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my boyfriend
my boyfriend and i have been together for a year and a half and i think he is getting sick of me. he is very controlling and he isnt the greatest .. i have had more than one occasion where someone has told me he has cheated on me. i believe him when he says its not true. he doesnt like that i have guy friends so i dont have any but he has tons of friends who are girls and it doesnt even phase him that it upsets me. he has lots of girls numbers including one of the girls who told me they hookedup. another girl who was trying to get with him calls alot. he says he loves me but he treats me like shit. im a good girlfriend i do everything for him i love him. but still even if he messes up i get yelled at if i confront him .. everything is my fault even if i catch him lying he gets mad if i was snooping and says i need to give him his privacy and that i have no right to check his stuff. he says i need to trust him more but how can i when he has hurt me so much in the past and how am i supposed to trust him if i catch him lying all the time. he calls me names like slut when he gets mad and he calls me crazy. and he apologizes when we stop fighting and he doesnt seem to understand its not right. ive forgiven him many many times and he just doesnt seem to take me seriously. he doesnt think i will dump him he thinks hes irraplacable (lol) but hes not. he treats me like just some chick .. im not some chick after a year and a half. he should be treating me like a princess not like a maid. please help
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Well then don't act like you deserve to be treated like that. When he starts calling you names... start calling him names. You don't need someone like that, but if you're really trying to make this work, give him a taste of his own medicine. Have your guy friends start calling more often especially when he's around.. he'll get concerned, and when he asks about it you can say something like "maybe they see the way you treat me.." If he starts yelling at you && calling you names then tell him to leave, if he doesn't leave, then you leave, you don't have to be with him. Me and my boyfriend argue a lot about the same kind of things, but in our hearts we both know that we really want it to work. So maybe talk to your boyfriend about that, if he didn't care about you, he wouldn't bother staying with you for that long. So talk to him, maybe show him how you feel if you can't tell him, there's no easy way to go about doing any of this, so just be careful and good luck. keep me posted. -Angel
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If this boyfriend of yours is treating you like a maid instead of a princess he doesnt respect you. I think you should break up with him cause your right you do deserve to be treated like a princess every girl does. No girl deserves to get used and pushed aside.You cant love a person and treat them like total shit if you get what I mean. But if you decide not to dump him, you really should tell him what you wrote here, and how you feel about him and all those girls. And say how its so hard to trust him cause hes hurt you so much in the past. You need to tell him this and dont let it bottle up inside until you finally burst. But even if you do decide to break up with him. I suggest you tell him this and get it off your chest. He'll realize what he lost when its gone.
Hope this helped <3
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Ohhh girlll.. we both know you need to end this right then and there. you're not happy. you're supposed to be happy. there are zillions of other guys that can make you happy. you let him control you and bring you down while all the while he has the superiority and freedom to do what he wants how he wants when he wants it. and you DONT deserve that. if these other girls want him, let them have him and put up with it and show him you're not going to take any of that from him and let him walk all over you. time to say HASTA LA VISTA MOTHA ! . lol. good luck girl <3
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I think you know what you need to do.....
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I really think that you shoud finish this realtionship asap! You are clearly not happy with him and if he cheats and hooks up with other people then he really isnot worth it. you can do far better hunni! He doesnt take you seriously anymore and that isnt right in a relationship! You clearly worth more and show him he is not invincible! Hope it helps Good luck xox Porsche
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Dear boyfriend problem,
You really need to tell him exactly what you typed, don't just say it and be like we need to talk, instead sit down with him, hold his hands and look into his eyes when you talk to him about it, it'll get through to him more easily, and tell him that you feel more than just being a chick on his side, you need to tell him about the whole how he's allowed to have a BUNCH of girl friends but you can't have any guy friends, it's not fair at all, so try doing that and if it still doesn't get through his head maybe it's just time to move on.
-Beanie
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Have you ever heard the phrase "DTMFA"?
Here's a hint: "Dump the Mother F_____ Already!"
This guy is a user, a manipulator, a cheater, and an egotist. He disrespects you and he doesn't deserve your affection. Cut him loose. He neither needs nor deserves an explanation other than the fact that he doesn't treat you like a man should treat a woman.
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You already know the answer! You are a princess and deserve to be treated that way. Why let him continue to break you down. Get out of this relationship is is unhealthy for you and YOU DO deserve more.
Until you are really with someone who treats you the right way you will never know how bad this relationship is. So go out and find the guy that WILL love and respect you for who you are.
NEVER settle when you know your worth it!
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it doesnt sound like he values you enough
you obviously like him and care for him but that still doesnt mean he can treat you this way, you should talk to him about it and if he doent change then you know its not right and he obviously doesnt deserve you if he cant treat you right.
hope this helps even though it might feel bad to break up with him if he doesnt change but its obviously not making you very happy being with him
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