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Gender: Female
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Age: 13
MSN: sweet_chick_116@hotmail.com
Member Since: September 29, 2005
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ok im sorry if this is long but i really need help!!!right well im 14/f and i met this guy over the summer and ive fancied him ever since and apparently he fancies me...but he has a girlfriend but their ALWAYS on and off and when their off people say its coz he wants to be with me and stuff, i know this sounds stupid but yesterday i hugged him and he smelt so good and it made me want to be with him..and he told my friend that i dont seem like the kinda person to be in long term relashionships what does that suppose to mean??hes 17 by the way and before anyone says hes just messing me around hes not that kinda guy! my best friend just got with his best friend and im so jealous of them what can i do to get him???!?!?!?!??! im so depressed!! sorry its long ill rate high! thnx xxxxx (link)
Tell him hes gotta make a choose, you or that other girl.its really simple.rockregurl.


my girlfriend and I technically arent going out anymore.. but nothin has really changed, like she is my best friend and i still care about her so much and she says that the only reasons she isnt going out with me anymore is because she has some issues with herself that she needs to deal with. i tell her thats alright and that i can wait for her to do it but she keeps trying to insinuate that i like other girls and that i should go out with them. She seems to want me to move on but im not giving up on her ever.. i really dont know if she just doesnt care about me anymore or whether she really does have some stuff she needs to deal with and just wants me to be free to do what i want? The weird thing is that when we are together we act the same as when we were actually going out.. just we talk more now. which is really good because im finding out some things that i never knew. but i dont want to be in a relationship thats not going anywhere.. and she knows how i feel, so why would she tell me that she cares about me, and that she wants the best for me.. but then push me away like this? (link)
I think she doesnt like you anymore to tell the truth. or maybe she just wants some time to herself you know, to think things over. Also maybe she does care about you, but doesnt want you stuck with a relationship thats not moving. I think you should give her time alone, but not date other people, good luck btw you dont hav to do this. rockergurl


Sometimes i feel like i want to die, i dont feel like miserable or anything and i dont want to die just for a way out, i feel kind of excited about death, like when i die i will be at peace with everything. isnt that what everyone wants inner peace and to live in eternal paradise? thats what i want? what are we waiting for? (link)
Maybe you should get a hobbie, like yoga or something, or maybe something a bit more interesting like music or acting. Or instead you could like go on vacation (its a peaceful paradise?)or you could talk to your friends when you feel like that and go somewhere you like.
hope my advice helps! rockergurl




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