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depression affects
I think I’m suffering from depression. And my relationship with my family is going down hill. I feel like I’m such a burden and I feel like something is seriously wrong with me. I want to tell my parents but it’s just so hard to tell them how I’m feeling. I’m 17 and I love my parents very much but I can’t live with them and get the help I need. I'm not sure if I should tell them or just let things go on the way they are and be miserable?
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well,,,,,,,,,,,,,, it is not good for you really i think you need to go to therepy they will help you only if you really need help i think every body needs help once in their life it dont mean you are a bad person everybody suffers from something but you need to go to therepy and take medciation and i promise you it will help well i hope i helped you any
tiffany
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I don't think you are suffering from depresion I think that devil is trying to rip your famuly aprat just like he is everyone else's. But your family can come back toegther again. All you have to do is believe in your heart and have faith that things will turn around. And pray about it.
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i didnt tell any one about my depression for like 6 months. i think i knew i was going throug it but i didnt want my parents to have to worry about it because they already worry about other things. finally everyone noticed cus i was faking sick so i wouldnt have to go to school. i ran away like everyday and wouldnt come home until like 4 in the morning. my mom took me to the doctor and put me on anti depressants. i cant even stress how it like lifted my spirits up!! i totally recommend you get a prescription for anti depresants!! another thing is go to a councelor!! if i didnt i wouldnt be here right now telling you this! i dont know how serious your depression is but mine was bad. i still have littl bits of periods where i am still upset but i feel like i have been born agian!! sorry for the long reply!!
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You should tell them, and see what they do about it. They are your parents, and im sure that if they realize that you are seriously depressed, they aren't going to just ignore it. They are going to help you through it, becuase i can almost guarentee that they love you with every piece of their heart, just like you love them.
Maddie
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If you feel uncomfortable talking to your parents, why don't you speak to someone at your school like a counselor? You have taken the first step in recognizing that something is troubling you, that was the difficult part. The easy part now is getting the proper help you need. It sounds like you have caring parents, I know it may seem difficult but you should discuss this with them. Depression or any thing related to this won't go away and will get worse if untreated. It's a problem that can be treated, so please don't wait.
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hey i was going threw something like you are now i loved my family but felt left out and out of place etc i talked to my close friend and she told me what could happen if i dont tell because i was very depressed such as i could start cutting or sucide etc, and i dont waant that to happen to you i might not know you but you have alot going for you and tell your parents you need to talk to them and tell them everything you wrote here i know they will sit down and listen because do they but you close do they feed you do they hit im sure not and if so still try to explain how you feel good luck ~ash~
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I suffer from depression. You need to go to therapy, and tell your parents how you feel. They might be noticing it, but not saying anything. You don't want to feel bad about yourself, it can lead to other problems. You should tell them.
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You should try to tell them, because they could get you help. It's probably not gonna be easy for you to tell them so you can either say it to their face or maybe write them a letter and say it. I wish you luck!
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By all means say something. Maybe they are wondering why you have been acting the way You've probably been acting. Could be they just don't know what to do about it. A trip to your family doctor is all you need to get you started feeling better. :)
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I noticed that when i was suffering from depression, and everytime i was having a relapse after getting better - i didnt get along with my parents. i would be irritated by them and everything they did and said seemed horrible, even if they were trying to help. i actually started blaming them for my depression and talkinga bout my horrible home life, mainly because i think i needed a reason as to why i was feeling that way, not knowing was killing me. when in reality my parents were very good to me. i suggest that you sit down and talk to your mom, or your dad - who ever youre closest with, tell them you feel sad all the time, let them know. depression is a long battle and it is not easy, its much eaiser to just lay around and cry then to make an effort to get better. but once youre better its worth every second of hard times. if you ever need someone to talk to im here for you. you can ask me anything.
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You should sit down and talk to you parents. Depression can have some lasting effects on your life so getting it treated immediately is essential. If you don't feel that you can talk to your parents, write a letter telling them what you're feeling and that you would like to get help. Another option is to talk to a friend's parent, a teacher, a doctor, or your school counselot. They can all help you get the help you need. Good luck.
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I would tell them about it i would just say mom and dad i fell left out!! yall dont pay attition to me anymore!!
Hope i helped
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Live with your parents but while you live with them, find help, you know I know a person you can talk to like those physiciatrists people you sit down in the chair and talk to them I know one of those guys his e-mail address is fiend_chap@yahoo.com talk to him he knows all of the answers when his secretary picks up and asks you for the password type in Tom Lun
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You are only 17 and you surely shouldnt live your younger years feeling depressed. Theres plenty more time for that in the future. You should tell your parents how you are feeling (regardless of how hard it may be) Im pretty sure your parents dont think your a burden. Your their child and im sure no matter what, they love you with all their hearts and they would do anything to keep you from being sad or depressed. You definatley shouldnt keep letting these things eat away at you and keep all these things to yourself. Its not healthy to keep things bottled up inside (especially if you think your depressed). Do yourself a huge favor and tell your parents. They may be all the help you need (if not they will get you special help)!! I really hope this helped and I hope everything works out!! Feel free to update me on the situation!
♥Emily
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