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how to tell my mom i had my period
ok..... welll i read your column of how to tell my mom i had my period but the problem is that she overreacts
once i waited only 2 days to tell my mom i needed a bra and she flipped out its been about six months now from my first period and i have no clue how to tell her with out being grounded or killed or kicked out she over reachs to everything
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Ok so what you can do is just go to her and say, "mom I got my period today" or something. Deff. Tell her. Even if she over reacts she needs to know. But I highly doubt she will because moms know you are eventually going to get it and it is a part of life. She would probably get mad if you tell her the part about you having had it for 6 months. Just don't tell her that part. The reason she would get mad is because she wouldn't think she could trust you if you had kept it from her all this time. Go on and tell her, she won't get the slightest bit mad. :)
hope this helped...
~Kai
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okay . so tell you mom .
i can promise you she will not be upset .
she'll be happy you got it . And its mothers love shes wont kill you or ground you
TRUST ME !
tell your mom :)
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tell your mom that you were nervous to come up to her before but you fel that she really needs to know that you got your period. if she asks how long ago just tell her and apologize. that you were nervous and didnt know how to tell you. maybe your mom just wants to have a close relationship together and it upsets her. tell her also if she overreacts then tell her that the reason its hard to tell her things beacuse your afraid on how she is going to react and maybe she can lighten up and ask why she gets so upset.
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It's possible that she gets angry because you don't tell her these things right away.
They are very important things. I would be upset and disappointed if I had a daughter and she was too afraid to tell me basic woman things like this.
Open up and just tell your mother. It might be surprising to hear that her daughter had grown into a young woman but you need to tell her. It's doubtful she is going to kill you or kick you out for having your period. You cannot control your periods or when you hit puberty.
Just tell her and overreacting too. It will help to just relax and talk to her face-to-face about this problem so she can help you handle it.
If she kicks you out, threatens you, or does something bad then it can always be fixed. There are people out there that would help you get through it. It's doubtful she'll react so negatively though. She was probably just upset before since you didn't come to her with the important information right away. Maybe it made her feel like a bad mother? Who knows.
Just let her know.
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just tell her. she doesn't need to know that you've had it for 6 months without telling her. just tell her you just got it.
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There is no way you should get in trouble for having your period. It's healthy and supposed to happen. If anything she will be upset that you kept it from her. But you have to tell her at some point so you might as well get it over with now. You also could just lie and say you just got it for the first time.
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Periods are natural. You did nothing wrong! Every girl has a period! You can't get in trouble trust me! And you have to tell your mother as soon as possible so she can get you the proper things you need. You had no control over this so remember you can't get in trouble! Just go up to her and say "Mom I started my period". And sometimes mothers get very sentimental because this is a sign their little girl is growing up. I remember when I first started my period my mom took me out to eat and we just talked. So tell your mom! WELCOME TO WOMANHOOD! If you need more advice just message me! I hope my advice helped!
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Periods are natural so she shouldn't freak out because it's nothing you can help. Unless you mean she will freak out because you didn't tell her. If you think she'll honestly freak because you didn't tell her, wait until you're on your next period and pretend it's your first. lol
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