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Question Posted Saturday October 8 2005, 5:49 pm

How should I ask a girl if she will go out with me?

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onlyme answered Friday December 30 2005, 3:06 pm:
Some people might say to write a note or ask a friend to sak her out for you but that is a bad idea because usually they will say no. I woiuld just tell it to her face.

Anna<3

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PinkPrincess20 answered Monday October 10 2005, 1:25 pm:
well im a girl and most girls like A MAN WHO ISN'T AFRIDE TO ASK TO THERE FACE.IF NOT THEN THERE IS A SECOUND CHOICE YOU CAN WRITE A NOTE OR ASKA FRIEND TO ASK HER
HOPE I HELPED
*LINDSAY*

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taytayareogirl58 answered Monday October 10 2005, 11:47 am:
just go up to her and freaken ask her out say WILL YOU GO OUT WITH ME

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M3GHANBUCHERvllybll answered Sunday October 9 2005, 10:05 pm:
whatever you do do NOT say, "will you PLEASE be my girlfriend?" because that makes us feel on the spot and we don't want to say no to a Please... (that will make the girl uncomfortable) just be like, do you wanna go to the mall or see amovie w/me this weekend?

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xiicarebareiix answered Sunday October 9 2005, 4:58 pm:
just say "hey, i really like you. would you like to go out sometime?" i know how hard it is to do that, but just tell her exactly how you feel.

xoxo
Care Bare
ps: good luck!

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syireen answered Sunday October 9 2005, 1:50 am:
just be casual dont be two nervouse and dont acually ask her out just kinda find excuses to be with her outside of school and just be yourself.

oh ya also a girl always loves a confident guy
(wink,wink)

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sunshine805 answered Saturday October 8 2005, 9:18 pm:
You should go up to her and ask her if she's doing anything and if she wants to go ....... (add what you want there) with you. That's the classic way.

Hope I helped!
Ke

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diebadspellers answered Saturday October 8 2005, 8:57 pm:
Nike has the right idea: Just do it.

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twistedteen25 answered Saturday October 8 2005, 8:49 pm:
Just ask her she won't bite!

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x_C010rMyW0r1d answered Saturday October 8 2005, 8:13 pm:
Just be nice .. Get to know her a little. That way if you end up not liking her as much once you know her better you wont have to break her heart. Then just go up to her and say.. Listen .. i really like you .. would you like to go out with me ? .. you know .. something sweet thatll make her knees buckle.

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QueenCrimson answered Saturday October 8 2005, 7:49 pm:
Give subtle hints, and try to see if she has feelings for you in return. I'm sure you wish to avoid getting hurt and the best way to do this is to see where she stands. Don't let yourself get too emotionally attached to this girl unless she's willing to have a relationship with you. Give her hints on upcoming events; a new movie, or some activity that the two of you could enjoy together. If she gets the hint, she may ask you out herself, but if she continuously blows you off, I would retreat fast and find another girl to crush on.

Also, you should see if she has a boyfriend. I know many guys who have made the mistake of asking a taken girl out. Don't let yourself fall to her mercy, especially if she's seeing someone else. If hinting doesn't work, and you feel she enjoys your presence, I'd say it was time to be upfront with her. Tell her how you feel, but be careful not to spill your heart out unless she reacts positively to the suggestion of going out with you.

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Erinn_the_bamf answered Saturday October 8 2005, 7:37 pm:
The most efficent way to ask is up front. You get a promt, direct, truthful answer. However, a really sweet way to ask a girl out is in a poem. It has to come from the heart. Try not to use playa words like "You're such a hot whore do me baby do me." She'll probably slap you or ruin your life. Try to keep it meaningful. I hope I helped!

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AdviceAbby answered Saturday October 8 2005, 7:34 pm:
Be very nice and truthful. That is what I would want. You better be nice and/or cute. Girls dig this.

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Hollister0xHunni answered Saturday October 8 2005, 6:25 pm:
just be like would u ever go out with me?? nd if she says yes or ma,ybe then be like will you then???

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Chewshi answered Saturday October 8 2005, 6:23 pm:
Don't flat out ask her if she wants to go out with you - it may make her panic and overreact, and she'll be fidgety on your date. Tell her that she can invite a friend if she wants and invite one of your own friends that'll do something like this for you and will most likely get along with her best friend. Go somewhere public that won't make her feel nervous about you, and be nice, listen, and ask her if where you're going is okay! Do whatever it takes to loosen her up.

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Curemysadness answered Saturday October 8 2005, 6:21 pm:
Well to start, you should show her that you like her first. Don't come rite out and say it at first tho. Just SHOW her. Be nice to her, flirt with her. Treat her extra special. Then if she doesn't get the hint, tell her. Then find out how she feels about you. And then just ask her if she would be interested in being your g/f. This way if you do things to prove that you like her BEFORE you ask her out, she can't say that you didn't even talk to her, or act like you liked her before. Good luck!

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breath_less2164 answered Saturday October 8 2005, 6:15 pm:
first you should be like mega affectionate to her. and like hugs her and cuddle her, and she how she responds. if she does the same to you, tkae her aside somewhere where no one else is. and jus tell her that you really like her, and u think she is beautiful. Then ask her if she'll go out wiht you! good luck<3

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Ivy921 answered Saturday October 8 2005, 6:08 pm:
Call her or see her around and start talking to her casually enough, see if you have something in common like a movie you both want to see and as her out. or if you mean not like in a date but to go together... hang out a lot, IM, have fun, talk, then ask her out. Girls sometimes don't like if a guy asks her out out of the blue. Good luck and keep me posted.

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Vendetta answered Saturday October 8 2005, 5:55 pm:
Just ask her if she would like to go to (insert place here) with you.

If you want better answers, you should be more specific in your question. It really depends on how long you've known her and who she is (your best friend, some random girl in your English class, the pedophile down the street, et cetera).

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karenR answered Saturday October 8 2005, 5:52 pm:
Here is a website with tips on asking someone out. I hope it is helpful. :)

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