i got drunk at a party
did really stupid stuff
people are really pissed at me and im scared to go to skool
i go to a public school which makes it even worse because thers like 100 kids per grade
im a mere freshman and it was a senior party and im so embarres and i did terriable stuff and im scared to go to skool
1love1life answered Monday March 17 2008, 10:34 pm: No offence but its ur fault. suck it up and go to school. time will pass and in a couple of years people wont care what u did anymore. [ 1love1life's advice column | Ask 1love1life A Question ]
stella07 answered Wednesday March 12 2008, 4:34 pm: everyone makes stupid decisions while they are drunk.
i for sure have.
people might talk, but it happens.
just ignore it and people will forget about it sooner or later.
dont let this get to you.
<3 [ stella07's advice column | Ask stella07 A Question ]
clouded_bluee answered Tuesday March 11 2008, 1:16 pm: To be perfectly honest, you're probably not being talked about or cared about as much as you think. The seniors probably have much better things to talk about then you.
When people get drunk, and aren't used to it, they all do stupid things, you're not the only one.
Just get over it, it isn't a big deal at all. They might give you a hard time, so what ? Laugh it off, you only make it as big of a deal as you want to.
But believe me, your news isn't that huge where they'd spend a few days talking about it..
for3v3r_his answered Tuesday March 11 2008, 11:52 am: You can't avoid it forever. You have to go to school. Everyone makes mistakes. Talk to the people who are mad at you. See what it will take for them to forgive you. Apologize to everyone who wants or needs an apology. Try to work on getting forgiveness. Until then, you have learned and are learning from your mistakes. It could have been a lot worse. You now besides it being illegal and dangerous, you have even more reasons not to drink again. By saying you are a mere freshman when saying it was a senior party, this shows how uncomfortable you felt going. Even if you decide to be sober at the next party, which I highly encourage, you still will not be comfortable with the older group. Use this experience to make better decisions in the future. It will take time but people should eventually get over it. Their anger will soon turn to someone else who messes up. I hope it all works out. [ for3v3r_his's advice column | Ask for3v3r_his A Question ]
jewelzx0 answered Tuesday March 11 2008, 11:50 am: When things happen we often thing that everyone is really going to care but surprisingly you'll find people most likely wont care very much. Like i remember last year i was a freshman and i made my mistakes and thought people would care but in high school most people are much too focused on their own lives and themselves. You will most likely be fine and if anyone approaches you just fess up to your mistakes. You drank a bit much and did things you wouldn't normally do. Everyone makes mistakes! Hope I helped. [ jewelzx0's advice column | Ask jewelzx0 A Question ]
killerface answered Tuesday March 11 2008, 11:45 am: First of all, if you're a freshman in high school, you shouldn't have been drinking. The fact that "everyone" was probably doing it, it's still illegal because you're underage. That was problem number one.
Secondly, get over it. You have to go to school. You can't just not go to school cause something embarrasing happened. Play it off and chances everyone else will too. If they don't, tell them that you were too wasted to know what was going on and you should really learn how to hold your liquor better.
Then how about you stop drinking underage, hm? That might help you out in the future. [ killerface's advice column | Ask killerface A Question ]
orphans answered Tuesday March 11 2008, 11:25 am: Most people problay forgot about it. If people do start bothering you about it tell them that it wasnt you, that you just had too much too drink and are really sorry for what you did. Its as simple as that. [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
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