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Question Posted Thursday September 1 2005, 10:58 pm

ok.....well this boy asked me out, and i dont like him, i like some one else! but i dont know how 2 tell him that i dont like him.
HELP ME!!!!! plz!


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kaitlin_joelle answered Sunday September 4 2005, 3:09 pm:
Just tell him that you dont like him in that way. Guys like it when your honest and just say that you dont like him. They dont get lead on... And they might not bother you that often anymore!
Good Luck,
kaitlin_joelle

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xOx_BRUN3TT3_xOx answered Saturday September 3 2005, 8:44 pm:
Hey!! i think you should tell that guy that you dont like him n that you have fealings for som1 els but try to do it n a nicest posible way!! wel i hope i helped mwaz!! xOxO//♥\

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ACartee answered Saturday September 3 2005, 4:52 pm:
Just let him know that you aren't interested in dating him. Tell him that you are already "talking" to another guy right now that you like. Maybe let him know that you'd just like to be friends. Try just to be as honest as possible so he doesn't think there's a chance and waits on ya. But be nice. =] Good Luck!

<3 -- *Ashley*

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mooch789 answered Saturday September 3 2005, 2:23 am:
Just let him know that you like someone else and that you want to be friends. BUT REMEMBER: BE GENTLE!!!!! Shockingly, guys have feelings too. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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Mackenzie answered Friday September 2 2005, 11:01 pm:
younggrandma is absolutely right: You do NOT need to provide him a reason if you don't want to. You don't owe him anything of the sort. If you don't like this guy, a simple "No" will do it. However, there ARE ways of letting him down a BIT more gingerly. However, it really won't matter WHAT you say, because if this guy truly likes you.. he will be hurt no matter WHAT the reason, ya know? Why not be completely honest, and tell him that you're interested in someone else? Or you don't even have to say that necessarily. Just tell him that you're flattered and you appreciate his offer, but you simply do not think of him in the same light. Then remind him that you are telling him no because a one sided relationship is unfair and pointless. I mean, what's the point in giving your heart away to someone who isn't willing to give you theirs, ya know?? If you tell him this, I'm shore he will understand. It's a perfectly appropriate and gentle reply. :]

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XxTxX answered Friday September 2 2005, 8:48 pm:
..Just say i cant im soo sorry i think we should just be friends and just talk to him and become friends so he believes what you say..Hope i helped`

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MELiixMARiiE answered Friday September 2 2005, 4:52 pm:
Just be honest, but be nice. Just be like," Look, I'm sorry but I only like you as a friend. Can we just stay friends? Who knows.. maybe in the future =) " ( maybe give the boy SOME hopes even if there isn't any ) I hope I helped!




Love,
MELii

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animalover658 answered Friday September 2 2005, 11:13 am:
well just tell him how you feel and he shood understand

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FireFairy141 answered Thursday September 1 2005, 11:36 pm:
You just have to be very straight-forward, and explain to him, that you would much rather just be a friend instead of a couple. It may seem hard, but you'll feel better after-words.

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Mercy_x_Me answered Thursday September 1 2005, 11:15 pm:
Just say "sorry I don't have those sort of feelings for you." He may be sad regardless of what you say, but I guess that's life, and he can't be too hurt if you do it gently.

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TRiSHx0xL0VE answered Thursday September 1 2005, 11:11 pm:
If you wanna be simple, just say no. But if you wanna do it so you get through to him more, say something like "Well I think it's best for us to be friends right now because I need to straighten some things out and plus I wouldn't want to lose you as a friend." You may not wanna tell him about liking someone else because thats sorta a diss because he would feel like hes sorta not good enough for you. If you need anymore help, feel free to drop one into my inbox! <3

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HowYouDooin answered Thursday September 1 2005, 11:10 pm:
give this number to him instead of ur number im sure he will get the point and buzz off

1718-971-5245
its an ignore line, mad funny

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karenR answered Thursday September 1 2005, 11:07 pm:
You really don't have to tell him that you don't like him. Just tell him no, you kind of like someone else. A simple no if fine too. You don't have to give any reason if you don't want to. :)

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