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Death


Question Posted Friday September 30 2005, 2:04 am

Sometimes i feel like i want to die, i dont feel like miserable or anything and i dont want to die just for a way out, i feel kind of excited about death, like when i die i will be at peace with everything. isnt that what everyone wants inner peace and to live in eternal paradise? thats what i want? what are we waiting for?

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Heartwhisper answered Sunday January 1 2006, 5:23 am:
Ahhhh, I believe the purpose behind our creation is to creat Heaven on earth, and that's a big challenge what with this mess we humans have created via all our heartless choices. Death isn't an end, it's actually a different beginning that was the one we experienced at birth. Inner peace is worth working toward, but no one shall realize that paradise that doesn't allow their heart to guide their choices. Heart and soul being one in the same you can see how it works. It's this simple really, but few will allow this truth to surface without conflict or judgement because its concept is so uncommon to all else. We are all as a group consciousness, destined to created heaven right here on earth, as earth was created to be a 'classroom' where souls come and work to accomplish their earthly missions of peace and love that lives freely here. Do your part by being true to your inner self, that place of all knowingness and deepest belief and hearted power. Your are a fine creation so shine your light brightly in all directions and trust that in so doing you'll inspire others to do the same and on and one we grow and heaven begins to take shape right here on dear earth. Blessings to you for your years to come.

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strange_ursula answered Friday October 7 2005, 7:43 pm:
Why die when you can find peace here on this earth?
When you are in harmony with the world around you and at harmony with yourself you will have peace.
Please, if this gets to the point of actually carrying out suicide, speak to a professional who will be able to create a safe environment in which you can work stuff out.

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hersheylover answered Tuesday October 4 2005, 2:29 pm:
I understand what you mean, you know about, "if i die, all my problems will be gone and i will be happy."
but think of it this way...if you die, all of your relatives would feel a great amount of pain. do you want to be responsible for that?
not to mention that ive heard that if you take your own life, you will live in heck. im not sure about it, but its what i heard. do you have any friends? they can be a great source of support. i have had relatives who have threatened suicide, dont ever do it. it frightens everybody, dont do it for attention either. do something your good at, ex. making good grades..
hope i helped...hersheylover....

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tangerine answered Saturday October 1 2005, 9:26 am:
Death is certainly not something to be feared, but not something to be embraced either.

One day you *will* die, as will I, as will everyone else, so if its inevitable, whats the use of choosing it over life? Life is something you might not get back, and its passing you by right now, I suggest you start focusing on LIVING rather than dying.

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advicegodesses2 answered Friday September 30 2005, 4:32 pm:
Hey,
I want to die, too. but I'm not excited about death. I', scared but I do want a way out. I think the reason that people are waiting for is that they're scared of Hell. You go to Hell when you commit ssuicide. The reason for that is because if you're a good perosn and you kil yourself you think that you're gonna go Heaven because you were a good perosn, but that is a total lie they go to Hell. You wanna know why? It is because God put you on this Earth for a reason and you're killing the reason ,too.

Good Luck,
Adivcegodesses2

P.S.Write me back and tell me how it went and how my adivce was.

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sbloemeke answered Friday September 30 2005, 4:14 pm:
I took it that you are thinking of this in a spiritual sense, so I'm going to be a bit spiritual on you here. :)
Peace and eternal paradise. I take that to be heaven. There is one reason why you should not die for that purpose. Well, multiple.
1st, if you are thinking of suicide, you are missing the commandment. Thou shalt not kill. This includes yourself. And you have no time to feel remourse and pray for forgiveness, because you are instantly dead and judged.
2nd, if you die quickly, you miss out the reward. Heaven is not the same for anyone. Bible passages say that people receive rewards for good deeds on earth, and they do not mean it in the sense that you will receive the reward of heaven. They mean that you will receive a heavenly reward that you cannot possibly imagine down here on earth.
And what determines that reward? Through your life, according to Paul, you build up an alter of hay, straw, wood, stone, gold, and precious metals (I think that's it...) You go to the judgement area, and it is tested with fire that will devour the hay, staw, and wood. It's an unforgiving fire. Then, based on what is left, Jesus, the judge, will give you the reward he most wants to give you, but for those that have nothing left, they receive nothing but happiness.
These are the things you did in your life. The hay are the sins, and the precious metals are the good deeds you've done (Like helping teens with problems. :) ). So, if you do reach eternal paradise, you'll have nothing and lose the reward that is potentially yours. Good deeds are greater in quantity over a longer period of time than a smaller quantity congested into a few years.
-Steven

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EvilCheshire answered Friday September 30 2005, 4:07 pm:
We're waiting to die, becuase we are obviously first meant to live. Make the most of your life, stop moping around.

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karenR answered Friday September 30 2005, 3:18 pm:
I think we are all here for a reason. That may not be what your looking for exactly.

Find your reason. Thats what your waiting for. :)

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annmarie16 answered Friday September 30 2005, 10:57 am:
well may be when you get mad and you feel like u wanna kill urself just go into ur room and listen to music and god just gave us all a preios of time to live and when one of your just one of us have to go then i guess we just gotta go...<333

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Xylina40 answered Friday September 30 2005, 10:22 am:
Well, sometimes God has a set period of time that he wants us to live. For now just enjoy life your time will come.

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rockergurl answered Friday September 30 2005, 9:43 am:
Maybe you should get a hobbie, like yoga or something, or maybe something a bit more interesting like music or acting. Or instead you could like go on vacation (its a peaceful paradise?)or you could talk to your friends when you feel like that and go somewhere you like.
hope my advice helps! rockergurl

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livestrong answered Friday September 30 2005, 8:42 am:
Yea everyone wants to be in an eternal paradise but the only way to get there is to sit back and wait... life is like a rollar coster sit back, relax and enjoy the ride. Sure there may be a couple of flips and bumps along it but sure enough it will be all worth it. There's so much here to do do keep us occupied go out and have fun the more fun you have the more you'll think of your own life being its own paradise...
Live Strong

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Courtney answered Friday September 30 2005, 8:30 am:
Honey, life is an obstacle with a lot of challenges that face your way. It's hard and yes it really is, but you know it's all worth it. I know that sometimes things feel as if they keep taking and taking and eating everything inside of you leaving you with nothing left but you have to fight. Life is worth fighting for. You will see that it will get better. Gradually and slowly. It's also the way that you view life that needs to change because it really does affect your perspective about death and life. Oh, and not to
mention that if you kill yourself that God will punish you by sending you straight to hell. But if you don't believe in that, then I'm not going to waste time explaining it to you. I respect that . You have to explore yourself, and that is not life honey that is you and with it comes your life. Inner peace, life doesn't influence inner peace. It tests it. You have to look deep within yourself and tap into that strength that's there and then you have to live. Life will test you but will you let it beat you? It's all up to you.

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