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Nver been kissed


Question Posted Thursday January 18 2007, 5:51 pm

Ok well Im 13 & I have never kissed a guy. I really want my first kiss because I just want to know what its like. I had my chance to kiss a guy before because when I was going out with my boyfriend(i dumped him a couple days ago) he asked me for a kiss but I said no because there were to many people around.

Im not say that im ugly or a geek or something, because I have had plenty of boyfriends, we just have never been at the right place at the right time ya know?

But anyway is it weird that im 13 & I havent had my first kiss yet?


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Dorkalicious answered Sunday January 21 2007, 1:51 pm:
Youre only 13 and very young. When i was growing up and wanted my first kiss my mother had told me "DON'T RUSH TO GROW UP". AndI thought that it was stupid at first but now as an 18 year old I realize that she was right the whole time.

Plus just wait they will come to you soon.

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duudee_advicer answered Friday January 19 2007, 9:43 pm:
When I was 13, I wanted nothing
more then my first real kiss. Although
hardly anyone in my grade had theirs
yet, I wanted mine. So, I made a friend,
I lead him on and got my first kiss.
You'd think it'd all be fine and
dandy right? Totally wrong, it was so
akward and gross because I didn't actually
like him. Worst of all, he found out after
we had become great friends, and everything
went downhill.

I recommend waiting.
As much as that sucks,
its the only way to enjoy
your first real kiss.
The more you rush it,
the worse it'll be.

Just let things be.
I'm sorry, I know thats not what you
want to hear.

Good Luck <3

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blinkl0ser44 answered Thursday January 18 2007, 10:07 pm:
of course not!
im fifteen, ima freshman in
highschool, and i have a boyfriend.
have i ever been kissed yet? noo =[
haha but dont worry about it; i survived.
and im pretty sure im not a geek
either cause i have many friends.
inbox me if you have anymore
concerns or questions :]]

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TheHeadHonchoPoncho57 answered Thursday January 18 2007, 10:00 pm:
Actually, it's much more unordinary for a 13-year-old to HAVE had their first kiss. Lots of kids brag that they had their first kiss when they were 7, but that doesn't really count. 13-year-old girls like to imagine out their first kiss, but most of them don't get it until at least a year later.

Your time will come. Don't rush it and do it with someone you're not interested in, because then it won't feel good at all. You want your first to be something special. You can only have it one time, so just wait for that person to come along. Plus, the longer you anticipate it, the better it will be when it actually happens. And all good things come to those who can wait, right?

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LagunaBabe answered Thursday January 18 2007, 9:32 pm:
Absolutely, not. It's not weird at all, that you haven't gotten your first kiss. You're thirteen, and have lots of time for your first kiss. And it's completely normal, too. Honestly, there isn't anything wrong with that. In my opinion, your first kiss is something to look forward to, and it will be special when it is the right time. Not something to rush, to only get it over with. Your time will come, I can promise you that. :)

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LoveNJstyle answered Thursday January 18 2007, 8:26 pm:
No, it's not weird. I was 15 and it was REALLY worth the wait. it was perfect so don't rush it! <3

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NyadesRoadGhost answered Thursday January 18 2007, 8:02 pm:
Since you're only 13, you still have tons of time, and trust me, it'll happen when you're ready. Try not to rush into experimenting, because if you wait until that perfect moment, it'll mean so much more. I was 14 when I got my first kiss and even though it seemed a little late to me then, I realize now that even 14 is real young.

Just trust in the fact that your kiss will come when it means the most, and it's definatley worth waiting for.

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Tara66 answered Thursday January 18 2007, 7:12 pm:
You are only 13!! No its not weird..trust me. Don't plan your first kiss because it will not be special. Your first kiss should just happen because its meant to! So dont just go out with someone to kiss them. Your time will come :)
Oh and if you know Adriana Lima shes a Victoria Secrets model..she didnt get her first kiss until she was 17! So hun you gotta long time to get kissed ;)

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Teza answered Thursday January 18 2007, 6:50 pm:
It's not "weird" that you haven't gotten your first kiss yet. When you find the right guy, it'll happen. You just have to be patitent with it and not rush into anything. It's not because there's something wrong with you or anything, but when it's time.. you'll have your first kiss. Don't worry.

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holadoodle33 answered Thursday January 18 2007, 6:19 pm:
No! Absolutely not. Most people in my town didn't start kissing until high school. If you said no to your ex-bf, then you might not be ready, but if you are, I suggest the movies. There are still people around, but it's dark, so you won't have 10 million people staring at you.
Good luck :)

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Wrigly246 answered Thursday January 18 2007, 6:16 pm:
Hey I've never kissed a guy before either. I'm 14! Don't worrie you WILL get the right chance!

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Volleyball2150 answered Thursday January 18 2007, 6:15 pm:
0MG NO!!
its totally normal not to have your first kiss when you're 13. I'm 14 and i've never been kissed either! if it helps, i've never gone out with anybody before. I've heard of people who haven't gotten their first kiss until they were 18! so hun, you have plenty of time!
a lot of people this century are thinking you have to already have your first kiss, first boyfriend by the time you're 13, but that's not right. You have PLENTY of time before you get your first kiss.
trust me!
just wait until the perfect time with the perfect guy. don't rush into it because all you're doing is cheating on yourself. its way more exciting/passionate if you wait. trust me

-volleyball2150

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