Question Posted Thursday December 21 2006, 6:37 pm
okay i broke up with my boyfriend about a week ago and to be honest, i didn't even miss him..he had hurt me really bad and i was just glad to be free. well, yesterday i went to his house to talk in person and i felt so happy..i felt like i loved him i had the most amazing time and i also felt guilty because i had been so mean to him after we broke up..but NOW i regret going over there because hes treating me like we're back together and i only feel like i love him when i'm with him and i like being single it bothers me to have him talking to me all the time! should i tell him to back off a bit? or would that hurt him too much? he loves me alot by the way.
missadvicebitch1 answered Thursday December 21 2006, 8:14 pm: hey, okay well dont leave him hanging like that. hes going to end up getting hurt if you continue to make him believe that you love/like him. if you want to maybe get into a relationship with him in the future tell him that your not ready to get back into a relationship with him, but you think that you would be interested in doing that in the future. if you dont want to do that, tell him that you just dont feel the same way about him anymore that you just want to eb friends. let him know the deal.
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KatieKinns702 answered Thursday December 21 2006, 7:47 pm: Sometimes getting over a break-up can be hard for anyone, even guys ((especially when they got dumped))
Sometimes guys try to "win" you back by pretending you guys are together.
Its totally normal, but this is when you politly tell the guy that you need your space. Tell him youre confused in mixed feelings and you just need time to think.
You need to get out there and try out some other boys.
The time has come make every minute orth the amount of money you spend on gass ((LOL)) =)
Hope I Helped
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ohxthexdrama answered Thursday December 21 2006, 7:27 pm: <font face=century gothic font size=4px>so of course i don't know the complete story but, from what i can tell, he hurt you enough for you to relize you couldn't trust him (or somthing along those lines). if he just would have been loyal or w.e this wouldnt have happened. there are many other fish in the sea and i think, if anything, you should wait a while before you begin a new relationship with him.hope this helped. xo</font> [ ohxthexdrama's advice column | Ask ohxthexdrama A Question ]
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