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girl ask for a date?
im 20/f and i've never been on a date, not even one. however there's this friend who i would like to go on a date with. we're not that close but he's really friendly when we see each other. I don't wanna go on a date because i like him. i just wanna go on a real date for once. is it okay for a girl to ask for a date, or should i just be implying it? and how should i do that? im also reaaaaaaallly reaaaaaaally bad at flirting! plz help!
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
Just tell him youve never been on a date before. He will prob say, really, well i'll take you out then!
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I think that it depends on what type of guy your friend is. If he is shy, he would love a girl asking him out, he might be hoping for you to ask him out. If he is not that shy, I think that he would have asked you out by now.
I think great ways to be flirty are there top 10:
10) Twirl with your hair when you talk to him.
9) If he looks at you, don't look away, like most girls tend to do, look back at him and smile cutely.
8) If he talks to you, always look like you are interested.
7) IMPORTANT!!! If he says something like what animal he has, show that you are really interested and act all happy about it.
6) Find something that you both have in common, it is easy to start a relationship if you have some thing that you can talk about all the time.
5) Be confident with every thing you do, guys love confident girls.
4) Compliment on what he is wearing on what he is doing.
3) Always wear some kind of jewelry or other prop, like a bracelet, when you don;t have any thing to do, you can play with it.
3) Always face him when talking to him.
2) Make him feel important, he will notice that you like him if you ignore other people to make him feel like you care about him more.
1) MOST IMPORTANT!!! Don't change yourself too much. Guys should like you for who you are. Have fun and if you are too concentrated on flirting with him, you will over flirt (makes you look weird) or you will flirt so much that he doesn't like you any more!
If you want him to go out with you, you should first ask him to go to a concert, or a party together, just as friends. If he says that he had fun and that you should do it again, you should ask him out. If he had fun it means that he wants to spend more time with you.
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By the way you stated it, im not sure if you like him as more than friends or not. I will still give you advice on how to go about this, but I would think that if it was a guy you truly had feelings for it would make your first date so much more special, so maybe you should wait.
I say the first way you should go about is, next time yall chill, to say something like 'aw, ive neverrrr been on a date before'. But try to work it into a conversation, or if yall see a couple walk by. That way he may get the hint & ask you himself.
If this doesnt work, THEN ask him yourself. Ask him if he wants to catch a movie sometime then get some icecream or something after. Offer to go dutch, which means splitting the cost (but hopefully he'll man up & pay for you).
I hope I helped, my inbox is open!
x sweeethoney
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You could try asking if he would like to come over for diner, that is if you are a good cook. That settles the problem of who cooks. Its still a date, its a dinner date where you cook for him.
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If he isn't currently dating someone, there is nothing wrong with you asking him out. Simply ask him if he would like to go to a movie with you, or whatever you would like to do.
There is one thing that I'm not sure about & maybe one of the younger advisers could help with. Who pays? I'm thinking you would probably both pay your own way. Though would it then really be a date? I wish I had an answer for you on this part.
As far as flirting goes, if you aren't good at it, don't do it. I think flirting just comes naturally to some people & for others it just doesn't. So you are better off just being yourself.
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It is not a bad thing for a girl to ask a guy out. If you like the guy then you should take a jump for it and see where it goes. you never know what will happen unles you ask.
Goodluck:)
Hope this helps.
~Jasmine*
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