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HELP
i broke up with my boyfriend but i think he wants us to be bf and gf again and my friends think i still like him and the days go by and i get stupid and go back together with him i dont know what to do can someone help me please
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You should stop leading this guy on. Take a break & think for like a week, stay single and see if you actually like him. Your friends don't know if you like him, you're the only one who knows.
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hey, i just got over a similar problem. i realized that if me and him were meant to be then we wouldnt have broken up. give it some time and just chill and fly single for a while. leave your options open but stay good friends with this guy. if a while passes by and you stil feel strongly for him and your not seeming to get into a relationship with anyone else then hes your guy.
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I was actually in the exact same situation recently.
Your probably more afraid of hurting him than yourself.
Do you like him?
If you don't, don't get back together and if you are already back together (I couldnt tell by the wording of your queastion) you have to let him down easy. You can try one of two options that helped me:
1. Tell him you want to take your status down to just friends, that feels like less of a breakup and just a status change
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2. Tell him you have a lot (nothing to do with him) going on in your life, and you need to take a break with him and just sort it out. Tell him that on a date you pick (probably about a week after) you will discuss your relationship again. when you discuss it (if he even remembers) just go with the whole...you have a lot of stuff going on thing. try to make him feel like hes the one breaking up with you.
If you do like him, just enjoy his company and see what happens.
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who cares what your friends think..do you stil like him?? if you still like him alot and are completely sure you want to be in a relationship with him then give him another chance..DO NOT get back with him just because he wants to and you dont wanna hurt him..trust me i did that once and i regretted it..if you still like and want to be with him again then listen to what your hearts telling you and just go for it.
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