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Do teen guys (around 14/15 years old) care a lot about a girl's weight? I get a dress down day tommorrow for school (my school wears uniforms) and i want to look nice but im really insecure about my thighs and i dont know if all the guys will be like OMG shes sooo fat and not like me. I know it shouldnt matter but i want to know if its a big issue with guys in general. (directed towards teenage guys reading this: ) when you look at a girl a you think shes pretty would she be unattractive to you if her legs are kinda big? do a girls looks really matter if you like her?
thanks if anyone answers
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Guys don't notice.
They don't date girls because of their size or attractivness. A few guys (if you're going for the preppy/popular types) will but not based on their own opinions.
For example,
Jenny doesn't like Karly because Karly dyed her hair blonde and lost more weight than Jenny.
Jenny bitches to James and John.
James and John figure that Karly is hot because she has blonde hair, is skinny and Jenny is jealous.
James and John meet Kenny and tell him that they think Karly is hot.
Kenny decides that Karly is hot and asks her out.
There are different variations of this but it pretty much boils down to the same idea.
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To answer question 1, that's pretty much all they care about, aside from looks, of course. The guys won't say how fat your theighs are, the girls might, but guys don't notice shit like that. I've liked kinda fat chicks in my time, but there weren't like obese. And they were nice. And I'm really stupid. A girl's looks matter to an extent. If you get to know her, then looks don't matter as much. But it is the thing that first attracts everyone and will or will not give you more leeway in a relationship.
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No! If a guy has a problem with your weight he is not worth your time.
I do have some advice for you though if you wish!
I also go to a uniform school and can empathize with you about the importance of dress-down days. Everyone buys new stuff and wants to dress to impress.
Remember this, anyone can be in fashion - you just have to know what to wear! Now, if your thighs are biggers, go for a pair of pants that are slimming. Dark demin (jeans) automatically looks cleancut, sophisticated and slimming. Also, i recommend getting a pair of mid cut pair of jeans. This will draw attention away from your legs. Make sure the jeans have back pockets as this also draws attention away from your legs.
And if your thighs are bigger, go for a flared pair of jeans that balance out your shape. Slim jeans only emphasize your thighs, but a flared pair with a cute shoe will totally reduce your thighs as attention is drawn else wear!
Good luck! and remember - you are beautiful! and if a guy can't love you for you, he's not worth a second look!
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if a guy really likes a girl then i dont think so BUT some freaks are jerks and just go for the looks which is totally rude, but i dont think you should worry about the weight thing because not many care but thats just my opinion '`hearts;
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It don't matter what other guys think about you. If you have a boyfriend who really loves you, he will not care if you are fat because it is what is on the inside that counts, not the outside.
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Genrally, guys don't care about weight, you get some stupid guys who only care about looks rather than personality, but genrally, guts tend to like people for who they are inside not out
Just remember - no ones perfect
Chandler
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honestly i like my women to be a bit bigger in the first place. skinny is gross to me. it's just how i roll. a lot of things will lead you to believe that guys want their firls skinny as a rail with huge boobs but the fact is we just want a girl to be who she is, whether that be big or small short or tall. we just want someone real. so wear what you want, go nuts and have fun.
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Hmm...I can help you here - I go to an all guys school. How does that help? Well I hear about...300 different opinions when it comes to girls and their looks. A majority say that looks really don't matter, just a plus if you got them. But all of them say that they don't like girls, reguardless of size or shape, that worries and slaves over their weight and " doesn't want to eat that because its fattening " (not saying you do). So personally, no I don't mind that whatsoever or anything. I'm guessing a majority of the guys won't either - if they do, because there might just be - who cares about them? Really, chances are they are the jerks and just not even worth a thought. Besides - would you want to be liked as a friend because of who you are, or for what you look like? Hope that helped.
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if this is something 'you' are concerned about, then I will take it another route for you, instead of "who care what THEY think".
What are u planning on wearing ?
there is a difference between 'dressing down' vs. 'dressing attractive', and not meaning that in a sexy way, but meaning that in "what is going to be "attracting the EYES to the THIGHS" ??
skirt ? shorts ? light colored tight-fitted jeans?
Try to find something that will take attention 'off' of that area, like somthing dark. something straight-legged around the ankle that will line u'r thighs w/u'r hieght.
Leggins are all the rage now, so how about dark leggins w/a longer jean skirt for comfortability.
Cant help u'r thighs, gurlie...but u can sure take the 'distraction' off of them to balance your look !
G/L
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Well yeah, looks are what make a person ATTRACTED to someone, but personality is something more then that. Personality is something that keeps the person liking the other person and that keeps the people together in a relationship. A guy won't date a girl who doesn't have a nice personality to go with her looks. And also remember, guys are like girls in a way. A lot of different guys like different "types" of girls, and if one guy won't go for you, another one will. There will be someone for you who will love you for every part of you and think you are beautiful no matter what you think about yourself.
Like what the other person said, no one will say anything about your body. They will be too worried about how THEY look since it's a dress down day in a school with uniforms (I go to a private school and we have to wear uniforms also) so don't worry about it. Just have as much fun as you can while it lasts!
-mystical_breeze
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i agree with the person who first answered. teenage boys are stupid. lol
but from my expearances, a lot of boys dont really care anymore, but you will always have some around that do.
im sure you'll look fine no matter what =]
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Most teen boys are dumb. Sorry to say, but it's true. I can bet you 10 bucks that no one will say anything negative about you tomorrow. =] Everyone's going to be worrying about themselves looking good. I can easily answer this question for you, even though I'm not a guy, no; To some guys, yes looks matter, to others personalities the key. But honestly, who cares. You aren't going to school to please anybody. It varies from guy to guy, but honestly just don't worry too much about it. =]
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