hey, im a 14/f. 7 months ago, my boyfriend & i had sex. & now im pregnant. my parents kicked me out of their house & now i am living with at boyfriend's house. his parents are really supporting us with my pregnancy. my boyfriend says that he is gonna take responsibility for me & the baby. he is 16 years old & he has been workin two full time jobs. so he works all day. we are saving money for our new apartment that we are going to move into next month. i was also working a full time job, but now i had to stop because of my pregnancy. we are saving money to buy clothes & furniture for the baby. the baby is healthy & we are really excited. my bf asked me to marry him, and i said yes. we are getting married next month. my parents and his parents are going to help with the wedding. the thing is that im worried he is going to dump me. just like in movies. i know this is reality, but i just want to know if there is any chances he might dump me. he is really sweet, hes happy & everything. he is always telling me how much he loves me & our baby & that he is always going to take care of us. he is really responsible. i say he is the perfect daddy & husband. he already started buying clothes for the baby. i just want to know if there is any chances he might dump me. thank u for your advice.
ladym answered Sunday July 9 2006, 6:56 pm: First,I just want to say congatulations!although it's impossible to tell if he will dump you,I don't think he will.He sounds really committed,and happy.I wish you both a happy marriage. [ ladym's advice column | Ask ladym A Question ]
Meghan09 answered Sunday July 9 2006, 6:34 pm: If he has stayed with you this long, is working all the time, and asked you to marry him, he's not going to dump you. Don't worry you got lucky; you got one of the only guys out here that are willing to take responsibility for there actions. He sounds like a good guy, and you got lucky. Good Luck with everything and congratulations. If you need to talk e-mail me on here. Hope I helped. [ Meghan09's advice column | Ask Meghan09 A Question ]
Helpful answered Sunday July 9 2006, 6:27 pm: I think you should take comfort because I think he really means what he says. I hope you guys can have a good life. One hint: both of you should get as much education as you can so that you can live more comfortably. Hope I helped! [ Helpful's advice column | Ask Helpful A Question ]
heather21 answered Sunday July 9 2006, 6:15 pm: Hey thats great! Well your only 14.. so becareful, If you really think hes the one then go for it. If not, dont. Or tell him to wait a while, you two are young ,or well atlesat you are.. and you shouldnt feel the need to rush into everything because of being pregnant! i dont understand your title my best friend and I are pregnant with the same guy? haha thatdoesnt have to deal withthe story
thelaura answered Sunday July 9 2006, 6:15 pm: You're 14, you have a baby on the way and you're getting married?
That's a first.
If your boyfriend wants to be tied down with a wife and a baby at 16 years of age, then that's his decision.
You are young.. and you do realize times will change. It's okay for him. If anything does happen and he leaves, it will be you who's left holding the baby.
I'm not trying to be mean in any way. But it's too early to say whether or not things will work out between you two.
Having a baby is serious. and it changes people. You are barely teenagers and will have to go through alot. Only time will tell. [ thelaura's advice column | Ask thelaura A Question ]
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