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i never need advice but.....Things change.

Question Posted Saturday January 27 2007, 1:58 am

So im the type that always gives all my friends advice and now im the one in need.

My boyfriend and I had a fight 2 days ago.
And he emailed me saying he loved me and he was sorry.
And i dont want to lose him.
But im scared maybe this might be it.

what do i do?
I need him.

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LagunaBabe answered Monday January 29 2007, 11:25 am:
In all fairness, he did email and say he's sorry and he loves you. However, I do believe this is done at it's best face-to-face. But I highly doubt that you've lost him, I don't think you have to worry about that. If you want to be with him, then I would accept his apology. And if what he did, happens again, I would probably move on. Depending on what he's done and how bad it really is.

Good luck, I'm sure everything will work out for you!

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chrissabelle37 answered Sunday January 28 2007, 3:59 pm:
Hey. Well if he e-mailed you and apologized than you're definitely not going to loose him because it sounds like he really likes you. That's a nice guy to apologize like that. I would talk to him about it in person so you can clear it up and everything will be back to normal =). This way you can see how he feels and I'm sure he wants the argument to be over too if he apologized. Just talk to him about it in person and everything will be back to normal. I really hope this helped and good luck! =)

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MelLeDisko answered Saturday January 27 2007, 2:33 pm:
If he apologized and told you he loves you, it sounds like he needs you just as much as you need him. And if you don't want to lose him, why end it?

Now I don't know how bad the fight was or what it was about or anything, but if it was that bad, maybe sit down and have a talk with him about it and try and resolve it calmly without fighting. And it'd be best to do this with every bad situation that comes your way so there's no fighting and yelling and breaking up.

But whenever you guys go to apologize, it's best to do it in person so you can truely see how sorry they are and hear their tone and everything. It's just the better thing to do. It shows more respect, also. So if this situation ever WAS to occur again ( hopefully it won't ), then you & him should apologize to eachother in person.

I hope I helped.

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neverbeenkissed327 answered Saturday January 27 2007, 12:32 pm:
The only thing you can do is apologize back and then kiss and make up....haha...and accept his apology


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christina answered Saturday January 27 2007, 10:21 am:
It looks to me he still wants to be with you if he emailed you & apologized. I don't think you're going to lose him. You're just scared.

Try not to have anymore fights. They're usually avoidable. =)


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xcheerbabex108 answered Saturday January 27 2007, 9:48 am:
It looks to me like you're not going to lose him if he e-mailed you saying that. But, you're going to have to try your absolute hardest to not fight with him like that. (I don't know what the fight was about, though)

If you guys continuously fight like that,
I think you two should take a break.

Does that mean you DO have to take a break?
No. It was just my opinion.

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solidadvice4teens answered Saturday January 27 2007, 8:30 am:
You did not mention what your fight was about so I have little to go on to help you from what you wrote in the question field. I think what you need to do is give this a few days to cool off and not be swift to answer his e-mail.

This is done so you both can contemplate how to resolve the issue to make sure it doesn't happen again. If you are nervous and thinking to yourself "this might be it" there's a reason for that and you ought to listen to what that voice is telling you.

Odds are, you know the truth is that this is the end of the relationship but you are unwilling to accept that. Trust your gut because if you think it's over and are scared of being in an even worse situation with him later on end it now.

You don't "need him". Nobody is dependant upon anyone else for love, friendship, relationships. There are many guys who will be vying for your attention in the long run. If this guy seems wrong for you right now cut him loose and move on to the next one. You'll be fine but it may take a while to get over this loss which is normal.

Anyone who fires off an e-mail to say sorry or did not seem to put much thought intoan apology should be questioned in your mind. He's doesn't mean it from what I see as there isn't any conviction behind it.

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Brandi_S answered Saturday January 27 2007, 3:10 am:
He emailed you and said he was sorry about the fight. I don't think you are going to lose him as of yet.

However, I do think that apologies and terms of endearment should be said face to face. I sure hope he says "I'm sorry and I love you" to your face next time he sees you.

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