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On Friday, the dude I'm dating called me on my landline at a time when he knew I wouldn't be home. He left this message: "Just calling to say hi. Hope you're doing something fun this weekend."
I thought it was rude, like he was saying, "I'm calling you when I know you're not home to tell you: Don't think you're going to get to spend time with me this weekend, because I won't be available."
I think he should have just not called at all.
What's your opinion?
Thanks! (link)
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I dont think you should jump and immediately be angry with him or think he is doing something wrong. Maybe he didnt want to upset you depending on how your relationship with it could have lead to a big argument or something. But maybe he was being petty, the problem is that we don'k know, so solution find out. Just call him back and ask him, communication in your relationship should at least be strong enough to where you can at least talk about something small like this, and if its not maybe there is a deeper problem. But yeah i really don't think you should quickly get mad or conclude anything and definitely not retaliate or do anything like that
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So today i was walking into school with mc donalds coffee and my crush joked saying " where's mine" so tomorrow when i buy myself coffee and buy him as well as a joke and be like " since you wanted yesterday, heres your coffee" ?
16/f
Hes 17/m
I think he does like me back (link)
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i dont think he actually wanted coffee i think he was joking with you in a flirty way but sure girl go but him a coffee if you want
But i do say dont buy your crush or anybody things just to get them to like you. If they ask you for stuff that is a red flag that they are probably materialistic
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I'm 17 and I have a crush on a guy at school, and I would like to know how to get his attention. I know we have things in common but we only talk on occasion. So how do i get his attention? (link)
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um one thing you can do to kinda get his attention is to make the move, text him more, find out things you have in common and that is really asking like a lion to be nice to a deer but you know, talking to guys is hard but if you like him go ahead and take a shot at it and if it fails.....Its okay there are 17 billion people in the world plus you are young and have a whole lifetime ahead of you XD
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Hey there.
I am nearly 14, and I have pretty decent friends at school. My group is pretty closely knitted and I always liked it.
My friends do invite me to events, and I've been to their houses and stuff a couple of times. But this weekend, I found out that they threw a party without me. I don't know what I've done wrong, and I don't know what to think of it. I thought they were my friends.
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Hey so i dont know if my situations would be similar to you, but i think some of my friends are close ish, i have been to their house but they dont invite me to stuff. so i can tell u your pretty lucky...... Really the best thing you can do is ask them straight up, are you mad at me, are you frustrated, did i do anything wrong or anything. If they say no no its nothing, dont be a biotch about it but just be like, so why did i not get invited, and you have to know the difference between a truth and a lie. You know these people and you probably know when they are being fake so you know if their lying and if they lie to you maybe they arent the best set of friends to have, and i know that its hard getting "rid" of friends but really you always always have to know what is best for you personally,friends isnt whats gonna make you successful and shoot if u need a friend just send me a direct question and i can talk to you :) i hoped this helped
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I met a guy on deviant art who was 20 (I'm 13 but I turn 14 on January 7th) and we started talking. I never had my age or name up on my profile. Or how I looked like. So he didn't know how old I was or any of that. He saw my art, though and thought I was so great. He had a fan fiction series he was writing and I suggested he made a Wattpad account for it. So he did. And we chatted on there more. One day I suggested he added a cover to his fan fiction and he said he wasn't too good at making covers so I offered to draw one for him. I finished it within a week (I think). He loved it and even told me I did so well, he kinda wanted to give me virtual kisses because of it. I was kinda shocked and didn't know how to respond at first. Then I replied- "That's cute. *virtual kisses* 😘" He did the same. Ever since, we'd been giving each other virtual kisses and I was had been so into him while we were talking as friends so I went along with it. Later on, we got pretty close and I lived it. However, one day I was just looking around at his profile and I saw it. He was 20 effing years old. I didn't know what to do because I was already so into him and thought my age could scare him off. But I ignored it for a while. Months later (and quite recently) he asked me how old I was and my hear freaking SINKED. I freaked out big time and didn't know what to say. I was thinking "Should I tell him my real age?" "What if he never talks to me again?" "What's gonna happen?" Eventually, I freaked out and told him I was 15, thinking it would freak him out a little less (again, I'm 13). His reaction wasn't really good at first but he said he'd wait for me and he thinks I'm turning 18 in 2019 but I'm really turning 18 in 2020. So instead of 3 years, he'd have to wait 5 years for me to turn 18. It's almost been a month since then and I'm in love with this guy. I know how he looks, how he sounds, and everything. He has a YouTube channel as well but anyways yeah. We've been texting on Kik for awhile now. But idk what to do, PLEASE HELP. WE'VE BEEN FLIRTING A LOT AND WE ARE SUPPOSED TO MEET EACH OTHER ONE DAY. IM SCARED HOW HE'LL REACT AND THAT HE'LL STOP TALKING TO ME!!! HELP!!!!!
I don't even CARE if he doesn't want a relationship. Just having him still talk to me will be enough. (link)
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HI this has happened to so many of my friends.I would say to you tell the truth, if something ever were to happen he could in trouble for talking to a minor and you don't want that to happen okay. Tell him your real age and if he doesn't want to talk leave it to him to think about what happens next. you yourself have to understand that he might be frustrated at you and may not want to talk because he asked you and you lied to him. so i can say that yea he will be pissed and maybe he will keep talking to you but you have to have to tell him the truth immediatley !!!!i can help you through this also. my deviantart account is bluewhales0413. please please get in touch with me so i can help
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so I broke up with my GF over 8 months ago, she's moved on, living with someone now. I only found this out 2 weeks ago. We all 3 happen to work at the same place, although we rarely if ever see one another. I'm finding myself becoming obsessed with them. What are they doing, are they together, where are they. I hate doing these things, but, like I said it's really becoming an obsession. HELP! How do I stop this unhealthy behavior? (link)
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okay so if i am reading this correctly, You have just found out that your ex moved in with another one of your coworkers and even though you and your ex broke up over 8 months ago, you still want to know everything that goes on in their relationship. I don't blame you, even after you have been separated for a while, you still have that feeling of like "i had her first" and "i loved her first" and that's normal for anyone who was in a relationship. So my guess is that your probably not dating much, Just a guess i don't mean that in an offensive way.so something you can do is find some other women to date on match.com or something like that, and try to make a connection with someone new because most of the time when you make that connection, you wont be so like jealous of your ex relationship and want to be apart of it so much, because you will have found happiness yourself. something else that might help is if you haven't talked to your ex then it might help to ask her about how life is going so you know whats happening, i would not reccomend you do this until you have started dating someone your happy our you enjoy yourself with. Something else you may wanna do is have sex. And there is no other way to say it. I mean don't go scoping out women just to sleep with , but find one girl u like and feel happy with, take things at her pace, and when you both are ready , take that next step. You may be thinking, how the hell does this help me, but basically the moral of this advice is that once u please yourself and find happiness with someone like your ex has, you wont be so obsessed with her relationship. And i hope you know this will definatley take some time and in that time span you may just wanna stay your distance from that whole relationship and start a hobby or something
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I am a girl, currently in Grade 12, and I have had a crush on this one guy in my grade since halfway through first semester grade 9.
He is really cute, and he loves singing and history. He is really funny, but can also be quite serious. He tends to be quite loud in class(he is in no way shy), but he is so sweet and kind and honest that the teachers rarely get mad at him.
I am quite(extremely...) shy when in a group setting, but one on one I tend to open up a bit. However, I only ever see this guy in class, in choir, and when our two friend groups (occasionally) hang out together.
He is always hanging around with this one group of girls, but he would never date any of them, so I know that's not an issue. The problem is that he's always with them. I get along well with all of them, a couple are even sort of my friends, but it would be awkward for me to just join their group when they are talking or whatever. I have in the past, like if they are in my class and my regular friends aren't but its just a little awkward...anyways yeah I feel too awkward to get closer to him that way.
He jokes around a lot, and when we are in a small group of people together, he sometimes/often teases me more than the other people in the group. In class the other day, he came over to talk to me, and he asked me about why I had been late for class that morning. He has done similar things a number of times in the past.
Also, just to point out, he is straight. I know this for sure. The girls he hangs out with have been his friends for years, they are like sisters to him...
Another problem- I am scared to tell my friends I like him. I told them a couple years ago, but they laughed and told me we would make a really awkward couple (probably because I'm 5'9", and at the time he was super skinny and like 5'3", but he's grown since then). I would love to have their support, but we don't really talk about guys much, and I feel like I've been lying to them for years about this guy..not that I ever lied...I just didn't speak up...
Also, casual out-of-school meetings are difficult because he lives in a different city than I do, although we go to the same school (it's a private school). I can't just casually invite him to do something with me like randomly on a Saturday because he lives like a 45 minute drive away..
I guess what I want to know is: do I have any chance with him? and how do I got about getting that chance? (link)
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Hey so i was so interested in this question because that is so similar to the situation i was in. So i will explain what happened to me and how i solved it. so basically i liked this guy (who is now my boyfriend) since 3 grade. Although our personalities are different. He is shy and i am more like loud and out going. So he has a certain group of people he hangs out with.He thinks of them as like his best friends/siblings. So i have had a little problems with my friends. I have a lot of friends and every last one of them think that he is ugly/ gross but thats their opinion and i think he is perfect...Anyways, i told my friends that i had a crush on him and they all said stuff like eww and he is gross and he isnt right and crap like that. So i had to reach out to his friend. Which could be something you can do.Text which ever girl you are closets to in the group of girls he hangs out with and tell her how u feel and ask her to help you out. If she follows thru then you may get a text from your crush. Then that would be your chance. If you can drive, you can invite him out to somewhere at a halfway point between you guys. Or just flirt with him.If you need more help after that point just keep in touch
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Hi, I'm a 14 year old and I want to give my bf a hand job. I've never did anything like that before, and I'm scared I might have a panic/asthma attack if I do because I have never done anything before. He says when I'm ready, but we both know he wants me to. Any suggestions? Oh, a bit of background: I'm 14, he is 13, but I'm only 3 months older than him and we have had phone sex and have been making out and we have been together for over 3 months now. Also, I have like rubbed the front of his pants and boxers and he has came from that but he wants skin to skin contact. From Europe. (link)
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okay my aunt and my cousin have asthma and they have asthma attacks when they are around something that they are allergic to like pollen. Another thing is when they are around like cigarrette smoke and perfume. so no for real you would not have a freaking asthma attack to be honest. And panic attack is when you have severe stress over something so you won't have a freaking panic attack unless your like stressing over moving your hand to slow or something.(sarcasm) If you have rubbed him before and made out with him,do the same thing as that...You guys are laying on the bed and making out, you pull down his pants and he is poking up like a stick. so you start to feel it and you grab it and start moving up and down till he cums. If your only doing a hand job that's all it will stop at. But most of the time those lead into some kind of oral in some way. I wouldn't allow him to take off a lot of your clothes cause that normally leads to sex. And if you are worried about messing up then one thing you can do to make the process go faster is that you can lay on top of him and kind of like rub up against it to make him hard and aroused while you are making out
DONT ever look at porn because those are actors and stuff doesn't actually like that. But i think you should do it like for your man. Dont be scared about messing up because i have a story for you so you don't ever feel bad about messing up so this story is from a perspective of a dude and as long as you dont do this your good :)
I was 21, my girlfriend was an 18 year old virgin (and a goodie goodie). She wasn't ready for sex, and she didn't like giving blowjobs (but she loved me going down on her), so all I could get from her was hand jobs. One time we were at her house (she lived with her parents), it was like 1:00 am and her parents were asleep. We were fooling around and, obviously, she started stroking me off. Just as I'm about to cum her dog walks up and starts sniffing around (I was on my back on her couch, she was kneeling on the floor over me). So she's jerking me with her left hand, I'm like "I'm about to cum" when the dog walks up. She stops tugging away to pet the dog, saying if she doesn't it will bark and wake up her parents. So I bitched at her not to ****ing stop right now, so she puts her left hand back to half ass jerk me and pets the dog with her right hand. The only problem is, it's pretty much over now. It was the worst orgasm ever!!!!!!!!!!
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Omg I can't believe I'm writing this but help would be appreciated. I am 14, and I hate my body. My breasts are tiny, my thighs are fat, and I have started to develop spots on my you know... Area. I wash my body at least twice a day and bathe every day. It's quite painful and I'm worried my bf will react bad if he sees. I don't want to go to the doctors because I'm so insecure about my body, and my crippling social anxiety that surrounds my body means that I hate PE at school and I can't go swimming without being self conscious. A lot of help is needed. Thanks. (link)
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i was really drawn to your question because i have had issues with my body and how i used to and kinda still feel about the way i look. So i have eczema which is defined as a medical condition in which the skin inflames and is rough which is kinda true and you probably know some people with eczema but i have it in more places that other people don't. I have always been self conscience because i am terrified about how people will react. I have not worn shorts to school since 3rd grade and i am in 7th grade....You do the math. And personally think the doctor helped out a lot i went to this amazing skin doctor and she was really nice and was real and gave me some stuff that actually helped which has never really happened before. And i really think that you should go to the doctor or have someone examine the spots on your lower areas because it is probably not anything but if you say its painful you need to get help pronto cause you don't want it to grow into something. Regarding your actual body size.. i think that guys like big thighs and just cause u have small boobs, so what.... You have what i call is a phatty (thats a good thing) and most guys i have run into are like DAYUMMM she got a phatty and like are all over them so your good in the body factor but you probably don't notice it when guys are like aweing over you. And the spots....It shouldn't matter what your lower area looks like. If you are planning to do sexual activities he should be happy that a beautiful girl like you have given him a chance to see your beautiful body.. And he should be lucky (if he ever sees your body and does something with it) because a lot of girls will not let a guy touch them and the girls that will, will let F*** anybody who gives them candy so yea he should feel lucky he got such a beautiful girl with a beautiful body
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people tend to think im a teen still in high school, but im a grown adult woman and well the city bus driver is sexxi as hell....and today he did a 360 degree turn to look me directly in my eyes just smiling his azz off and he was like "hey little lady"....I said hi, smiled and sat down...and as I got off the bus he looked at me again and told me to have a nice day.....should I tell him how old I really am, I do like him.... but I have vowed to never approach a man again...cuz things didn't turn out the way I had hoped the last time I did that.......I was almost on an episode of cheaters..lol
today he was just smiling with his head down when he seen me....should I ask him why does he act all giddy around me? he looks to be about 36 yrs old (link)
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okay i will try to make it short but you never know.....
so if you are a grown azz woman then there is nothing illegal.so that's good.
So the way you describe this bus driver is like he is hot as fire. And if you think so, go for it. Everybody has fails in relationships but those fails only help you with future relationships. I bet one thing you did on a bad relationship, you will never do it again because it ruined your relationship. But you never know what kind of relationship you could potentially have unless you get to know the person. HECK you could end up marrying this guy but you will never know unless you try. ( you see where i'm coming at ?)
And maybe he does like you back. So you ask him at struttin your stuff and get his phone number and ya'll are going to cafe la ritz after work and its a nice fancy azz resturant and all that good stuff , all because u built up the courage to ask him out...And maybe he doesn't like you, you could still be friends and maybe build a relationship friend wize. I really really think you shouldn't think about the failure but about the success you could have cause it sounds like this dude is vibing with you.SO JUST DO IT !!!!!
I hope my advice helped... Please tell me what happens if you do it ( which i really really hope you do) please please stay in touch and if you ever need more advice and you liked mine you can always ask for more
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Female, 14
WARNING: CRINGE TEENAGE BOY DRAMA
Hey, so I guess I am just writing this, seeking clarification.
So, I used to fancy this guy at my school for about a year and a half, he didn't know though. That was last year, and I got over him. Earlier this year, he began to fancy me, and he asked me out on a date. The thing was, I got over him for a reason, which was that all he seems to want is a girlfriend, so I was quite relluctant to say yes, but I said yes for one date, because I thought 'why not', that reason, and also that my friends had made it out like I did fancy him, so I felt like I had to say yes, which I know that I shouldn't feel forced to say yes to that sort of thing. Anyway, so I went on the date and then I told him that I friend zoned him. That was about a month ago.
Now, what has happened is that one of my best friends told me a few days ago that she fancies him. I told her that I wouldn't be comfortable if they dated, and she just laughed. I don't think she realises that there is a sort of 'girl code', and I have a right to be uncomfortable about the situation. She kind of neglected how I felt straight away, and that kind of upsets me. She asked me for his number several times. I was thinking to myself 'why him?'. The thing is, this friend of mine seems a little 'desperate', lack of a better word, for a boyfriend. When she fancies someone she moves quickly. The thing I find weird is that she was the one who told me what a 'player' he is, and that he likes anyone who likes him and all of that when I was the one who he fancied. Now she fancies him?
I, personally, don't want a boyfriend at the moment, as I would like to wait until I am older and more mature. She told me that she would like to date him, then she told me that it's only a crush, and she won't do anything about it, while she was asking me for his number - getting his number is doing something about it.
Now she has his number, somehow, and they have been talking a lot. I thought about it, and now I realise that I am not bothered by that, I think the reason I was a bit bothered by it was because she wasn't respecting that I wasn't OK with it. Now I am, but earlier, when I wasn't she just laughed and chased after him, as she was telling me that she's doing nothing wrong.
I don't fancy him at all anymore, and I am ok with her going on a date with him.
Was it selfish of me to not want them to date?
Now I think the issue for me is that she sort of just looked past my feelings, she didn't seem to care or try to look at my perspective. I am not going to mention it to her because I don't want to create drama, and I don't think she would understand to be honest with you.
Thank you for reading, any views or advice on this would be great, thanks! (link)
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okay so reading your story reminds me of something that happened to me..(quick flashback!!!)
So basically I was in one of the best relationships i have ever been like ever and i really liked my boyfriend, he was a really good and nice and generous person...But then one day he broke up with me and i was broken. (to this day i still have feelings for him) Well about a year or two later, My friend had said that my EX had just asked her out on like a "date". I was really upset and i was broken down.....But the thing is that i wasn't dating him so was it right for me to be upset and jealous that My friend was going on a date with someone i really liked/loved. I didn't really know because like its a hard question....
Anyways this relates to your question because I don't think its selfish that you didn't want her to date somebody that you had liked (fancied)
Regarding the friend, I think you need to take a step back and examine your relationship with her. I mean she could genuinely be a good person, but is she a good and true friend. She made it seem liked you liked the boy in the first place, Then when you tell her you don't like the kid, she goes and says that she likes him and your just sitting there thinking like "um okay, like as long as you don't do anything your good"....Then she turns around and says he asked her out and when you talk about your feelings,she laughs at you and runs off with the kid. so what i am seeing( and this is my opinion) is that your friend isn't honest to you cause she said that she wouldn't do anything then turned around and did something. But you forgave her ( i think) so that makes you a really good friend to her....And as a good friend i think that (if i am reading you right) you think/ know that this kid boy is basically desperate, he couldn't get you he goes for the next girl he knows has some sort of feelings for you.
And my final thought is for future references don't ever feel obliged (meaning forced or like you have to) to go on a date. one thing you could've said is that you really appriciated his offer but thought of you guys more as friends then as a couple.
I hope that this helped because i like helping someone who goes through similar things as me... so please keep me up at what happens...you know my name - justafriend1234
Hey i noticed you had replied.... And yea your right that there is no need to be jealous of anything. Good luck and always be there for your friend if that relationship doesnt work
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My bf came over my house and we layer on my bed with a lil space between us I sat up and noticed a huge bulge in his pants and his my face he didn't seem to notice. What does that mean though?
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Okay i am guessing that you are really really young or you just haven't really been exposed to the world. If your old enough to have your boyfriend come over and ya'll lay on the bed together then i think you might be old enough to know what that bulge, but then again i may be wrong. So i will explain... The bulge you see in his pants is his penis, now normally there isn't this bulge but he has always had a penis so yea why does it appear now, you might be asking. The penis "bulges" out of his pants when his sexual tension is starting to build up and his penis gets hard which is called an erection. SO if you ever hear someone say that so and so got excited they may be talking about him getting a bulge in his pants.
And one more thing, don't ever let anyone pressure u into helping their bulge out. Because that is something u need to wait till your older to do
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I have this friend who told me yesterday that he has feelings for me and he asked me if I wanted to go on a date with him some time. We've been close friends for about 4 years now, but I'm not interested in him at all like that. I told him I'm not interested, sorry,but don't worry this doesn't have to affect our friendship at all. And I genuinely mean that, he's my friend and I'm more than capable of not being awkward just because he has a little crush.
The thing is him telling me this made me think of something that happened a few months ago. A bunch of friends and I went out one night, he was there, and I got pretty drunk, like to the point where when we got back to another friend's house, where we were staying that night, I ended up puking then I passed out on a couch. The next morning when I woke up on the couch, he was lying on the couch next to me. He said he just fell asleep on that couch too, that he was tired and just too lazy to move to another couch, but he hadn't been drinking, he was completely sober, and there were plenty of other empty couches that he could have slept on. He has since, on multiple occasions, made a big deal about how he can only sleep on flat surfaces like beds and how even lying flat out on a couch he can't sleep like that because he's too tall for couches.
At the time I tried not to think too much of it, I didn't have any reason not to believe him, he's a good friend of mine, he said he just fell asleep on the couch, so I just assumed he wasn't lying.
Now I think he took advantage of the fact I was blackout drunk. And I'm angry about that, and I feel incredibly uncomfortable about the whole situation. I feel bad for him, it sucks when you have feelings for someone and they don't feel them back, and he's a good friend of mine, I care about him, I don't want to hurt his feelings. But I feel like what he did was not okay. At all.
So basically I don't know what to do, I don't know what to say to him, and I just want advice, I want to know what other people would do in my situation, I want to know if I'm justified in feeling angry about what happened.
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First i wanna say you did a good thing telling him u weren't interested in him in that way buy you still wanted to be friends. It isn't always easy telling someone your close to, that you don't want to be more than friends, this might make your friendship a little awkward but it will get better eventually. Now regarding about what happened at that friends house, you will never know if he was or was not lying about what happened, and you know why that is, it is because you were drinking way to much. There are a lot of responsibilities to being an adult and when you go out with someone, you have to make sure you stay safe and try to stay as sober as possible, you might be a grown adult but i think it was kind of not smart for you to get so drunk that you blacked out because something could have happened with you and that friend. I mean you could ask him but he wont tell you the truth if something actually did happen with you 2. But you can always forgive and forget. If he did something with you, forgive him. You forgave yourself for blacking out and not remembering anything, or for getting so drunk didnt you. You can forgive but you may never forget, but you can move past it. There is no need to think about it more and get more and more mad over it because that is going to build up anger that you are going to let out one day on someone you didn't mean to and this may ruin a relationship in your future. Don't think about what happened that night and just think about the present and the future with your friend. This may not mean a relationship couple wise but it can mean building up your friendship more
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Why do people bully poaple with special needs I'm thirteen my name is angel I have special needs I have ADHD and 2 types of autism and odd and bypolar disorder everyone bully's me because I have special needs what should I do?
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hello angel, you sound like a wonderful young girl. And for the people who bully you, they are obviously not nice people but the only advice i can give to you..SHAKE IT OFF SHAKE IT OFF CAUSE THE HATERS GONNA HATE HATE HATE HATE HATE
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Ideas for noted to put in a memory jar. (link)
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1. Silly songs you / your family sings
2. The crazy things people around you say
3. how you felt when you finally got over an illness
4. Random act of kindness
5. movie and game nights
6. Big scary bugs
7. Big scary messes
8. neat sightings
9. Traditions
10. Learning moments
11. Teaching moments
12. all of your first times doing anything
13. Books
14. your dreams and see if they come to reality
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after I put my money In the slot on the bus, the bus driver said to me thank you I appreciate it just smiling his azz off...he didn't say that to anyone else, everyone else just got a normal thank you. as i got off the bus, I told him have a great day and he just put his head down just smiling and watching me get off the bus and said you have a good day too...was he just being friendly or flirty? he is very nice looking, around 30-35, tall and very cute..i wouldn't mind going on a date with that guy....but im not the type to approach men due to previous bad experiences...this is the first time ive ever seen this driver .... (link)
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Okay maybe the bus driver was being extra friendly. Or maybe he did find you attractive, with some men you never know and because he is a bus driver, he may just have been being friendly but he didn't do that to anyone else. So maybe he was being flirty.
But something you can do is try to ride his bus again and get his information and then maybe ya'll can talk a bit and learn a little about each other. Then you can know if he is really your type. But if you feel like he was being more friendly than flirty, return the friendliness and maybe you can flirt a little with him,let him know that you find him attractive and that you would be willing to get to know him. If he rejects you or doesn't take the hint, then move on. There are plenty more fish in the sea.
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I'm a 15 year old male and a christian my whole family is very religious and i need some advice i really like a guy he's also 15 we have become really close and the other day he told me he likes me a lot and i told that i like him, so we want to be together we are a bit nervous about it getting out my parents may not like me being with another guy but i like him a lot and we want to be together it shouldn't matter that he's a guy so should we just go for it and be together? (link)
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Ok i am going to give you the best advice i can, I am also religious, and i believe that god made man to be with women and women to be with man. But i am then again saying that if one heart desires to be with someone of the same gender than no one can stand in the way of this. But you have to look at this from his parents perspective, they are also religious so them finding out that their son might be BI or gay may ruin his life. worse case senario, is that they will frown down on the idea and possibly keep you two apart. Or could kick him out or something for having shameful thought. then again ya'll are only 15 so don't sneak around cause that can ruin his life. Other than that idk what to say cause as i said, i am straight and pretty religious. Hope i helped
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I need help with my boyfriend's family ! I'm black and he's white and we've known each other since 6th grade but didn't start talking till the end of 8th. We really started talking at an end of middle school graduation party at my friend's house (we were 14) and we ended up getting really close really fast and he asked me out and I said yes. We dated for about 6 months without either of our families knowing because they're both overbearing and very controlling but about the middle of ninth grade I told my mom and she was not okay with it but I continued to date him. About the start of 10th grade I asked him why I hadn't met his family and he finally told me that they're against interracial relationship. I was so upset and hurt, but I still wanted him to tell his parents. A few weeks later, he did and they were furious and called him every name in the book. The night he told them, he invited me over because he was so mad and he snuck me in. We talked for a while and that talking led to hugging and kissing and touching and we ended up having sex (both our first times). His parents found out (I don't know how) and now they're even more furious and think I'm a whore now ?! What can I do to make them like me?! We're both 16 and have jobs, so it's not like we're doing anything horrible. We hang out all the time when we aren't working. I go over to his house a lot and his parents just act uncomfortable. They're nice to me, but they just seem not happy about us. What can I do to make them like me ? (link)
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Okay i am dating a white boy and i am African American boy. but we have only been dating for a month so i don't think either of our parents know. But i can tell you one thing. African Americans get looked down on and interracaial relationships get looked down on a lot, but if you feel like you and that boy are good,you keep persuing the relationship with the boy because if it comes down to it. If he ever asks you too marry him, his parents will have to live with it. (plus mixed babies are sooo cute) but you just have to be nice and respectful to his parents and you keep doing what your doing. DON'T EVER LET ANYONE TRY AND TAKE YO HAPPINESS
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Can some one get pregnant by using a condom (link)
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yes you can get pregnant even if you are using a condom. But an average woman 15 out of 100 get pregnant even while using a condom. But on another note, if you are worried about get pregnant why have sex in the first place? Me myself is against having sex before your married and its just a religion thing,but i do know one thing. Religion or not if your worried about getting pregnant and there is a chance u could, why have sex i mean you can make the moment more specail with your husband when you get married. And if you are married and dont wanna have kids go on BC and if your on BC, you married and use a condom then there are other stuff u can take to not be pregnant if your that worried about concieving a baby
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i had sex with my guy friend on saterday but then on monday i saw my ex boyfriend and had sex with hm also unexpectedly my quiestion is will my ex bf knw or tell that i slept with someone else b4 him coz pEople say a guy can feel when u slept with another guy and the 2nd question is that if i see my guy friend the weekend and we sleep together will he know and can feel i did something.. (link)
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no i don't think that your EX will be able to t tell that you had sex.
But you really need to think about your actions. You may be a grown adult but it's not smart or safe to have sex with people so often and with 2 different people. Even if you do use condoms, Its still not 100% safe when it needs to be 110% safe
1. Think about this- your ex is your ex for a reason. Ya'll broke up for a reason. And when you break up everything goes (Ecspecially the benefits)
So having sex with you ex could A) possibly make you catch feelings again. And 2) it could make him think he still has the benefits with yo. he could go and tell his friends, which starts a rumor or he could do worse and go and tell your guy friend, then you will really have problems
2.you have a attractive guy friend, you had sex with him. You might want to have sex with him again, but he finds out you had sex WITH YOUR EX right after YOU HAD SEX WITH HIM. he could get the wrong idea and then your friendship goes straight down the loo. So think about that- If so and so found out that i had sex with so and so, He would probably get mad at me. SO don't do that stupid stuff. I am not calling you stupid i am calling your actions stupid. So stop
3. You seem to persuing this relationship with your guy friend so even though guys cant exactly tell when you slept with another guy, they can, just like other people , feel when something is wrong. And if your worried about how he would react, then you know that you did something wrong and that you could possibly break up that friend ship,maybe. And why are you worried about what your EX thinks. IF he knew you were sleeping with one of your guy friends. And got mad then so what, yall are Ex's. Just stop giving it to him.
And come clean to your guy friend. It seems that yall are gonna be having sex so inform him of what happened before had so u don't feel bad when you go down on it
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