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Making New Friends
hey! well im moving to Kansas and 5 yrs ago i already lived there so my bff is still there and im gonna go visit nxt week tp check things out. im super excited to see her (tho i HATE that im moving!) i will be there for a while and stuff and if i meet her friends (who will hopefully become my friends) and any cute guys what should i do? i know be myself but i mean im usually outgoing but kinda shy with people i dont know. i just never know what to say!!! so what should i do to break the ice? i guess talk about how im moving and where im currently living and like ask hey whats around here to do and stuff but besides that? things for when i meet new people after im here and cant just alway say whats around here? haha thanks!! :)
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I guess it's the same with everybody; we're all nervous when we don't know people and we don't know what to say to them.
Ask her what's happened since she left and what's she's been doing since you last spoke/saw her. Then tell her what you've been doing or what's happened in your life. Ask her about the neighbour hood, what it's like, the kind of people who live around there. Ask her to show you the neighbour hood and ask her friends questions such as hoe long they lived there, brothers/sisters/neither?
I hope this helped,
triquetra
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Discussing the move is a good start. Bring up memories to the people you met five years ago if your bff is still friends with any of them. As for new people, I'm sure your bff will introduce you and make you feel comfortable. Let her know that you are nervous. Ask them if they ever moved. Ask about the positives and negatives of the school you guys will be attending together and about their favorite hangout spots. What people should you watch for? Do any of them live by the new house you are moving into? There are endless things to talk about. Relax and remember, you won't be the only one in the conversation who will be talking.
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