the future..?
please help x0x
if i were you i would move in with your dad for a while and see if you like it there better but if you like living with your mom better then you could move back in with her. i think that if you know how it is to move in with each of your parents then you can decide who you want to live with. or then agian maybe things with your mom will change and shell have more time for you. you never know!
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i dance alot (about 12 hours a week) .. does this have anything to do with my not having my period yet because of heavy exercise?? that's what my friend said and i want to know if it's true
everybody gets their period at a different time. it doesnt have anything to do with danceing or exerciseing alot, it just has to do with when your body is ready to starte having your period.
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alright, you might all think i'm crazy but don't judge me CAUSE YOU DONT KNOW ME! anyway..sorry but umm i'm 8 months pregnant and no one knows, not my parents, not my friends- no one...i've been able to hide it pretty well with baggy clothes and the fact that i'm a little big as it is naturally..since it's getting pretty close to my due date- and i havent seen a doctor once, yet...does anyone have ANY advice..please i'm in desperate need...and i'm really scared...i don't live at home beacuse my dad used to beat me and my mom was having an affair..so i moved out and i live with a friend..im 15 but my friend is 19..and he's not really good with this stuff..please help me !
ok wow um. im not going to judge you because this sort of thing can happen to anyone. i think you should tell your parents that your pregant and have them take you to a doctor because their going to find out sooner or later and their going to know when you come home with a baby in your hand! and you need to see a doctor to have a check up. and if they disaprove of your baby then you and your friend or the babys daddy can help you out with out your parents help. good luck!
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