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i am 13/m
well its all over the whole me liking my best friend best friend thing is sovled so is every other thisng that has to do with her because she is moving to Chicago at the end of the school year :(((((((((((, tear
but my ? is what should i do she always looks to me for advice and i am good at giving it but now i am literaly on the brink of tears cause i am about to lose my best friend
so what should i doo when she needs to talk
should i cry with her
should i stay strong for both of us
or something else
Also i really dont have any advice to give for this one i just fell like crawling into a hole and not moving until shes gone so i dont have to give her advice about this or say goodbye
thanks from
foreverlostw/oher
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If you care about her, you need to be there for her. Not run away.
Stay strong for the both of you, tell her you're going to be there for her. When she moves, tell her that you'll try and stay in touch, and that goodbye never means forever.
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Well, if you guys are such good friends, her moving shouldn't end your friendship. She will still be your best friend, you guys will keep in touch. Hiding away is the worst idea, and would only prove you're not a good friend.
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Just because she is moving at the end of the school year doesnt mean you guys have to stop being friends.. There are many methods and ways that you guys can stay in touch and keep being friends... Email.... Writing Letters... IM.... And even maybe on breaks from school flying to see each other... But for your question... I know its hard to lose a best friend when they move away.. but... youve got to remember... you've got a whole school year left with her... Dont let her moving away ruin the rest of the school year... and the memories that you guys can make in that time... You need to stay strong for the both of you... Your young.. I Know.. and it may be hard.. but just be strong... Keep giving her advice that she needs... Guide her... She trusts you... From the sounds of it.. She seems like shes afraid to move also.. Like shes going to lose her best friend. But your not going to lose each other.. Granted... you'll be in different states.. but you will stay friends.. you just have to make yourselves stay friends... I hope this didnt confuse you... If you need anything else... Just drop one in the inbox...
Cheer Up... You Have a WHOLE school year left with her.... Make The Best Of It....
Take Pictures of Each Other... So You Guys Can Remember Each Other....
**Jackie**
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First off don't hide that's not gonna help anything. If you feel this strongly about her you should try taling to her, you never know maybe she feels the same way.
Secondly, she's your bestfriend and she moving try to spend some quality time with her. trust me the worst thing you want to happen is that she leaves and then your left with a whole bunch what ifs?
What if I had just talked to her?
What if I just told her how I felt?
What if.... well you get what I mean. No one wants to be left out in the cold. So right noow just take advantage of the time you have and remember goodbye doesn't have to be forever.
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The end of the school year is a long way of, trooper. Did I just call you trooper? Oh well. You get the point. 6 or 7 months is a really long time to be in a hole- just ask Saddam. Does she know how you feel about her? I know it sounds goofy and a little cliche, but I always absolutely feel better after I let someone know what's actually on the inside, no matter what the outcome is. If she is your best friend, it's not going to effect the way she thinks about you either way. if she does like you, you might as well have just won the Heisman or something. If she doesn't, you're still best friends with her. Even if things are slightly akward for a couple of days, it'll pass. I can kind of vouch for that personally.
Honestly, the worst thing you can do is nothing.
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