Member Since: September 28, 2005
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Last Update: September 30, 2005
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Okay, I have this problem with talking about bodily functions. I know that guys aren't very afraid to talk about farting, or burping, or even going #2. Guys always fart, and burp in front of people and it doesn't even phase them! Some girls that I know are like this too. But me, I would never be able to fart in front of anyone, or tell someone I had to go #2, I think that is just wrong. Is anyone else too shy, or afraid to do this in front of people. How can I open up more, and not be embarrassed if I burp in front of a guy? and WHY are guys like this? It bothers me when my b/f is always like.."i have to take a sh*t!" Like I wanted to know that! (link)
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Honestly you have to learn to be comfortable with yourself before you can be comfortable with others. Learn to laugh at yourself it really does help. And if you do burp or fart in front of someone just laugh it off and say excuse me. Plus it doesn't matter if you don't do what everyone else does just be you cause that counts for something.
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i am 13/m
well its all over the whole me liking my best friend best friend thing is sovled so is every other thisng that has to do with her because she is moving to Chicago at the end of the school year :(((((((((((, tear
but my ? is what should i do she always looks to me for advice and i am good at giving it but now i am literaly on the brink of tears cause i am about to lose my best friend
so what should i doo when she needs to talk
should i cry with her
should i stay strong for both of us
or something else
Also i really dont have any advice to give for this one i just fell like crawling into a hole and not moving until shes gone so i dont have to give her advice about this or say goodbye
thanks from
foreverlostw/oher (link)
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First off don't hide that's not gonna help anything. If you feel this strongly about her you should try taling to her, you never know maybe she feels the same way.
Secondly, she's your bestfriend and she moving try to spend some quality time with her. trust me the worst thing you want to happen is that she leaves and then your left with a whole bunch what ifs?
What if I had just talked to her?
What if I just told her how I felt?
What if.... well you get what I mean. No one wants to be left out in the cold. So right noow just take advantage of the time you have and remember goodbye doesn't have to be forever.
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my girlfriend and I technically arent going out anymore.. but nothin has really changed, like she is my best friend and i still care about her so much and she says that the only reasons she isnt going out with me anymore is because she has some issues with herself that she needs to deal with. i tell her thats alright and that i can wait for her to do it but she keeps trying to insinuate that i like other girls and that i should go out with them. She seems to want me to move on but im not giving up on her ever.. i really dont know if she just doesnt care about me anymore or whether she really does have some stuff she needs to deal with and just wants me to be free to do what i want? The weird thing is that when we are together we act the same as when we were actually going out.. just we talk more now. which is really good because im finding out some things that i never knew. but i dont want to be in a relationship thats not going anywhere.. and she knows how i feel, so why would she tell me that she cares about me, and that she wants the best for me.. but then push me away like this? (link)
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If this girl is pushing you away so much then just move on. I know it's easier said than done but there are some things you just have to accept and let go of. In my opinion she still likes you but maybe shes having feelings for someone at the same time. If you feel like you are more in tune with her now that you all are not together maybe that's better. If it's meant to happen it will for now just let it ride out.
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Alright this isn't exactly about school but I didn't know what other category to put it in haha.
So lately I've been bored with nothing to read. I like books that are funny but not completely stupid, good mysteries, and deep stuff that makes you think without being boring.
Suggestions? =)
(15/F) (link)
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you can try the book Life is Funny or the book Flipped. I'm not sure whoo the authors are but I recently read them and they are really good.
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how old do you think you have to be to babysit? (link)
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You have to be 14 or older to babysit
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My son is 17, but a very socially immature 17, acts more like he is 15. He is a senior in high school at a private Christian school, doing very well in most respects. My coworker is a little dramatic and often inappropriate at work, but a nice person and very generous. Her daughter is a freshman at the high school down the street from my son's school. Her daughter has had many emotional and behavior problems and recently was even hospitalized for more than a week while being treated with medication for bi polar and depression. The school is always calling my coworker about this girl, she is always in trouble. I have tried to be a good friend to this woman, we have cubicles right next to each other. Lately she has been on a kick that her daughter needs to date my son. I slid out of the homecoming dance only for her to try to arrange something further now and even asked for my son's e mail address and cell phone number so her daughter can get to know him. I am certain this is a bad idea. My coworker keeps pointing out that she chaperones all her daughter's activities and would take my son to a rock climbing wall facility and snow skiing and to plays and concerts. While I know my son would likely enjoy these activities, I doubt that having a mentally unstable girl thrust upon him by a very forceful mom who is overly involved in her daughter's life is a good choice. What should I say to get out of this? I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings but I really don't want to be pushing my son into a relationship with this dramatic family, nor do I feel I should ever chose his dates. (link)
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First talk to your son and see what his point of view is on this matter. If you really feel that stronght about the thought of your son dating this girl tell him and tell your co-worker. you could try saying "hey, I talked to my son about dating your daughter but she's just not his type. I don't mean to offend you or your daughter plus I'm sure there'll be some one out there who'll fully appreciate all that she has to offer." There might be some tensiion or a little thick air between you too but it won't last, next week she'll be telling you about another lucky guy.
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what do you do if your boyfriends friend...your x best friend...hates you for goin out with him...even though you knew they werent going to go out and she stated she didnt like him anymore...she says that he shouldnt have asked me out...we r goin to get into lots of fights...we arent goin to go out for long...n sztuff like that...n i go to skool with both of them...i love him...but she has said so much shit bout me that it doesnt really matter anymore if i make her mad...my boyfriend still hangsout with her though...i dun know wut i should do...do i tell him not to talk to her or do i let them contimue there freindship...? (link)
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If this girl really didn't like him anymore she wouldn't be talking about you. I and if he really loves you he'll realize that your uneasy with him talking to her and drop her. If he doesn't drop him and keep moving. Or just come straight out and tell him you don't want him talking to her anymore.
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i know that it's fine if my boyfriend has [girl]friends, there's nothing wrong with that. but how can you tell when the friendship has gone too far? (link)
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You can tell it's gone too far when you start feeling uncomfortable. Never stay in a relationship if you feel uneasy it's not worth it.
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i need help. okay, i've been with my boyfriend for a while now, but there's a small little problem that i'm having in our relationship. i love him to death and i know that he feels the same way, but when he talks to other girls.. i often get jealous and feel as if he's going to leave me for this girl even though i know they are just friends, i feel like maybe he sees something more in the girls he talks too. i feel this way because in the past, every guy i was with.. left me for another girl or was seeing another girl behind my back. i just got used to it & so now everytime i get into a new realtionship, i feel as if the same thing is going to happen even though i know all guys aren't the same, it's just something that sort of stuck in my mind. i expect guys to leave me.. i guess it's so i won't get hurt like i did in the past. i've talked with my boyfriend about this and he understands why i feel like this because of past experiences but he always reassures me that there is nothing going on because he doesn't want any other girl in this world besides me & that he loves me more than i could imagine. i mean, we've even talked about spending the rest of our lives together. i don't always have this problem when i'm with him.. but then there are times when i do. i hate it a lot because i really don't wanna feel this way, i TRY to tell myself "hes not gonna leave you" and it works half the time but then other time it doesnt and i get really upset. just so you know, i do BELIVE that he loves me, i don't doubt that.. it's just i really don't know how to explain it. maybe someone knows where i'm coming from. the point is, is there anyway i can convince myself that he's not going to leave me? is there anything at all i can do? or am i gonna be stuck feeling like this for the rest of my life because of what has happened to me in the past? (link)
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I was laughing while I was reading your issue because I'm going through the same thing. You know what don't even sweat it. Remember there will always be other girls and getting jealous is normal just don't let your jealousy take you over. Look at it this way you have your whole life ahead of you there's nothing that says you have to marry this guy. Have fun and dont get caught up. If you lose him or if he leaves you it's always ok to cry but pick yourself up and move on. You'll find the one that's right for you eventually. Just live life.
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ok so me and my bf have been going out for 2 weeks. i really want to kiss him, but im not really sure how to. ive never kissed anyone before and im afraid that im gonna be bad. are there any tips or anything i can do. i dont want to make a fool out of myself!! (link)
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Don't rush into it. If you know he's experienced let him take the lead. After you get comfortable then experiment a little. Don't put too much or too little into it. It never hurts to play around. It's your first time just relax and go with it.
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ok well first im 13 and a girl and theres this kid on my bus lets call him john so john sits next to me on the bus in the pm and all and we talk about stuff like we were talking about his family once and his bros and sis and he gives me gum all the time and charges every one for it except me...i cant tell if he likes me or if hes just really nice cuz everyone says he is and if he did like me he might not ask me out right away cause hes kinda shy when it comes to that stuff...so wat do you think? (link)
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Okay THERESTHISBOY he does have a thing for you.wether it's him just being nice, he's nicer to you than others. I say go for it I've learned the hard way that if you wait too long someone else will take him.
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