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What do you think this phone message meant?
On Friday, the dude I'm dating called me on my landline at a time when he knew I wouldn't be home. He left this message: "Just calling to say hi. Hope you're doing something fun this weekend."
I thought it was rude, like he was saying, "I'm calling you when I know you're not home to tell you: Don't think you're going to get to spend time with me this weekend, because I won't be available."
I think he should have just not called at all.
What's your opinion?
Thanks!
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Just don't think much about it. Probably he's just missing you.
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I dont think you should jump and immediately be angry with him or think he is doing something wrong. Maybe he didnt want to upset you depending on how your relationship with it could have lead to a big argument or something. But maybe he was being petty, the problem is that we don'k know, so solution find out. Just call him back and ask him, communication in your relationship should at least be strong enough to where you can at least talk about something small like this, and if its not maybe there is a deeper problem. But yeah i really don't think you should quickly get mad or conclude anything and definitely not retaliate or do anything like that
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Don't jump to conclusions when you have no actual proof why he did that. If this was evidence presented in court, would it fly? Heck no!
Well, you DID ask for our opinion. I have a few more but you would think I was attacking your person.
Actually, what came to mind for me are just possibilities of what may be going on inside you to cause you to react this way. If you are curious, you will write and ask me what those are, but do refer to what you originally wrote about as I never know who is writing and the same goes for who is writing back a 2nd time.
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