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Confused!!!


Question Posted Saturday October 8 2005, 5:47 pm

Theres this guy and i really like him but i dont know if he likes me a couple of months ago we made out and hooked up like a month later it happend again.. he was a major player but for some reason i think he actually likes me now hes got a girlfriend and she is sorta my friend he purposely kisses her in front of me and touches her and all that stuff. I dont know if he likes her or not but hes been going out with her for like 4 weeks and he hasnt cheated on her yet and thats not usual with him.What should i do?

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HollisterHottie345 answered Sunday October 9 2005, 9:03 pm:
Leave his ass alone! Gurl...if he's playin your friend...and you're playin your friend...there is something majorly wrong there. If he's gonna kiss his gurl in front of you and all this crap then he's not good enough for you. Don't do it! If he's playin her, what makes you think he's not gonna play you. Take it from someone who has been in your shoes. You don't want to know what that kind of hurt feels like! Trust me babe! You don't. Whatever you chose to do, let me know how it goes! Hugs and Kisses! ~*Alyssa-Beth*~

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AGEHA answered Saturday October 8 2005, 7:56 pm:
He's just being his usual manwhore self. Pay no further attention.

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QueenCrimson answered Saturday October 8 2005, 7:55 pm:
You can't initially assume he hasn't cheated on his new girlfriend, especially since he has a history of doing so. It's up to you to have feelings for a guy who treats other girls like pieces of meat, but I'd be careful; why would you want to give this guy your heart and soul if he's only going to batter and abuse it? All I can say is watch yourself; what you do and do not do is up to you. You can be the only person to decide your fate.

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SUNKiiSSEDSECZii answered Saturday October 8 2005, 7:03 pm:
Why would you wanna go out with someone that is KNOWN for being a player and cheating on people. And put urself in his girlfriends shoes!! I mean come on, she's your friend!!!! Find some other guy that deserves you.


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sillyrob answered Saturday October 8 2005, 6:32 pm:
This guy is KNOWN for cheating on girls and you want to go out with him??? NO! Find some other guy. Going after a guy who is known for cheating on his girlfriend is one of the dumbest things you could possibly get yourself into. Just don't get involved with him, it'll make your life better.

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Ivy921 answered Saturday October 8 2005, 6:11 pm:
This guy sounds like trouble and you have such a serious crush that it sounds like this could be major drama. I would say try and look around and find someone else to be interested in. This solves 2 problems: you wouldn't be 'the other girl' if he decides to cheat and secondly, he'd probably get more interested in you the less attention you pay to him. Good luck and keep me posted.

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angelfire2708 answered Saturday October 8 2005, 6:10 pm:
Guys dont have to like a girl in order to make out w/them. If he actually "likes" you, then why isnt he w/you? im sorry to say, but its girls like you that make guys like him "players"!!! Why would any1 want a cheater? Its not a tough decision. You just answered all of your questions urself!
Hes kissing and touching her in front of you so you can see that he likes her and wants to be w/her! Just dont give him anymore opportunities to "use" you, bcause you will get hurt! Stay away from guys like that. There are alot of guys out there, that wont take advantage of girls!!
You just have to be patient! Stay clear of guys who have gfs!!!

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karenR answered Saturday October 8 2005, 5:56 pm:
I think he is still a major player.

He has a girlfriend AND someone to make out with when it suits him (you).

If he is dating someone else besides you after all that...hes a loser.

Not only that but its with a friend of yours. Smart thing to do is forget this clown. He will only break your heart. More than he has already. You can do a lot better than him. :)

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