13/f i have a boyfriend & we have been gonig out for about 2 months. i'm wicked happy with him and i've liked him for almost a year and whenever i see him i am always smiling. i've kissed him on the cheek and i know he wants to kiss me but when we are about to do it i get kinda nervous and i know he thinks i dont wanna, but i do. howw can i be less nervouss? this isnt my first kiss, but i dk why i act like it.
advicefashionista answered Monday July 10 2006, 2:44 am: Being nervous is normal! But if you want to calm down a little, then take a little time before you really kiss him. Just hug him, and hold hands for now, then once you really feel comfortable, go ahead! No need to rush into things if you two really like eachother.
good luck! :) [ advicefashionista's advice column | Ask advicefashionista A Question ]
jumadel answered Monday July 10 2006, 2:35 am: Hi, I think that your nervous because you don't want to get it wrong. Try not to think about it and just do it. No one is perfect really and it's not about getting it right or putting on a good show it's about showing how much you care and just enjoying each others company. Worrying can loose confidence. Daniel. [ jumadel's advice column | Ask jumadel A Question ]
JazzyGotDaAnswer answered Sunday July 9 2006, 9:48 pm: stop think so much about it. You have to just let go. Your thinking to hard on what your about to do you just have to close your eyes and do it. hope it work out
Bluebell78 answered Sunday July 9 2006, 9:09 pm: just tell him that your not ready to kiss him yet and tell him why. he should understand. if your not ready just wait till you feel you want to do it. you dont have to do what he or anybody else tells you to do. its your choice and he will have to respect that. and if you want to do well... just do it. get over your fear. once you do it you'll feel so good. i know you'll be nervous but the only way to get over your kissing fear is to confront it. just try it for a sec and if you dont feel comfortable with it and pull away just tell him your still not that comfortable with it still and tell him you really want to but your just not ready and if he breaks up with you for that then he is not worth it. well i hope i helped and answered your question as best as i could. if you have anymore questions please feel free to email me for a question!! Good Luck!!
SoInToYoUx0x answered Sunday July 9 2006, 8:16 pm: trying talking to him and telling about your sistuation. explain to him you are gettin nervous and want to do it but get butterflys in your stomach and he should be able to make the frst move for you.
♥ Steph [ SoInToYoUx0x's advice column | Ask SoInToYoUx0x A Question ]
Meghan09 answered Sunday July 9 2006, 6:28 pm: I have been through the same thing. With the nervousness even though it isn't your first kiss. It's because you really like him. The best way to get over it is one day just walk up to him and kiss him. Once you do that the nervousness will be gone, and everything will work out. He'll be so suprised he'll love that. Especially if he thinks you don't want to. [ Meghan09's advice column | Ask Meghan09 A Question ]
heather21 answered Sunday July 9 2006, 6:11 pm: haha sweetie everyone is always nervous with their first kiss witha new person, i know you've been kissed before but idk if its from him lol. Once you kiss a couple times its soo easy haha no more nerves or anything.. let him know that you want him to kiss you! No matter how nervous you may look. After you kiss once you'll kiss all the time, and be completely comfortable! bestt of luck hope i helped! =) [ heather21's advice column | Ask heather21 A Question ]
Attention: NOTHING on this site may be reproduced in any fashion whatsoever without explicit consent (in writing) of the owner of said material, unless otherwise stated on the page where the content originated. Search engines are free to index and cache our content. Users who post their account names or personal information in their questions have no expectation of privacy beyond that point for anything they disclose. Questions are otherwise considered anonymous to the general public.