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When are you ready for sex?
hey i was just wondering how can u tell for sure that you are ready for sex?
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when you can say to yourself.. "i want to have sex." and not have ANY doubts what-so-ever.
this is a huge decision, and alot of people dont realize that until they have sex and regret it. or they have sex and get pregnant. or they have sex and HATE it. its because they werent mature enough to handle it, and they werent safe, and they werent emotionally ready. if those people were to have rationally thought about it.. like actually sat down and said to themselves, "im 100% ready to have sex." most of them would have had plenty of doubts.
you have to be secure in your own skin and body. you need to respect yourself and you should be in love. you should also take your morals into careful consideration.
and until you are 100% certain, no doubt in your mind, then you are ready. you have to feel safe and comfortable and you have to be PREPARED. condoms, birth control.. is a must. [live it up without a baby bringing you down] .. until you want one, hahhaa, then lose the contraception.
but only you can tell. everyone is different. but it does take alot of thought.
good luck ! hope i helped, and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me. xxo. :]
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When you have a steady partner to be a second parent, a mortgage, and the beginnings of a college fund.
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I am a great deal older than most of the advisers on this site, so my advice will be somewhat different from what you may have received and may continue to receive from others.
Are you ready for sex? This question is asked a lot in many different ways on this website. The following link will take you to a website I found that will help you answer that question. [Link](Mouse over link to see full location).
Everyone matures at a different rate. While your body may be able to physically have sex you may or may not have the maturity needed to handle the physical aspects and possible outcomes of sexual intercourse. Also the longer you wait to have sexual intercourse the more enjoyable it will be for you. For the teenage boy sexual intercourse is 90 % hormonal release and 10% notching his gun belt.
When I was young we use to make out in the back seat of the old man’s Chevy. I later found out from my wife this was not much fun for the girls. Those girls that did did so because they were pressured by their boyfriend to put out as it was called. Speaking for the boy the sex was mostly for the 10% side. The 90% side could have been satisfied with a hand job.
What I am trying to say here is you will know when you are ready. Do not let some boy who is only interested in getting his hormones satisfied push you into doing something you are not ready for. When you are ready make sure you are on some form of birth control and the boy uses a condom.
My hope is that you will not have sex with until you are emotionally old enough to handle it. I would also hope, and this is a big one, that you would sit down with your mother and talk with her about boys and sex. Yea I know it’s hard to think about talking to your mom about this stuff. But remember mom was once your age and had to go through what you are now going through. I would suggest you say to mom that you really need to have a girl/girl talk and could the two of you go someplace together away from the house. Believe me when mom hears that you need a girl/girl talk she will know what you want to talk about and I’m sure she will make the time.
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if you are ready then you can have sex
dont forget to be careful , dont rush, because you have time
if you dont want, dont do it ok dear
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It depends on the person. A lot of people say that you shouldn't have sex if you aren't responsible enough to take care of a child. Which is true, because having a baby is a HUGE responsibility. But the fact of the matter is that when someone wants to have sex, they will. There is not a "for sure" way of knowing if you're ready. My advice is that you should only have sex if YOU want to do it, and feel comfortable with your partner. Having sex is only YOUR decision. With some people, it leads to attachment issues with their first person to have that kind of relationship with, so it would be in your best interest to be with someone who treats you right. Hope I helped!
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When you're prepared to deal with sex's repercussions and have some stability in life.
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It's really hard to tell. If you really, really love the person, you might be ready. Make sure you're comfortable talking about it, because if talking about it makes you uncomfortable, you sure won't be comfortable doing it. And talk about it a lot with your boyfriend or girlfriend, to make sure that they are comfortable with it too. If you're not completely ready, then don't rush into it because you feel you should or because everyone else is. Have sex when you are fully comfortable and prepared. Use protection to be safe too. :)
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Old enough to bleed, old enough to breed.
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