Hey everyone! I'm Leanna and I'm eighteen-years-old from Ontario. If it's not obvious enough, I joined this site because I enjoy giving advice and getting advice in return. Also, I'm publishing a magazine filled with advice columns for a school assignment and need ideas as to how I can create it.
With that being said, I am in my fifth year of high school. I did graduate in June, but I wanted to improve my grades. Also, I hope to be going to College next September next year to study Print Journalism.
If you'd like to know more about me, feel free to ask.
E-mail: abandonedremedies@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Ontario, Canada.
Occupation: Student.
Age: 18
MSN: littlestpunk@hotmail.com
Member Since: September 20, 2005
Answers: 3
Last Update: October 8, 2005
Visitors: 592
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I have just gone into seventh grade this year, And me and my friends all want to decorate peoples lockers for their birthdays. But my one friend doent seem like she wants me to help. I was just on the phone with her and she was getting ready to go in early tomorrow to decorate one ofour friends lockers. But when I asked her if I could help she was just kinda guiet and said, "I don't Know." And when she was talking about all the lockers she was going to decorate I said, "Yeah, you and me will have to go in and decorate them together." When I said that she was jsut kind of quiet. And when I asked if that was o.k, she just said really quietly. " I guess So." So I can't tell if she wants me to help or not. We are both friends with the same people. I ust don't kow why she is acting so weird. If someone could PLLLEASE right back ASAP, that would be great! (link)
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Get up the nerve to ask her if she truly wants you to help decorate lockers with her. If she is acting weird, confront her about it. Obviously, she's hiding something for the sake of not hurting you, but in the process, she's doing exactly that. If she doesn't want you to help her, accept this and move on. If she isn't willing to engage with you as friends, she isn't trying to be a good friend. Ask her what her problem is, but be respectful with what she has to say. Maybe your mind is playing tricks on you; there may not even be a presentable problem. Confront her about it, talk it through with her. Get to the bottom of this without sounding desperate.
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Theres this guy and i really like him but i dont know if he likes me a couple of months ago we made out and hooked up like a month later it happend again.. he was a major player but for some reason i think he actually likes me now hes got a girlfriend and she is sorta my friend he purposely kisses her in front of me and touches her and all that stuff. I dont know if he likes her or not but hes been going out with her for like 4 weeks and he hasnt cheated on her yet and thats not usual with him.What should i do? (link)
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You can't initially assume he hasn't cheated on his new girlfriend, especially since he has a history of doing so. It's up to you to have feelings for a guy who treats other girls like pieces of meat, but I'd be careful; why would you want to give this guy your heart and soul if he's only going to batter and abuse it? All I can say is watch yourself; what you do and do not do is up to you. You can be the only person to decide your fate.
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How should I ask a girl if she will go out with me? (link)
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Give subtle hints, and try to see if she has feelings for you in return. I'm sure you wish to avoid getting hurt and the best way to do this is to see where she stands. Don't let yourself get too emotionally attached to this girl unless she's willing to have a relationship with you. Give her hints on upcoming events; a new movie, or some activity that the two of you could enjoy together. If she gets the hint, she may ask you out herself, but if she continuously blows you off, I would retreat fast and find another girl to crush on.
Also, you should see if she has a boyfriend. I know many guys who have made the mistake of asking a taken girl out. Don't let yourself fall to her mercy, especially if she's seeing someone else. If hinting doesn't work, and you feel she enjoys your presence, I'd say it was time to be upfront with her. Tell her how you feel, but be careful not to spill your heart out unless she reacts positively to the suggestion of going out with you.
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