Question Posted Wednesday September 28 2005, 1:52 pm
what do you do if your boyfriends friend...your x best friend...hates you for goin out with him...even though you knew they werent going to go out and she stated she didnt like him anymore...she says that he shouldnt have asked me out...we r goin to get into lots of fights...we arent goin to go out for long...n sztuff like that...n i go to skool with both of them...i love him...but she has said so much shit bout me that it doesnt really matter anymore if i make her mad...my boyfriend still hangsout with her though...i dun know wut i should do...do i tell him not to talk to her or do i let them contimue there freindship...?
TheTeenGirl answered Wednesday September 28 2005, 8:21 pm: First off, before you decide to just keep going with this guy, talk to your friend. Just tell her that you were told by her that she doesn't like him anymore, and you thought it was ok. You may have already told her that, but everytime she gets mad, say, "you told me you didn't like him, remember?"
But, talk to her in a friendly way. Just tell her your reason and ask her whats going on first.
sweetcaramel answered Wednesday September 28 2005, 6:01 pm: If this girl really didn't like him anymore she wouldn't be talking about you. I and if he really loves you he'll realize that your uneasy with him talking to her and drop her. If he doesn't drop him and keep moving. Or just come straight out and tell him you don't want him talking to her anymore. [ sweetcaramel's advice column | Ask sweetcaramel A Question ]
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