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I really really like this guy named Mitch and he's just the nicest guy I've ever met before. He used to be friends with my older sister. He's been telling me he likes me, and like on aim always makes those kissing faces. Problem is; he's 21! I'm only 15. I know it's a huge difference and it's illegal. I really don't know where to go from now. I tell him I like him back, but I really want to date him, I'm just really not sure of how to tell him that. Any suggestions?
* if you think me dating a 21 year old is bad, please tell me, i'd like to hear other perspectives, too! thanks. =)
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i dont think you should date him he is way tooooo old for you mabe when you are 20 and he is 26 or something that is different then 15 and 21 thats like a 10 year old going out with someone 16! ew ok well if i were you for now just stay friends and try not to say you like him back hope i helped
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well i dont really think you should go for it.. i had a friend that was 5 years younger then this guy.. she got hurt really bad from this she thought she loved the guy and he woudl treat her like complet shit i think its bc he knows hes older then her..she would give hium everything money when he needed it for his drugs or for his phone or w/e he needed and one day he beat the shit out of her bc he knew he could she wouldnt even tell anyone but someone seen it and called the cops he went to jail for about 6 months and shes still obsessed with this guy after eveything hes done to her.. idk you can trake it if you want but i personaly wouldnt i hated seeing my friend go threw that
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Listen i've been in a situation like yours before i didnt date the guy and i still think i made the wrong decision. you should take this oppertunity. If you dont you'll always wonder what if so i'd recomend that you go for it
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I dont think you should becz what if you guys have " sex " and you get pregnat he can go to jail and hate you and also how would your sis. feel ?
good luck
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I don't think its such a great idea. Not only is there a big age difference, its also illegal. You should tell him that. Theres only a few reasons why a 21 year old would want to go out with a 15 year old, and they're not good reasons. He's able to do so much (since he's now 21) and you're still 15. I think he needs to find someone his own age.
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he is way too old for you if you dated him you could end up gettin married and havin to drop out of school. and if it violates the law don't do it.
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I really think he is too old for you, what worries me is whay a 21 year old wants to date a 15 year old, he should really be looking for girls his own age (no offence) would you want your daughter going out with someone 6 years their senior? Just be careful
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well, its not illigal unless you have sex... my sister is 26 now & shes dateing a guy who is about 44-47... well... she WAS, hes ingaged & has a chld with another lady, but thats beside the point! anyway, they dated while she was about 16 or 17, but they never had sex, & if they did they were never caught, so unless you have sex with him, its not illigal
but as of the other part of the story, she just says "ooh I'm jsut waiting on him to get tired of her so he'll come back to me" & as you can tell, my sister is a nut case, but none-the-less it won't be illigal unless you have sex, so I'd say go for it!
-Cameron
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I think you should just forget about this guy. He needs to be dating someone his own age. Don't even talk to him anymore because you'll only feel worse in the long run. He may be a nice guy and all that, but he has problems if he wants to date a 15 yo. Please take all the advice and find a guy your own age. :)
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It's not that it's bad to date a 21 yr old guy but you're still 15. In my case, when a 20 and above guy show interest on me, I right away feel uncomfortable but maybe on your part you don't feel that way since you like him. I think you should wait for him to ask you to go have a date with him since he's already 21. He knows what he wants to do. If he ask you to a date, don't right away tell him yes. As soon as now, observe him if he's only playing with your feelings or what. If you think he;s sincere and there's nothing to lose then I guess it's ok. to go with him if he ask you to.
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I seriously think thats wrong! There isnt a problem with you its him. I mean he's 21. Not to be mean, but why would a 21 year old want a 15 year old. Thats just wrong! Even tho you like him I dont think you guys should date. He can defenetlly go to jail for that. x0`
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personally, i DO NOT agree with that one bit. (but its your life not mine) even though girls mature faster then guys.. guys are perv's from the moment they come out of their mothers woumb!! haha - but i wouldnt go for it. im sure your parents would agree and id feel quite weird going out with someone my sisters age! haha! also, those kissy faces are nothing. aim is just a place to TYPE out feelings if he really likes you hed call and tell you with his voice..not his fingers.
but seriously. reconsider and look for someone your age :) there are tons of hotties out there!
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It's not really you with the problem, it's him. Coming on to a 15 year old girl while you're 21 is definitely a bad sign. Any guy can appear to be the nicest guy, so don't let his politeness fool you. What would you think of someone your age hitting on a nine year old? I wouldn't date him, it's too risky.
Heh, you are a moron! You say my 9 year old/15 year old example is bad advice, then use your parents age difference to defend dating him? Do you realize how ignorant you sound by doing this?
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