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its gotten tot he point where I feel so low about myself I could crawl into my bed and never come out. I want to be with someone that makes me feel special.. Why cant i find that guy?
Ive never had a bf treat me good and for a long time now i havent had a bf.
Im a normal girl and I know im not realllly ugly.. I actualy sometimes think im pretty..
I have talents and yes I have flaws. But i think id be a really good girlfriend.
what can I do?
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Right now, I'm kind of wondering if I wrote that question because I was just telling a friend last night that I felt that way. I'm sorry you feel that. I'm sorry I feel that way. I can't really help you because I cna't really help me but on the upside. Me and said friend are going boyfriend hunting Monday after school. You should too!
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Stop looking for him. The perfect guy for you isn't someone you hunt for. He'll come your way eventually, and there's nothing you can do to speed up the process. You have to learn to love yourself as an individual first before you can have a successful relationship. The "I have talents & I have flaws" thing was good, but "I think I'd be a really good girlfriend" is not. Don't mope around because you don't have a boyfriend. Don't worry about finding a boyfriend because you'd be a good girlfriend. Wait for the right guy, or go out & find him by meeting people, but don't try to force anything.
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Well - don't take this offensively, but - no guy wants a girl who thinks low of herself. Think positive!
But other than thinking positive, start being positive. It's not really attractive when a girl calls herself ugly. A girl who's confident & proud of herself is a good thing.
Also - don't let your boyfriends treat you like crap! Stand up for yourself. Have some self respect, and stand up.
The right guy will come a long sooner or later. Stop looking & searching. Soon enough, he'll come out from wherever he may be, and just might find you.
Also - drop bad habits & friends. It'll give you a new start & it'll look good. Guys don't want a girl who seems to be a trouble maker because that's the type of kids she hangs out with.
Make some new friends. I'm hinting towards guys with this one. Get to know them, if you feel something, ask them out.
Don't try to impress a guy with makeup, or nice clothes. Although nice clothes are a plus, don't use it to get a guy. You're probably a very pretty girl, but don't just depend on your looks. Guys want more than that. Guys look for personality too. =)
Anyways, just wait it out & soon enough, Mr. Right will come around. =) Good luck!
I hope I helped you.
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stop looking. seriously when you stop looking for the right guy an just focus on having fun and being happy,without a boyfriend, i swear boys just start crawling out of the woodwork like termites. i think they know when your happy with yourself an thats what attracts decent guys. you also have to remember if you give off the vibe that your desperate or want someone to like you it seems the only boys to respond are lil punks just tryin to get your goodies. guys really are attracted to the strong happy and independant girls that seem to not need them. go figure.
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Wow .. I used to feel exactly like that. I bet your a teenager right? In my opinion, every teen goes through that stage, whether they are readyu to admit it or not. I already went through that so I'll tell you what I did.
I dropped all the bad habits and bad friends I had. That will give you somewhyat of a clean slate.
As for looks, you probably are very pretty. But loks aren't the only thing that guys go for. What you need is a guy that will like you, for you. You need to find a guy that you dont have to impress with make up, expensive clothes and other things of that nature.
At the moment there is nothing really that you can do ecept this:
Open yourself up a little bit more. Make new friends. If you really want a boyfriend, make friends that are boys, get to know them, and if you feel any "chemistry" ask them out!
Good luck! and if you need any more help .. feel free to IM me!
UNPREDiCTABLEx01
xO'ali
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DON'T WORRY E IS OUT DER SOMEWERE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
GOOD LUCK HUNNI!
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Hi there :o) You need to understand that No one can make you happy, its something you have to do on your own.... Its funny how it works but usually when you stop looking for a boyfriend one seems to find you...
I am 20 turning 21 and guess what!! I have found that guy that makes me feel really special just 1 month ago, don't get me wrong I had boyfriends while I was in school, I dated a few, 2 where long term.. but non of them made me feel really special (it was puppy love, it was special but nothing like now....) When your older and more mature you will find that special guy, that makes you feel like your the only beautifull woman on the planet...
Enjoy dating while in school but just keep in mind that there is only better to come don't try to get to serious!
Enjoy your friends untill you find a boyfriend (because usually when you have a boyfriend your friends sort of stand last in line)
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Rawr. My friends all have called me beautiful (Thanks Sammy and Sascha!) and I haven't had a serious boyfriend yet. I'm currently 14. I'm normal too.
Like YG said, boys under 16 (or I dare say 17) aren't as mature as the ladies, and I laugh at it, but that's just me.
Good luck!!
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Young men take a while to get real good at being everything you want. Girls mature faster than boys do.
So, if you are under the age of 16, you may just have to be patient and wait for the guys to mature a little. Either that or look for someone a couple of years older than yourself.
Don't worry, you'll find him. :)
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