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I'm 17 years old, i've been through alot, but it means i've got the expirience to help those going through the same or similar so that they don't end up lost like i did, i've been lucky enough to have alot of wisdom past on to me and i'd like to use this to help people so if you've got a problem c'mon =]] Let's hear it and i'll get back to you asap

NickyBwoii .x.

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whats the best way to put on a condom so you can be POSITIVE the girl wont get pregnant?

and how do you know wether to buy a small, medium or large etc...?


15/m

well to be honest there is no best way to put a condom on and the size depends on your size really it's good that you actually bother to use protection tho!!!!

asknick,

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my boyfriend and i have been going out for about 8 months and were like best friends! We have been fighting a lot lately and he jokes around (lies) too much. He always tells me he was lying shortly after but it really annoys me.. on my advice thingy he left me a question.. do you think im gay? and i said no just weird and he left be the worst feedback so people wont ask me stuff.. he never tells me when hes mad at me and i dont know how he really feels... help!

Take control and say to yourself "STOP" look around if your boyfriend is going to be a jerk who needs him i think you need to tell him to clean up his act and that if he does not clear up his act that you are dumping him you have to be nasty to be nice sometimes........
i wish you good luck and plz rate me.....
AskNick

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What if someone said something offensive about you and you had a disablity, and ur friends and family didnt do much to defend you? I have the right to be mad right? I have the right to be mad at my family for not defending me right? what should i do?

i think you need to tell them about this i mean you would defend them right? so why should they not defend you....
you are important and they are in the wrong so yes i say you have the right to be wrong with your family and friends i wish you good luck with this problem and plz rate me,AskNick

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I've known this guy since like 2nd grade. He and I have been boyfriend and girlfriend off and on for about 2 years. He and i usually hook up most during the summer and not much during the school year. My friends say that we sould either stay friends or boyfriend and girlfriend. I don't really know which one i should choose. i really like him saome days and don't really talk to him others. should we be boyfriend and girlfriend or stayt friends? thanx

have the best of both i mean why are other peoples opinions important to you only your opinion should matter if you are happy with the way it is then leave it to work itself out i wish you good luck with your problem and plz rate me thanks,
AskNick

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okay, i screwed up my last question because english is my second language, so here we go again. i'm a skinny person and i don't really like food in general, but i really like veggies, fruits and all sorts of other healthy food. since i've been fasting for the last few weeks (i'm russian orthodox, that's what we do before easter), i thought about it, and realized that since i don't really suffer without meat, maybe i should become a vegetarian because i don't want to kill animals. maybe it won't really make that big of a difference and only clear my conscience, but then, as we say in russian, raindrops sharpen rocks (as in little things can make a difference). so, here's my question: how do i stay healthy and get all my vitamins? where can i get that information? and most of all, is it hard for a vegetarian to gain weight? because i was really hoping to gain my freshman 15 next year, i seriously need it. please don't answer unless you know what you're saying.

well being vegetarian you can still get all your vitamins from foods like cheese and milk and apples ect there are loads of healthy foods and vegeterian friendly foods out there just don't starve yourself because you may dammage your body
i wish you good luck with this way of life and plz rate me thanks ,
AskNick

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f/19
My bf and I have been dating for about a month now and he recently told me that he thinks hes in love with me. I'm kind of turned off by that because its so soon. He keeps asking me how I feel and I told him I'm not sure, I'm not in love with him, what should I do.

Don't break his heart because ther chances are that if you don't love him now that you won't love him later so let him go and find someone else i hope my advice has helped and plz rate me.....

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ok so this boy likes me but he wont ask me out. i see him every day in school, hes allways staring at me. do i have a crush on him to? how can i talk to him if i have nothin to talk about? i rate

Don't get nervous and go talk to him pick a subject to talk about with him it could be the weather or anything.... i wish you good luck and i hope my advice has helped and plz rate me thanks...................

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who r your friends at school?

A group of people that i get on with that always get picked on and targeted but they arte my mates and i don't care what others say...
p.s Who are you?

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what do you say to a guy when you want them to fall in love with you?.. irate 5s.

You don't say anything at all you just make it clear to him that you like him then you tell him on a special occasion eg: valentines day but only tell him in person and when he's on his own..
I hope my advice has helped and plz rate me thanks............

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Hey well none of my parents are home and I have like really bad swollen glands, and I was wondering if like I could take an ibprofin or whatever they are called? (sorry I can't spell) Because they hurt and I can bearly move my neck and head.

have u tried paracetamol

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My mom waon't let me have a b/f or watch some R movies. It seems like she is Overprotecting me from the outside world. What should i do? HELP!

Feelings from the inside out,

Jess P.S- I rate HIGH!

You need to tell your mom how you feel and that she can't protect you always you have to have space to grow up tell her how you feel and tell her to stop over protecting you i hope my advice has helped and plz rate me thanks

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breaking up with your boyfriend for his best friend...?

OR

still going out with him because he's a really good guy and you're afraid to break his heart...?

OR

what should I do, because my boyfriend is the most amazing guy ever, and he'd cry and be depressed for months if anything happened. But I just don't have feelings for him anymore, and his friend and I like eachother... help!

You need to be honest if you don't like this guy anymore and you have any respect for him you will tell him so that he can move on in life.
remember sometimes you have to be nasty to be nice
i hope my advice has helped you and plz rate me thanks

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this guy we said we would be friends but at times hes really firty with me and acts like he likes me. he will call me and stuff but then the nexy day he will be different and not call me or talk much to me. what does this mean? i really like this guy i think my age is what bothers him the most i am 3 years younger than him but age isnt everything. what do i do? i rate high.

Well guys like to play the cat and mouse game to see if girls like them he obviously likes you so carry on acting the way you do and things can only improve i hope my advice has helped you. plz rate me thanks

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see here is the thing!i like this guy named chad but my friend taryn liked/likes him, and i know he used to like her but he told me he didn't anymore and now i like him. he even invited me to one of his baseall games and everthing should i go and continue likeing him or wat?

Well before you get any move seroius you need to talk to your freind about chad then decide whats best after that i hope my advice has helped and plz rate me thanks

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People are always asking me about my love life, like people at school. I have had a boyfriend before but that only lasted a week, and I always feel uncomfortable saying 'oh I've only had one boyfriend' when people ask. I know it's not a race or a competition as to who can get the most boyfriends, but it's starting to bug me and I don't want to lie and say I've had loads of boyfriends. The thing is, I'm just not emotionally ready to be in a relationship, and I want any relationship I have to be a long one, so I'm obviously gonna have less boyfriends than everyone else. I don't mind that, I just mind being embarrased when I say 'one'. How can I avoid these conversations, or what should I say when they come up?

Well your personal life is not anything to do with other people it is private and when people ask my about my love life if i feel embarassed i just tell them i don't want to talk about it so try telling them how you feel and that you don't want to talk about it.
i hope my advice has helped you and plz rate me...

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One of my good friends, Libby, is a HUGE FLIRT! Last night, we went ice skating and she flirted with just about every guy there! She always goes up to them b4 any1 can reach them.... and sum me n my other friends like! Wat do i do?

---TinkerBelle---

Tell her exactly how she acts and if it annoys you tell her not to do it in front of you i hope my advice has helped plz rate me thanks

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My friends and I are going camping in Summer- has anyone got any nice, healthy vegetarian recipes that can be cooked over the fire? Also, how do you cook things over an open fire? Thanks.

On on open fire you have to becare full as to not lets the fire spread to the dry leaves good luck with the camping

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Okay, my friend Jackie introduced me to this guy she knows (over the internet) and he lives in New York, where she used to live, and they're sort of "going out" but not, since we live in AZ, and anyway, I've been talking to him and I think I'm starting to like him just a little bit and I don't know what to do, because she really really likes him.. I know I should let her have him, but should I tell her or just try to keep quiet about it and try to stop talking to him so I don't like him more or what?

You need to tell your friend because if you tell her later on in life she may not forgive as now she is still a kid and she will forgive you i hope my advice has helped you please rate me

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Recently this boy has been walking me to class with his arms around me. Everyone is starting to think that we go ouy but we don't. I tell him I don't want his hand around me but he still does it. But the bad thing it thatwhen I am not around he makes fun of me and calls me bad words. See if I tell someone about this they may think I am unpopular or whatever and I can't afford that to happen. So what should I do.

Tish guy needs to be told whats what tell him you don't want him to put his hands around you, and if that don't work tell your parents and the school and the reason for this is because it is invading your personal space...
i hope my advice has helped and please rate me....

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i used to be good at basketball until certain circumstances in my life forced me to give it up for a long period of time.

i'm in love with it again; but unfortunately i am badly out of practice. still decent, but not great.

is it possible (please look at the age*) for me to improve, and regain my old skill? obviously i am going to practice- but will simply practicing do it?

i understand that this is all very general, but please just tell me what you know.

also, any general tips on how to get better at basketball (exercises, etc) would be very much appreciated.

*sixteen/female

thanks in advance.

you have got to focus all your other energy when you play the onlyway to regain your old skill is by focusing on the way you play.....
i hope my advice has helped and i hope you get better at basketball please rate me thanks

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