Hey my Katie!
I'm thirteen years ld in live in none other than FLORiDA!
I'm a really cool person. I get along with almost anyone who talks to me wihtout an attitude.
My history with boys is like way BAD.
One gjy used me to get closer to my best friend.
Three guys cheated on me.
And another asked out another girl wile we were still dating.
etc.
SO love life wowzers!! lol well there is
this guy his name is Tanner and
i absolutly "LOVE" him!! MUAH TANNER!
lol he is soo awsome and i love being around
him, he makes me laugh and smile
even when i should be in tears! he is
defantly the guy i have been searchng for!
love ya babe!
moving on
I love giving advice.
and its something I'm pretty good at.
Give me a question!
And guys I'm looking for the right one. Prove to me theyre not all the same. ((stupid and rude))
E-mail: Shortbutsweet702@aol.com
Gender: Female
Location: Florida BABY!
Age: 13
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so me and this guy have been best friends for about 7 years. and hes liked me before, but i didnt like him then. and now i like him...a lot, but he has a girlfriend and shes one of my good friends. i'm happy for them, and i wouldnt do ANYTHING to ruin their relationship, and i dont want to tell him because i dont want to make things awkward between us or anything. so, how can i put aside my feelings for him, and just be his best friend, without liking him, until hes available? any advice would be helpful. thanks (link)
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1. you cant make yourself not like him. If you like him then tell him. the EASIEST way would be to tell him through a note something that says maybe:
"hey (babe) well yea just here being bored and thought i would write you a note :] well what are you up to hey i need to tell you something promise it wont be weird?"
wait for his reply ..
if he says something like "i promise just tell me." then tell him throuhg a not just say :
"I think i really like 'this guy'" and continue to play stupid about it ask HIM about how you should tell 'this guy' you like him. . .when
he replys just tel him exactly how it is.. tell him how he sugested
if he doesnt feel the same way he wont dwell on it he'll change the subject,
but o well if he doenst like you back thats life.. o well . but at least you wont have to live with the wat if ..
hope i helped
:]
KaTiE
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There's a guy, I like him, another girl that likes him. She is not my friend, I don't like her. However she has a nice headstart on flirting with him, in a stalkerish fashion (she knows where his locker is, she waits for him outside of class, she dominates his facebook wall, she came screaming down the hall, OMFG HE TALKED TO ME, and she acts really ditzy/stupid with him). I want to pursue him, however, I don't know if he really likes her back, or is just oblivious that she likes him... Because seriously, he's gotta be pretty oblivious to not know that when she says "I love - [insert initials]" that it's his initials. I don't think he really knows I exist either, besides that he probably acknowledges me as that (weirdo) chick at the other end of the classroom.
So a couple of questions.
1)How do I get his attention?
2)If I was to flirt with him how would I do it?
3)What about that girl, I'm scared she'll do something to me ):. (link)
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1. To get his attention just try to talk to him.. you vcan say anything that you think will interest him .. maybe ask him a simple question about sports or something.. conversation starters are the best.
2. To flirt with him, well just lauhg at his jokes hit him when you talk to him (not hard but like a little tough hit) "run" into him on "acedent" .
3. She wont touch and if she says something to you just return wiht a smirk on your face and a look thyat simpley says "sorry im a better flirt" she wont Do anything.
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OK i need all of your opinions! i have to write a story, and i'm deciding between two plots. I need as many opinions as possible please! thanks
1. about a girl, 15 or so, her mother died when she was very young, over the summer she is in a store and meets a woman in her 30's, 40's, the woman tells her about a place up the mountain where she is landscaping this whole big beautiful garden like thing. The woman offers to teach her to garden in return for the girl helping out. they start to do that and become friend. All the while the younger girl is kind of seeing this woman as a mother figure even though the woman isn't doing anything motherly, they're just friends. In the end, she puts too much trust in the woman, and is disapointed because the woman like goes away without telling her or something else bad that she knows a "mother" wouldn't do. And it's basically about that, just how when people want something so badly they see things that aren't really there. She wanted a motherly so desperately that she clung to anyone and was let down.
2. a girl in ny city, her mother dies and she finds an adress of a family member(she doesn't know any of her relatives) they live down south so she goes there to find them. She finds out that her "mother" is actually her aunt her took her away when her mother went crazy. So it's about her learning about the south and meeting family and getting to know her mom.
which should i do? i'm better at descriptions than big exciting course of events. which one is more original and crative, and what should i do? does the first one seem like boring, like it's been done before and is too disney, cliche, boring?
PLEASE HELP ME DECIDE
I really want it to be well written
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i liek the first one.
i think that it may be a bit disney but it could work witha little twist.
Something like, \the gil is dreaming aboutt he woman being her mother snd stuff then the next day she gos to the store and meets the woman.
or something like instead of the woman leaving it ends up the garden is goign to be turned into a paying pak where people have to pay and stuff and the woman is just using the girl to get money and stuff something like that
it would even be cool to do both hope i helped.
KaTiE!
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I been going out with this girl for a month now and one of my best friends told me that in his 6th pd class some people said that who would go out with me and then my other best friend said that my girlfriend said that people are telling her to break up with me but she isnt HELP ME!!!!!!!!! (link)
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Well i kinda understand (f) I have had a LOT of guys that I lik ask me out and then when i say yes people tell me i should break up with.
But the truth is that if she really likes you then she wont listen to them. I'm not going to say if she really "loves" you, because cahnces are she doesnt love you. YOu guys have only been dating for a month soo it isnt love.
If she does break up with you for what other people say then forget her and move on. she isnt worth it if she cares what other people think. that is honestly the best advice i cn give you.
Hope I helped. Katie
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My mom is punishing me because i got an In danger of failing in math. She told me No Comp. for 2 weeks, I dont really want that so I go on anyway. She caught me on and started cursing about how she doesnt trust me and how I "ripped her heart out" and how I'm disrespecting her, I had plans with my best firend tomorrow which she's making me cancel and she's just mad. I don undestand why she has to be on my back about it, she should just let me be. She talks about how she doesnt want the punishment to get bad, but she's making it bad, no one is forcing her to make things this bad, she's doing it on her own.
What can I do?!
-Jordan
13, Female. (link)
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WELl you know parents will be parents. . .
The best thing to do is to just do what she says..
When your punishment is over talk just the two of you and try to see her side of things...
And at the same time explain your side too. But if this starts an arguement be the bigger persona dn apoligize and walk away ((not like a smart butt either))
during your punishment, you need to avoid any arguement with your mom, clean up around the house, do your best in math, and do everything your mom asks with a REaL smile on your face.
I know its not funn but it will make your mom not be so mad and possibly releave your punishment sooner.
As far as to succeed in math you need to d as follows.
*Get a BEFORE progress report showing your current assignements
**Ask if there is any extra credit you can do/or if you can make up any missing asighnments
***See if any of you :smart" friends will help you tudor in math
****Get an AFTER peogress report from your teacher and see the difference in your grade.
Hope I helped..
Best of Luuck
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i cant get my hair to scrunch right. my hair is naturally pretty curly hair, so when i do the get out of the shower - towel dry - and scrunch method, it ends up REALLY thick and poofy and ugly. so usually what i do is wear it straightened for a day, then the next day i dampen it with my hands some, and try scrunching it again. this works a little better, but not much. i love the way it looks after i dampen it, because its really loose wet waves. but when i scrunch it and dries it totally loses the wet look, which i want, and it gets BIG and curly and not just loose and wavy.
so what can i do?
also i just bought that Garnier Fructis hard curl gel [i forget what its called exactly] so will that help some? i havent used it yet! thanks (link)
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Ok wel first thing first dont use curl gel since you have curly hair you need to use Mouse not gel.
when you get out of the shower, bend over and scrunch your hair as if the mouse was already in it.
when you get out DO NOT dry your hair with anything but a small hand towel. ((also only dry it a little you still waant it to be wet just not "drippeing wet"))
Next you need to put the mouse in your hands (youll only need about the size of your palm if you need more later you can add it))
as you scrunch it bend over and do exactly what you did when you got out of the shower .
Next spray your hair IMEADENTLY ((sorry cant spell very well)) after applying the mouse.
spray your hair throughly flipping your hair over to get the underside and inside too!
((if you dont get the inside then your hair will poof from the inside out))((blieve me i know what im talking about))
Last you need to aplly a little more mouse ((this time about haklf the amount you apllyed before))
and spray your hair all over again with the hair spray (9almost twice as much as you did before))
This shoudl work VERY WELL for all types hair.
Hope I helped,
best of luck!
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how can i get my hair to stay straight? its about at the bottom of my shoulder blades in the back, and in the front its like at the top of my chest. its naturally really thick and curly. i already blow dry it as straight as i can get it, then straighten it with a Conair flat iron. it looks really good when i first do it, then then it gets wavy or poofy as the day goes on. i put gel in it to try to smooth it out after i straighten it. ahh!
also, whats a really good straightener that i can get for under about $40 [i know i wont get a REALLY good one for that price, but whats the best for that range] that i dont have to order? (link)
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Ok well I have naturally "relaxed" hair so I might not be able to relate, but i have done my sister's hair ((she has reall curly nd thick hair too))
Well when I do her hair I always ask her to wash it about an hour or so in advanced ((or ou can wash it the night before))
Then while its still wet I put some anti frizz in ((something from "TRESemme' is what I would recomend))
Let your hair air dry that way it doesnt get frizzy or poofy from the blow dryer.
When you begin to straighten your hair, since it is thick, straighten it in layers. ((you know clp some up, straigthen, take some down, etc. this way you cn straighten the peices individuley.))
FYI: dont take too much hair when you straighten a peice.
As far as a cheap and good straighten that you dont have to order goes, I use something ceramic from CONAIR.
DOs: Get a straightener with high heat settings to stiffen the hair.
DONTs: dont get a "wet dry" striaghtener (they tend to make hair poofy and frizzy))
dont touch your hair too much after you straighten it ((the moisture from your hair messes up the hair and mkes it poofy.
Dont straighten your hair on humid days.
Well Hope I helped.
Best of luck...
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hey, well im 13/f and im in the 8th grade. i went to a school kidnergarten until 6th grade then transfered for my 7th grade year. the school i transfered to is a school that has 7th grade up till 12th grade. at my old school i was pretty popular. i had a lot of friends both boys and girls. in fact, i used to be more popular then most people in my old school. then when i transfered [i transfered with some of my friends from my old school] i became less popular. the friends that i once was more popular then became more popular than me. sometimes they hang out with an older crowd like 15 year olds. in my new school, basically all i have is them. i dont hang out with the 15 year olds like they do. sometimes i feel excluded. i cant find a new group of friends because there is no one. i tried hanging out with new people and i just felt like a third wheel. i cant talk to them either because i did that twice and then they fix it for like a week then start again. i dont know what to do. help me? (link)
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Well I moved schools recently well ((like forever ago butt?)) anyways,
I know where you are comming from. .
Whenn I was like in 4th grade i switched schools, I didnt know anyone and felt like such an outcast.
Then I just was like "whats with me? Get out there and make some friends" just talk to your self in your head and just tell your self to move on from your old friends.
You mght never be very popular in your new school but you wont be such an out cast anymore.
just become out going have a party as soon as you meet BUNCHES of people and invite everyone!
Hope I helped
Best of luck
KaTiE! ;)
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i just got acrylic nails last night. i got the ones with white tips and then they filled in the rest. i was just wondering when i need to get them filled like how often? also do the nails get weaker when you take a bath or anything [considering your natural nails do and because the tips have glue and the clear stuff on them] and any other information or experiences with acrylic nails would be great. (link)
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Hey well yeah I always have acrylic nails ((but not during practice my coach would soo kill me))
But anyways, its best to get them filed about every 2 weeks.
Well hope I helped
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Hey Y'all!! :]]
I'm a girl and sometimes I get turned on by other girls. Does this make me a lesbian?? I dont want to have a relationship with them though. And I get crushes on guys, not girls. What do ya think? (link)
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This does not make you a lesbian. It is totally normal to be curious and want to experiment.
Making out with them and kissing them, etc.
Thats nothing f you dont want to date them its not concidered lesbian to me!
Hope I helped
best of luck
K@T!E
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long story short i use chewing tobacco and my gums are receeding and i need to find a product to help cure this. does anyone know of a product i could buy from likea cvs or walgreens or sumthing like that, also is there anything else i can to to help my gums grow back (link)
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Rinse your mouth vigorously with hot salt water (one teaspoon of salt to one cup of water) for two minutes, three-times-a-day.
Wel the best way I can think of is
Use dental floss twice a day. Move the floss in every direction ((front, back, etc.)) of every tooth until it's squeaky clean. ((Even if there's not a tooth next to it)) Brush with soft bristle toothbrushes ((hard bristles can encourage receding gums)). Brush your gums as well as your teeth.
Also it is best to use HOTT salt water and rnse your mouth as many as 3 times a day.
Also see a dentist and go back for check ups regularly ((around 6/12 months))
Hope I helped
Best of luck
K@T!E
P.s._ lso STOPP chewing its addicting but bad for you and it can desinigrate your gums, and give you various of cancers.
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i lik this guy but we havent talked in a long time i used to lik him alot but then he left me hangin for my best friend for the longest time wat should i do
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I know you place. Been there a million times!
I have a really pretty best friend. See Im not the chestiest person int he world and she is lets just leave it at that.
I think thta even if he did leave you haning then he dserves a second chance.. but dont jump into it too fast. if you do youll loose site of things.
Take it slow.
If you dont like him anymore then forget him and move on.,
Show him what he missed out on thats so improtant.
Hpe i helped
best of luck ;)
K@T!E
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I used to be so outgoing, I was friends with everyone and I talked to anyone. But latley, I've noticed my list of friends has shrunk, I spend more time at home, and I'm becoming shyer and shyer. I worry when we get new nine week classes, because I'm afraid I won't get any classes with my friends when I used to be happy with whoever I got. How do I get the old me back? (link)
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Well sometimes people get a little shy over time. Its totally normal.
Some people tend to just get bored of the same thing and then stop talking to everyone and dont make new friends.
Just find some random person in your new elective, and begin to talk to them .
Then have a party for no apearent reason. ((This pretty much just gets you back on the social ladder))
Hpe I helped
Best of luck ;)
K@T!E
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in size of a penis how big would you say is big? womens opinion please? for a teenager that is. (link)
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Well i dont know honesstly i think you should ask a doctor or someone who would really know .
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Hello!
This might be a long story but just bare with me :)
Alright well my best guy friend started to like me.. alot
well i knew from the beginning it was a bad idea.
but i began to like him too. The day after his bday, i freaked out and told him i didnt like him anymore and we should be friends. Alot of people were dissapointed, and the person i am, worring about everyone, i thought the only solution was to like him again. And it happened. ( i havent had a good history of boys, all of them lead me on, and i dont have any trust in them, since he was my best friend, i had alot of trust.) well he tried to make alot of moves on me but... yeah.. we finally did stuff at the movies and that night he put like "tonight was amazing blah blah i really like her" on his away message. Well the next day he messaged me saying it was akward and he didnt like and he wanted to stay friends. Well i was pissed b/c he kinda lead me on.. and now we dont even talk.. and i hate him. no trust
i was just wondering what do you think changed his mind? (link)
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I know exactly where you are coming from.,
But saddly it was probably his friends that changed his mind. If his friends didnt like you, or thought he could gt someon "hotter" then he probably "moved on" on the outside he doesnt like you but. Hinestly on the inside he pobably never stopped likeing you at all.
My advice is to write him a long essaage telling him that you liked him a lot an dthat he hurt you alot. tell him exactly how you feel and hw you felt. then get a boyfriend and show your "old best friend" what he missed out on! ;)
Well hope that i helped.
Best of Luck!
K@T!E
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Ok so my friend(15/f died, along with her dad and brother in a car crash. Her mom and older sister are the only ones who survived.
Alot of people on myspace and msn, ect... are writing a bunch of messages about her and to her family type thing. I was wondering if I should post a bullentin saying that everyone should write a message to them about her or w/e and then we should have someone give them to the mother. Is this a good idea or would it just hurt the family more? I just want to show support and what not so yea...what's the best thing to do? (link)
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I understand hat you re going through ((well sort of))
When I was about 10 years old ((13/f)). One of my reall good friends died. So when I was in 6th grade I helped my teadher with a campaign to raise money for a plack at our school in honor of her.
At first we though of the way it would affect the family. No way in ay shape or form will this hurt the family.
Although it may bring back memories if anything it will help. I think you should go for it. This may help everyone to get over the death, no one will ever forget but they can remember better memories of her/him.
Hop that I helped,
Best of luck
K@t!E
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ive been taking a shower once a day washing my face 2wice a day and all that happens is i brake out more and im getting sick of it and i baught face wash and im starting to use proactive but ive been washing my face for a year and its still not working what should i do (link)
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Sometimes you may over wash your face.
My suggestion is to wash your face while youre in the shower. also try changing the soap/face wash you use your face may not be capitable with the wash you use.
Proctive should help by I would only use it once a day instead of twice a day.
Hope I Helped.
K@T!E
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Well I have this friend we will call her D, and she is like SO awesome and I LOVE hanging out with her! But D is has a bestfriend(not me were just good friends but im her 2nd bff) her bff treats her like dirt. I dont want to tell her because she will probably get mad at me or something.
And D sometimes treats me that way too because i guess she is use to having people treat her like that but whenever I say anything to her about it shes always like "Chill Im just kidding" but shes sooo mean when she does it!
So what do I do//Tell her? (link)
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The irst thing to do is make a date that the two of you can hang out. Mayb going shopping or having a "sleep over", then gradually begin to talk about her #1 bff and the way her bff treats her. Then bring up the fact that sometimes your friend begins to act like that.
stop before all drama though. and just move on.
If it continues to happen then maybe she isnt a true friend and you should move on. . ..
Hope I Helped
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OK- I've went out with this guy a thousand times, and he is a great guy, but lately he has been acting really jealous. Yesterday, he got really jealous about me giving one of my bestfriends Frank (who just so happens to be my cousins boyfriend) hugs. I mean I understand getting jealous because believe me, I am defenetly the jealous type and I know that, but he has never been the jealous type, or at least he has never showed it. Anyway, this is getting kind of long, so just please help me out here.
THANK YOU SO MUCH!
LeeAnna (link)
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The thing to do is just have a talk with him. Open up maybe at dinner or a movie.
You have to let him know the way you feel, otherwise he will never stopp.
Then you have to PROVE to him he is the only guy for you. Explain that you love him and that no mater how many guys you hug at the end of the day his hug is the only thing that matters.
Hope I Helped
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okay i broke up with my boyfriend about a week ago and to be honest, i didn't even miss him..he had hurt me really bad and i was just glad to be free. well, yesterday i went to his house to talk in person and i felt so happy..i felt like i loved him i had the most amazing time and i also felt guilty because i had been so mean to him after we broke up..but NOW i regret going over there because hes treating me like we're back together and i only feel like i love him when i'm with him and i like being single it bothers me to have him talking to me all the time! should i tell him to back off a bit? or would that hurt him too much? he loves me alot by the way. (link)
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Sometimes getting over a break-up can be hard for anyone, even guys ((especially when they got dumped))
Sometimes guys try to "win" you back by pretending you guys are together.
Its totally normal, but this is when you politly tell the guy that you need your space. Tell him youre confused in mixed feelings and you just need time to think.
You need to get out there and try out some other boys.
The time has come make every minute orth the amount of money you spend on gass ((LOL)) =)
Hope I Helped
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