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ohk so i've gone out with many people b4 ... some were crushes, dares you know your typicall 12 -13 year old stuff only like one or two i really truly loved . yes loved i would do anything for them. i have had my heart broken a couple of times and i have broken a few ... but why is it that all a sudden i feel like love can be/ is such a scary thing ?
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Because your parents hate you and they told you that there was a terrible monster that eats the spines of little girls like you and it's name is love.
Then of course they slapped you around a little.
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Because it is. Love is taking a risk, and that's always scary. Whenever you let someone else in, and invest time and emotion in them, you are letting go of control of that part of you. Sometimes he'll hurt you, and sometimes its a worthy investment. So I guess its good that you feel that way, because love is something that is a big step, and shouldn't be taken lightly.
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ehmagod i have the same problem. i think that it is that you have gone out with so many people and have had your heart broken already that you are just to afraid to take anoter chance
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Because love can be a scary thing. You can get really hurt...Sometimes you might love some body to much and maybe get pregnant at a young age or even might turn suicidal or who knows what....
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Because love IS a scary thing, especially at your age. You get hurt a lot in your life and each time, it's different. Love is a scary thing to you because you haven't been through EVERYTHING when it comes to love. You really don't know what to expect from someone you love. I mean, you're thinking, "Is he cheating on me?" or "Does he really love me?" and you question so much. I may sound like I know everything about love but to tell you the truth... I don't. I don't know EVERYTHING but I know how it feels at your age to think that. You've been so blinded with all your other "loves" and now that you're more mature, you're starting to realize how important love can be. It will be like this until you get married andhave children. lol. Anyways, hang in there and you'll do great with your love life. Love won't seem so scary when you REALLY and TRULY believe that "He's the one". You'll feel relieved and comfortable. If you want to talk or need more advice, ask a question in my inbox or email me at kitty_kats123@yahoo.com O.K?
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~~~Kayla~~~
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Because love IS a scary thing, especially at your age. You get hurt a lot in your life and each time, it's different. Love is a scary thing to you because you haven't been through EVERYTHING when it comes to love. You really don't know what to expect from someone you love. I mean, you're thinking, "Is he cheating on me?" or "Does he really love me?" and you question so much. I may sound like I know everything about love but to tell you the truth... I don't. I don't know EVERYTHING but I know how it feels at your age to think that. You've been so blinded with all your other "loves" and now that you're more mature, you're starting to realize how important love can be. It will be like this until you get married andhave children. lol. Anyways, hang in there and you'll do great with your love life. Love won't seem so scary when you REALLY and TRULY believe that "He's the one". You'll feel relieved and comfortable. If you want to talk or need more advice, ask a question in my inbox or email me at kitty_kats123@yahoo.com O.K?
Best of luck!
Hope I helped!
View my column!
~~~Kayla~~~
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Love can be scary because there is the risk of heart break and rejection. When you give your hearts to each other you are trusting each other not to break it. and you have no idea on what is going to happen like if it was meant to be or not. Love is about taking risks on whether if they love you back in return or not. you have a full life ahead of you so don't worry too much. ♥ Peachgirly
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Love is such a scary thing bc it is giving someone the ability to destroy you but trusting them not to. You might of just realized this bc the other times that you were 'in love' you really weren't or you would of already known this. And anyway how can you be in love with someone when you are either 12 or 13 and then love only one or two guys. I'm not trying to be mean or anything im just saying what is true. You werent in love or maybe you were but not enough to realize that it is a very scary thing
hope i helped
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lol u r in the exact same sit as my m8, listen babe, love is a strong word, but if ur sure dn go for it, its not scary just so sudden adn new and these feelings and confused at first but all wil be well, jst dnt make to many sudden desictions ....
xx Kt xx
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Love is so scary because you are giving someone the opportunity to break your heart. You're trusting them with your heart, and sometimes they can completely crush you. But you will fall in love one day with the right person who won't break your heart =D
*i did already* :) and you will too.
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Honestly, love is a scary thing. It's like you are giving someone your heart to hold and take care of, but that also gives them the power to break it. I am afraid of love as well and I still take chances because I know that one day that perfect person will come along and all those broken hearts and tears will disappear. Just think of it like, love is about taking chances and your heart may be broken a few times, but in the end someone will come along and mend it and keep it safe forever.
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Yeah, love is a very scary thing. It can be overwhelming at times, and my advice is to just slow down.. You have your entire life to fall in love, and you'll find someone that won't break your heart, and they will always be worth waiting for.
-Taylor
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Really love can be a great thing. I think you are just afraid of being hurt. You dont want to get into something then be turned down after 6 long months. start out slow & work your way up to being seriuos... good luck with everything!
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Because love is a scary thing, look at how you described it.. i have had my heart broken a couple of times and i have broken a few. Love isnt in your hands thats why it seems so scary. You dont know whats going to happen.
♥ Michelle
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Well to tell you the truth. You're 13. You probably havent loved anything besides your parents.
You wen't out with people on a dare? You're a bitch. You didn't like them but wen't out with them?
Why do you feel that? Who cares.
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It's because maybe you're starting to get a clearer idea of what it is, and what it means. Or wanting it.
The answer really can't be determined without delving into your history and thoughts, et cetera, though. I could be wrong, of course - this could have a rather regular reason relating to your age, and that is experience independent.
Try talking with your parents about it - they've got more life experience, and they know you better than we do.
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One reason you probably feel this way is because it is a scarry thing. Also, the older you get, the more you realize that you are getting closer to the time to find the one you may spend your life with. Also, it may be because you have gotten your heart broken and are afraid that it may happen again, and unfortunately, it probably will. Love is a great feeling though, so don't push it away. And as scary of a thing that it is, it is also one of the best feelings in the world. Hope i Helped!
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