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Aloha, Guys.
I love giving advice so I hope I can help you out in any ways needed. I live in Wisconsin and i love hanging out with my friends. I also love movies and stuff too. I'm a normal teenage girl.

*Currently in CD player: A Boy Named Goo (The Goo-Goo Dolls)*

Okay, well ask away!

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I was a cutter... im not anymore. I did it for about 2 months and finally my boyfriend got me to stop on my own. So, i made some pretty interesting designs when i cut myself... I cut in the middle of my forearm and i made shapes like hearts and stars and stuff and ive quit back in February. I wear a wristband now, but, my parents haven't found out that i used to cut myself. So, what my question is, is there a way i can get the scars to be not very visible for summer? Because i know that i will be swimming a lot and be real active... help is appreciated and im getting sick of wearing a wristband all the time...

Yay summer! Okay sorry. Well there is a special creme to put on scars that I've heard about. You can probably find it at a drug store or something like ShopKo or Walmart. Good luck with that!
-Caydee
PS: Congrats on stopping cutting. :)

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i have my party in 2 weeks and my period is supposed to come on that day! it would be horrible because there will be swimming ..! im desperate to delay it...if i dont drink anything for 5 days...or keep it very minimal..do you think it will delay my period? wont the body naturally not allow my period to come on time so it will keep the extra fluid? any way i can delay my period? dont say birth control because that wont delay it for another 2 months..it takes time or something for it to work..

Just wear a tampon and DO NOT stop drinking water because that can lead to dangerous consequences.
-Caydee

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i have these jeans that i want to put rinestones on. what kind of glue should i use???

Fabric Glue should to the job.
-GroverTheStoNer

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Hey... I was the person who asked about the redoing the bedroom. Thanks for your input. I was wondering, you said you have 2 collages in your room. I would love to hear about what's on them, how you got the stuff for them, what you used, etc. Also, what did you back it with (cardboard, regular paper etc.) Thanks so much!

Hey, I used bright pink wrapping paper for both of them. One of them is about dreaming and what dreams mean, and the other one is about finding the "inner you". I used magazines, you know like Seventeen, Cosmo, all that. Hope I helped, have fun decorating!!! :)
*Randy T* ((Toni))

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I am a 15/female and am redoing my bedroom (besides my furniture.) The furniture I currently have is like a beige color. My carpet is also beige and my walls are bare and white. My room is fairly large. Right now the design is like roses, but not cute ones, like old lady roses. I want to make the room more teenagerish, less my parents designing it when I was in second grade. Please, any ideas for my room or if you are a teenage girl, could you tell me what your room is like. All advice would be enjoyed! Thank you!!

I love animal print, fake fur though, and so I have a cheetah-print bedspread and sheets and pillows and a chair. My Uncle splatter-painted my walls too. I have posters up of singers and I have two collages I've made. I also have stuff hanging from the ceiling, like a butterfly and windchimes, one from Hawaii and one from my parents. My carpet is boring, gray, and I have cd's and lots of pictures...thats pretty much it, and I also have a computer in my room. :)
*Randy T* ((Toni))

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Well I am kinda in a long distance relationship and it is hard because i dont get to see him like everyday. I am only 13 and i am a female and I think he is the one and I love him every much. Do you think this will last forever????? NEED HELP FAST!!!!

I don't agree with relationships in middle school, because they NEVER last. You end up crying over the guy you think is the best, and I don't think that you really are in love. Love takes time and it also takes work. I tried a few long-distance relationships and I didn't like it at all. So my advice is to take it slow, and enjoy being you because you don't need a guy to make you happy. Give it a few years...
*Randy T* ((Toni))

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Hey guys I need some REALLY funny movies? someone help meeeeeee!!!!! What are some really funny movies out on Dvd or Video???

Any of the National Lampoons movies, The Hot Chick, Scary Movie 1, 2, or 3, Meet the Parents (Meet the Fockers is great, but thats not out yet), Elf...You can also go to Blockbuster or something and check out the comedy section.
*Randy T* ((Toni))

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ok i have this ex who is always trying to get back with me but is also always hitting me and leaving marks. I know it makes me sound stupid but i still keep coming back to him, i cant help it i still like him. Is there any advice someone can give me out there and by the way this is monkeygirls friend not her!!

Why do you like him? He's hitting you! Sure, he may be the hottest thing in the world, but HE IS NOT WORTH IT. He's a jackass, and I could have said more, but I chose not to, lol. Stay far away from him, don't look at him at all. This guy has issues and ovbiously doesn't know how to treat a girl. Tell him that you will call somebody if he ever even gets near you again...Listen to us! DO NOT GO BACK TO THAT LOSER! You deserve somebody so much better...Hope everything gets better...:)
*Randy T* ((Toni))

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yesterday i was watching tv and i changed tha chanel and it was porn!! i didnt even bother to change it and i wanted to watch it and im 15/f is that normal?!?! i got really horny and i wanted to call my bf to come over! whats wrong with me?!?!

Hey, nothing is wrong! You shouldn't be ashamed or think something is wrong with you. You were just curious, wanted to be with your boyfriend. Nothing's wrong with you, you're perfectly normal!
*Randy T* ((Toni))

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F/13 me and my sister was talking today and I told her I started my period to day. She told me she never started. (she is 16) Is that normal?

Yeah, that's totally normal. All girls start their period at different times.
Toni Marie

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this is sorta kinda hard i guess it is complicated to say this to like the whole world but i have this problem with self mutilation adn i do it cause well everyone is always making fun of me and it is just so hard my friedns told me about this website becasue i don't want to go to counseling and talk to an adult who always sayd " and how do u feel about that" I really need help

meetmyyimshi13

Ok, I used to feel soooo goddam depressed all the time. It really sucked. People I thought were my friends ignored me and talked behind my back, and then my sister moved away for college and that hit me really hard. I tried to talk to her, but I ended up crying my eyes out and so then I turned to cutting, which did not help at all. My mom's a counselor and I know how you feel. She's always like, "whats wrong, blah blah?" It's really annoying and stuff...Ok, anyways, I told my sister because she started replying to anonymous poems I sent her and so I told her that I'd been cutting and she gave me the courage to stop and I started writing in a journal and I told my good friend about it and she gave me a rubberband and said to snap it on my wrist 3 times if I ever felt like cutting. It helped so much! My best advice to you is to write in a journal, or find some way to let out anger. I realized one day that I shouldn't have to be taking this crap, because most of the people here are people that I'm never going to see again and when I do at our highschool reunion, they'll probably be wrinkly and gross and having stupid jobs while I'll be the one who took control and everything! Also, praying helps. I know it sounds like crap, but it really does. So tell me more about the problem and I'll help you find other ways to get you feeling better!
Toni Marie

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You know those Livestrong Bracelets that everyone is wearing now-a-days? Well according to my Spanish teacher, they're also a symbol for hospitals to not ressusitate (sp.) you if you get in some sort of accident and are put in the hospital. Is this true??? Because if it is, that's awful, and I'm not wearing mine anymore.

Your spanish teacher is wrong. The bracelets are from Lance Armstrong. They are for cancer, so you should tell that to your teacher and wear yours! :)
Toni Marie

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today i woke up with a sore throat, runny nose, watery eyes, and just A BADDDD COLD! its the begining of winter break and im tryin soo hard to get better by atleast monday....is there anything i can do/take to get better? im taking halls cough drops and dimetap so far....is there anything better?

SLEEP! Get tons of sleep! You should also drink Lipton's Tea, and if you have a cough or anything I usually take this medicine called Delsym. You can get it at a drugstore. And since your nose is stuffy ask a parent to run to the drugstore and get breathe-right strips. You put them over your nose and they relive any congestion. Feel better soon! :)
*Randy T*

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I have this friend and me and her decided to try a new style for christmas and summer.its kinda 80ish.We want to cut pantyhose knee length and wear a cute abercrombie skirt over it.This is for summer by the way. But then we want to wear a colorful tanktop. For shoes we want flipflops or converse. Can anyone tell me if this sounds cute?

I like it! Being yourself and being an individual is the best thing that you can do. :)
Toni Marie

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Hi I am christian, and I have a friend who is jewish. I want to get her a "holiday" present, but I am not sure what to call it, or if she would think it was rude. I am also not sure when i should give it to her. I don't know when haunaka is. What do you think?

Yeah you should totally give her a present! Don't even call it anything! Give it to her sometime before Christmas. Plan a gift exchange for both of you. I'm pretty sure it's going on now. And instead of giving those little Christmas tags on the presents, just get a piece of stationary and put, To: (Your Best Friend's Name), Love, (Your name). Happy Holidays!
*Randy T*

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14/F. I have to get orthodonic braces in a few weeks and I have a few questions about them. I will rate. Do they hurt? What will happen if I chew gum with them? What color bands would look good with brown hair and brown eyes? Thanks.

I had braces too. I don't lie to advice askers, so yes, they do hurt. Not right away, usually a few hours after the orthodontist cements them on. You can ask your parents to pick up some asprin or tylenol if the pain gets to you. And your mouth is sore after you get your wires tightened. I chewed gum sometimes. Sugar Free Gum like Extra, worked fine. Just brush extra well after you eat or whatever.
I like light colors for bands. Do what you like!
Braces aren't that bad, but yes, they suck! Good luck.
*Randy T*

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hey cay.. i mean randy how r ya? ok now for my question, ok dont tell kate i wrote this but lately she has been getting pissed at me for the littlest things and she and she just seems a lot different than last year. i may be imagining things but can you give me advice on what tot do? or could you talk to her? thanks a lot your the best!! luv ya lots!! ~amy~ a.k.a. livie

Hey, "amy"! I can tell her you feel weird or whatever. Hang in there! I'm sure it's just those ragin' hormones! ;) I promise, its a.o.k!
*Randy T*

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First off, I am a girl, and I am dating another girl. Now on to the problem. Ive been dating Molly almost 11 months now. A few months ago, things got really rocky between us, so we took a short break, and things got alot better, and we didnt fight or anything. Now, about 2-3 weeks ago, she, just out of the blue, says she wants a break, a longer one, and when I asked why, she said she didn't know how she felt anymore. She says she is starting to fall out of love with me, and that she needed space so she could work it out. It was really hard for me, at first, but now I am getting better. Now the thing is, she is sending mixed signals. Sometimes it seems like things may be getting better, others, not so much. She even tells me that I can 'do stuff' with other girls, should I choose to (I dont want to) and then when I hang out with someone that something could potentialy happen with, I think she gets kinda jelouse (but I'm not sure if I am reading signals wrong). Now I have 2 questions: The whole doing stuff with other people. Is she testing me? Or possibly she wants to not feel so guilty if things dont work? And my second question is, How long should I wait for her? Our one year is January 20th. Im only 17, I have invested a year of my life into our relationship, I am not ready to give up yet. What can I do?

Talk to her! Tell her that you think she's sending the signals. Maybe she's not sure what she wants right now. Thats okay. I say talk to her and hope things get etter. Tell her that that you don't want to give up! Sometimes it really does work to have a break. Then the person realizes how much they love their boyfriend/girlfriend. Just talk to her. She has something to say and so do you.
*Randy T*

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okay i went to the www.am-i-fat.com thing and tried my body fat and it said i was 29% fat! which is overfat which is almost obese and i dont see how can i be that when i weigh 85 lbs. and im 13/f and 4 ft 9in so now im thinking to go anerixic becuase of that site and it has to be right, right? so plz just tell me what you think thanx

YOU ARE NOT FAT! If you go anorexic, you are being really selfish to yourself. Too many girls think they are fat, when they are skinny. It's not right, and if you think that you're fat, you are missing out on seeing the real you, and that is God's greatest gift to you and everybody who sees you. So no, I think the site is stupid, or having technical difficulties! The site is WRONG. So please don't hurt your friends, family, and yourself, and DO NOT go anorexic.
*Randy T*

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Hey people, I'm supposed to be doing a poll for the school paper. (it doesn't have to be school related, but it can be) what is a good idea for a poll?

Favorite subject, favorite holiday, favorite color, favorite cartoon charactor/show, favorite month of the year, favorite fast food resteraunt, favorite candy, favorite singer/band, favorite teacher, favorite movie, favorite basketball/football mascot/team...Be creative!
*Randy T*

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