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should i buy my crush coffee tomorrow?
So today i was walking into school with mc donalds coffee and my crush joked saying " where's mine" so tomorrow when i buy myself coffee and buy him as well as a joke and be like " since you wanted yesterday, heres your coffee" ?
16/f
Hes 17/m
I think he does like me back
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i dont think he actually wanted coffee i think he was joking with you in a flirty way but sure girl go but him a coffee if you want
But i do say dont buy your crush or anybody things just to get them to like you. If they ask you for stuff that is a red flag that they are probably materialistic
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It probably wasn't as much that he wanted a coffee so bad as him groping for interesting things to say to you. Guys indeed have trouble knowing what to say to a gal. His comment is a typical one, meant to be a way to flirt. So if you do exactly as you've envisioned, that would be a great flirt back with the humor of joking. Although I would add just one thing. After saying 'here's your coffee', you might want to add, tomorrow or next time is your turn to get coffees for both of us."
Its one thing to take a gift from someone but its another to think to give back. Doing this makes it easy for him to return the favor which is even a better confirmation for you that he is into you in return. Its one thing to tease and joke in a flirt and some guys flirt only for the fun of flirting, not because they have interest in the girl the way she thinks he does. But if he makes the move to get you a coffee, he is having to make more effort than just speaking and that counts for something.
Don't however get stuck in a rut of trying to get him to like you by giving him things constantly when he doesn't make any efforts back where you are concerned. If a guy doesnt show any interest by what he does and says with you, gifts and attention won't change his mind.
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