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On Friday, the dude I'm dating called me on my landline at a time when he knew I wouldn't be home. He left this message: "Just calling to say hi. Hope you're doing something fun this weekend."
I thought it was rude, like he was saying, "I'm calling you when I know you're not home to tell you: Don't think you're going to get to spend time with me this weekend, because I won't be available."
I think he should have just not called at all.
What's your opinion?
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Just don't think much about it. Probably he's just missing you.
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so to make a long story short, this guy and i dated for about two years before i ended things between us. it wasn't a toxic relationship or anything like that, but i had a lot of growing up to do and at the time, i was struggling with a lot of self-esteem issues and basically i felt unworthy of dating someone. the relationship itself was also quite bland. we didn't really do anything, except hold hands, go on movie dates, and once in a while hang out at parties. we were pretty young.
it's been about six years since we broke up. and honestly, he is a good person and i would like to be friends with him still, and I have tried to keep our friendship alive despite breaking up, but even after all this time, he says he still has feelings for me. He's honestly had it really rough since we broke up; he ended up in abusive relationship after we broke up, he lost a very close family member, and this and that. And he has never once forced his feelings for me on me. He never tried to guilt me. he's been very mature about it.
What i'm asking is if this is toxic for him; me wanting to try and just be friends with him. if this is hurting him more than its helping him. i do enjoy his company, he's a good person, i'd definitely say he's probably someone's dream guy because of how sweet he is, but he's just not my dream guy, if that makes sense. Am i hurting him, though? Should I just let it go? Can exes not be friends after a relationship? (link)
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It can vary. Some couples don't have any relationships after a brake. But some of them become good friends forever.
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