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1 guy 2 girls
There's a guy, I like him, another girl that likes him. She is not my friend, I don't like her. However she has a nice headstart on flirting with him, in a stalkerish fashion (she knows where his locker is, she waits for him outside of class, she dominates his facebook wall, she came screaming down the hall, OMFG HE TALKED TO ME, and she acts really ditzy/stupid with him). I want to pursue him, however, I don't know if he really likes her back, or is just oblivious that she likes him... Because seriously, he's gotta be pretty oblivious to not know that when she says "I love - [insert initials]" that it's his initials. I don't think he really knows I exist either, besides that he probably acknowledges me as that (weirdo) chick at the other end of the classroom.
So a couple of questions.
1)How do I get his attention?
2)If I was to flirt with him how would I do it?
3)What about that girl, I'm scared she'll do something to me ):.
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1. To get his attention just try to talk to him.. you vcan say anything that you think will interest him .. maybe ask him a simple question about sports or something.. conversation starters are the best.
2. To flirt with him, well just lauhg at his jokes hit him when you talk to him (not hard but like a little tough hit) "run" into him on "acedent" .
3. She wont touch and if she says something to you just return wiht a smirk on your face and a look thyat simpley says "sorry im a better flirt" she wont Do anything.
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1) a. make yourself noticed by hanging around where he hangs out just like the other girl, but don't hang around when she it there
b. casually start by saying hi when he walks by
c. eventually go up to him and ask him a question that requires more than a yes or no answer like...
- What do you think of (a teacher, a class)?
-Who's your favorite teacher at our school? What makes them your favorite?
-What do you think of schools that make the students wear uniforms?
-What do you think our team's chances are this year? (football team, soccer team, swim team, etc.)
2) a. At a party, in a group of people or even at school, look over at the guy you like, smile and give him a quick wink!
b. when you are in class if you catch him looking your way blow him a kiss, if he asks you about it later you could say well my friends and i were playing a game where you have to blow a kiss at anyone who looks at you
c. give him a nickname like say his name is robert you could call him robby or something
d. create an inside joke it will give you an excuse to talk to him
e. compliment him on his his shirt, hair cut, etc.
3) Don't let her know that you are after the same guy, you don't want to make it a competition If she doesn't know than you have nothing to worry about
Hope I helped :)
Nicole x0x Good luck, I would be really interested to know how it worked out and if you have anymore questions
you can email me at softballchickx28@aim.com
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first of all talking to him, don't be nervous act like he's a regular guy, think that he has a girlfriend that makes things easier!so you'll behave like you didn't matter..also think about you being his friend that's all it's an easy way to talk to guys..thinking they are your friends,, or that he has a girlfriend :) , also don't worry about the other girl now..i mean if he likes her soo much ..they would be dating by now 'cause she seems like the kind of girl that maybe has already asked him out or anything. so if they are still friends or soemthing it's cause he doesn't want anything else with her , if he would..somthing would already happen by now good luck try talk to him like when you talk to your friens :)
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