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Ughh what tha heck?!?!
Female almost 15...kay me n my bff r like....sisters we do everything together!!i tell her EVERYTHING..n we have been through sum reallly tough times but we got through em n she has ALWAYS been there for me..we go on vacas together n our familys r like each others seconds familys....well..okay b4 she had me she was really good friends with this one girl Alexa..and i have met alexa once..but alexa doesnt like me..she says she doesnt like me n i8m a bitch bc her current b/f was my b/f over 3 YEASR AGO!!! which i think is kinda dumb but i think its really bc i took Stephanie my bbf away from her a year ago...well 2 months or so ago stephanie alexa n alexas b/f n his good friend Kenny all hung out fer a weekand..well stephanie REALLLLY like Kenny...so she ditched me fer all them..n it got me really mad but i didnt mind bc i mostly had plans on tha couple weekands they all hung out..well then Kenny got a g/f n steph found out n she got REALLLY mad n she dropped kenny n started to ignore alexa again..well now kenny apologized to her n hes single now so alllll last weekand alexa steph kenny n all them hung out..n then yesterday i aked her if she had wanted to come ova n go siwmming in my pool bc she had owed me sum money fer a play ticket n i need tha money n she said "oh i cant bc me n my mom r going to tha cell phone place when she gets home from work" which i noe is a lie n she was guna go hang out with alexa bc i called her @ 1 in tha afternoon n her mom doesnt get home from work till 6 plus she NEVER asks her mom to do nething she just goes n does it...n then today i called her n i told her i needed tha money that she owed me by tha end of today n she said oh well i would come n kik it wid u n give u tha money but i cant bc i have plans with "other ppl" fer tha mall..n i noe fer a fact its alexa n all them...i dont need to be her doormat..i have other friends but its just we had/have a REALLY great friendship...i snapped on her today n i havent talked to her since...im soooo irratated n mad i dont noe what to do..i wanna talk to her but i dont really think she'll listen..n if she doesnt i think she might just lie n make up excuses..what SHOULD i do?? PlEaSe help thanx!!! x0o0x
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if i were you i would get another friend and make her jealous and do exactly what she did to you and when she calls you then be like oh sry i cant im going to the mall with my friends or sumthing and then pretty soon shell want to be friends with you agian! cuz shell miss you!
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hi, well listen i got to say dat dats messed up...i think its reudiculous that she hides stuff from u n dont tell u that she is hanging out wit her other friends...n w/e w/e...wut i think u should do its talk to her n tell her that u dont mind her talkin or hanging out wit her other friends...but at least since u guys were so good friends it will b nice of her if she told u the truth...n u will b okay wit it...tell her that ur not jelous or anything bout her haning out wit alexa or w/e but wut relly bothers is her lieing to u...tell her how u feel..n tell her that i hope that wont happend again..i bet she will understand...(of course she is a good friend matirial) if not n she does it again...then i think u should just move on...n find ur self a tru best friend that wont ditch u n when she does at least she will tell u the truth rite in ur face...then try to b nice n lie n make u mad n w/e w/e ;) ight i guess i helped :) so good luck n best wishes :) xoxo effy
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omg so been there!what you should do is just make plans w/ other friends and just go out and have u a good time..cause i promise u shes gunna b the one crawling back to u..and ur gunna b like hmm..dont i have plans!?but u being a good friend and all u'll b like sure lets go do soemthing!
xO.Letty Lee!
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I would just settle down for a bit and wait it out and then after a few days i would give her a call and talk to her about it. You dont want to take out your anger on her at all but maybe when you do call if her mom answers or whatever you could ask her hows she's doing and mention to her that steph owes you some moeny-trix
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Well, this is a pretty delicate situation. You should tell her that you are sorry for snapping at her, but you really don't appreciate how she's been acting lately. Try to be as patient as possible when you tell her this, because you don't want it to come out wrong. Maybe if there's still some bad feelings, you guys should take a break from eachother. Everyone needs some time away from people. It's okay not to hang out ALL the time. When you feel a little better, I'm sure you're friendship will still be strong. Good Luck hun!
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