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people tend to think im a teen still in high school, but im a grown adult woman and well the city bus driver is sexxi as hell....and today he did a 360 degree turn to look me directly in my eyes just smiling his azz off and he was like "hey little lady"....I said hi, smiled and sat down...and as I got off the bus he looked at me again and told me to have a nice day.....should I tell him how old I really am, I do like him.... but I have vowed to never approach a man again...cuz things didn't turn out the way I had hoped the last time I did that.......I was almost on an episode of cheaters..lol
today he was just smiling with his head down when he seen me....should I ask him why does he act all giddy around me? he looks to be about 36 yrs old
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okay i will try to make it short but you never know.....
so if you are a grown azz woman then there is nothing illegal.so that's good.
So the way you describe this bus driver is like he is hot as fire. And if you think so, go for it. Everybody has fails in relationships but those fails only help you with future relationships. I bet one thing you did on a bad relationship, you will never do it again because it ruined your relationship. But you never know what kind of relationship you could potentially have unless you get to know the person. HECK you could end up marrying this guy but you will never know unless you try. ( you see where i'm coming at ?)
And maybe he does like you back. So you ask him at struttin your stuff and get his phone number and ya'll are going to cafe la ritz after work and its a nice fancy azz resturant and all that good stuff , all because u built up the courage to ask him out...And maybe he doesn't like you, you could still be friends and maybe build a relationship friend wize. I really really think you shouldn't think about the failure but about the success you could have cause it sounds like this dude is vibing with you.SO JUST DO IT !!!!!
I hope my advice helped... Please tell me what happens if you do it ( which i really really hope you do) please please stay in touch and if you ever need more advice and you liked mine you can always ask for more
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One bad experience with anything should not mean to never try it again. If you have a bad meal at a restaurant does that mean you should never dine out again. No it just means that maybe you should not dine at that restaurant again.
You are going to have some bad experiences with dating and unfortunately these experiences are very hurtful. It is the same for men which I can attest to as we get questions from both men and women on how to move on after a bad experience. This is unfortunately what dating is all about, dating men or women until you find the one that is the absolute match to you.
This is not going to happen unless you get back in the pool. My short answer is to let the bus drive know you older than you look and you would be agreeable to him calling you. You could do this by simply passing him a note one day with your true age and phone number on it with the words, "CALL ME."
Now the ball is in his court. He can call you or not. IF he doesn't then you have nothing to be upset about. You opened the door to him. Leave the door open and go out, have fun and find guys to date.
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