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My guy gets mad when I'm with or talk to any other guy who I'm just friends with. What do I do?
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hun .. i went through the exact same thing with my ex boyfriend. he got sooo jealous when i'd just talk to another guy and flip out. once he even threatend to kill a guy and he broke his jaw. this situation could get that serious between you and your boyfriend and if it does i say just dump him then because you never know what could happen. but if you truly love him just talk to him about it and see what his side of the story is. you never know, you could be flirting and not even know it. then your boyfriend has every reason to get mad. good luck
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All you can do is talk to him. Explain that the others are just friends and don't mean as much to you as he does. The rest is then up to him. You really can't control what he feels but, if he doesn't let up you'll have to decide just how much of the behavior you are willing to live with. :)
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tell him to ease up.
my ex was like that and he just has to learn to deal with it.
there are a lot of guys in this world and just because you are going out with him doesn't mean that you automatically have to stop talking to any other guy that is not him.
if he keeps getting bugged...well, i would think about whether this guy is worth going out with if he wants to control who you talk to or hang out with.
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This is because he really likes you alot and he is afraid someone will take you away from him.You need 2 explain to him he is the only one you want and that you would not go out with anyone else.This may help him 2 not be so jealous.You also need to explain to him that the guys you talk to are only friends and you would not 2 time him.Hope i helped lv sweetcornx
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Tell him to back off. He's NOT youR keepeR, noR does he have ANY authoRity oveR you. He has NOOOO Right WHATSOEVER to dictate who YOU CAN and CAN NOT assosciate with!!!
I suppose I could KIND OF undeRstand why he MAY be woRRied at times, but just ReassuRe him theRe's nooo Reason foR him to be woRRied. Tell him that TRUST is a MUST in a Relationship, and without it.. you've got nothin'. Goodluck to you!!
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ha ha, yeah... most of my friends who have boyfriends, boyfriends get mad at me when I talk with my friends. Just tell him that your just friends with these people & to back off, or make a white lie & say "hes gay, don't tell him i told you though" or "he has a girlfriend" or something, that always works... ofcorse... if hes not gay & it gets to him that you said that... he might get mad or upset. So becarefull, but only if you have to make a white lie
& I'm straight so I know about the whole jellisy thing
hope I helped!
-Cameron
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Threaten him. it's the best solution. COnfront him with a gesture like.."I have friends, some guys, some girls..and if you get angry with me you'll have to get over it, or me." he'll back off. ♥Ashh.
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that stinks. if u don't u don't have trust you don't have anything. i swear it's just soOoOo annoying.
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break up with him he cant trust u enoughf then he doesnt desre ve you!!!!<3 love ya
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Well a little jealousy in a relationship is good. It means he's afraid to lose you, which says how much he cares about you. But this seems to have gone too far. You need to assure him you're just friends. Let him know that you really love him and no other guy would ever replace him. Tell him you will always be faithful. If he still gets mad after you talk to him, maybe it's time to split up for awhile. Let him calm down before you get back together. If he can't trust you, it's time to break up. Without full trust in a relationship, things begin to fall apart.
♥ lAuRa
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Tell him it is just like him talking to another girl! he should understand. If not dump him he doesn't own you
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Well it sounds to me like he's jealous. What do you mean by gets mad? I know what gets mad means, but how does he actually react? Does he start yelling at you, does he just pout and stuff...?
Have you two talked about it? If you haven't talked about it yet, then I say tell him the two of you need to talk but you're not breaking up (why is it whenever the words "we need to talk" come up people think they're breaking up?) and ask him what he would like you to do. Now I know neither of you, I've never seen how he is. But when you say he gets mad if you're just hanging around other guys, and you aren't flirting or anything, have to ever though that this guy may have some kind of problems... I mean he could be abusing you and you not even knowing it. I don't mean physically either, but it could lead to it.
Here's a website with some signs. Jealousy being one of the majors... just check it out. I could be wrong, and I apologize if I've accused your boyfriend of something he's never done... but please just look at the site.
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if your "friend" gets mad when you talk to a guy or who your friends with, then maybe shes not a good friend. talk to her about it, be like, "whats going on? why are you getting mad over this?" maybe shes just jealous.. so try to hook her up with someone and she wont get as mad when you talk about boys. good luck!
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When approaching a man while hes with you. Grab him by the testicles and say "THESE ARE MINE, NO ONE TRY TO TAKE ADVANTAGE OF ME"
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