Well .. im 15 and ive been threw alota shyt so far in my life.. not everything but alot from family problems to friends and love life.. If you have a question I'll try my best to give you the best advice I can.. I like to play cs lol.. um i like to play sports watch sports go tanning..shopping and chyll with my friends..
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My dad smokes and im really worried about him. I really want him to stop, but i dont know what to say and i dont want him to get mad at me...what should i do? thanks in advance *i do rate8 (link)
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Just tell him what you told us. Your worried about him and that you dont like when he smokes. My dad is dieing from it right now and its sad to watch, dont be afraid to tell your dad you care about his health.
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Is it bad to like people shorter than you?
i like this guy, but im like at least a head and a half taller than him...we're like bffs and i dunno...would it be akward to date someone shorter than me? im 5' 5" and im only 12. hes like a month younger and like i said about a head and half shorter.
please tell me what you think! i will rate high if u at least try to answer! (link)
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Absoulty not. I was with a guy for a year who was shorter then me, there is nothing wrong with being with someone who is shorter then you
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Alright lets start from the very start.. I used to have very short hair and glasses that made my eyes look bug eyed.. Well last year I got contacts (which I must say has changed my life) and My hair has grown out and is very long (blonde) and my eyes are deep green.. Well lets just say I have not had an easy time. Before I got contacts people would pick on me about my glasses and my hair. Well when I went into 8th grade My hair was long and ai had contacts so they didnt have a reason to pick on me but yet.. people still tryd. I did have bfs but i also had boy troubles.. no bf that actualy lasted long.. the longest was a month. Now I am going into highschool and I want to be noticed and i would like to not be picked on as much. I think it would also really be nice to find a guy that I could be with for atleast a while.. and I would like to get some guys attention.. Can you help me? please..
love maddie (link)
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Maddie,
If you wont listen to me listen to these people every single one of them has said the same stuff i have, it may seem like everything to have a boyfriend but its not bc eventually somthing will happen look at tony and I. And there right you know.. if you are confident with yourslef guys will like you more.. like if you think your fat and a guy wants you to sit on his lap and your like " no no im to fat" they dont like that.. highschool? well its a big place but like ive said youll meet new people just like i did there so many more new people and when you get into highschool people do become a little more matture and not all into picking on glasses or how long your hair is.. just be YOURSELF and trust me youll find the person youve been looking for.
love ya,
court «3
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i'm having trouble getting my parents used to the fact that me and my boyfriend have a 3 years difference in age. he's 16 and i'm 13. my mom likes him but my dad gets a little to protective about it and they won't let me drive around anywhere with him. he's a really sweet guy and i trust him with my life but my parents don't see my side to this. what could i do to get them to trust me and him together in a car and get them used to the age difference? (link)
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hes your dad, dads are always pertective of there little girls no matter what age your boyfriend is..and i dont think you can change that yes you can change it so that he trust your boyfriend and likes him but your not gunna change your dad for being overprotective..
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Well okay im going out with this guy [we will call him Yellow] and last night i found out that he was moving to a different state. But for some reason i was happy! i dont know why though because hes my boyfriend and i love him so much. Why is this!? im 14 \ f. please help [I RATE HIGH!] (link)
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lol yellow..
anyways if your happy he leaveing to go to a different state you dont love him mayb like him but you dont love him
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okay im 16and me and my boyfriend have been goin out 4 2 years now we had a massive argument da ova day and he put a knife to my throat and ses he would kill me if i shouted at him like that again i really like him thought and he dont always act like that but now im scared just to have an argument with him ive talked 2 him about it and he ses im being stupid bt i dont wana break up with him what do i do? (link)
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well i had a relationship like that i was with a guy for a year and we said we loved each other but then he started beating me up and eveyrthing i almost went to the hospital one time and i wouldnt stop bleeding out of my nose mouth and ears for 3 - 4 days but your boyfriend holding a knife to your thoart is not good for you at all... i understand that you may love him and he might of said sorry and everything but thats what my ex did to he even helped me clean up after he would beat me but if he was sorry he wouldnt do it again but he did.. you need to leave that relationship befor anything happens to you even if he said sorry he could always do it again or even worse do it..no matter if you love him theres someone out there who would never think of doing that to you and you thats what you need..
hoped i help.
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okay heres the story. my best friend cut really bad at the end of 7th grade(were in 8th now) and over that summer. the school, both friends and the administration, was aware but she never really got any kind of help. seh always carved peoples names who had hurt her or someone who was really important to her. okay this has to coem out to. shes bi so these people are girls. one was a best friend who stopped being friends with her another was a girlfriend and one is an x girlfriend. okay sorry that was kind of irrelevent. but anyway she got a lot better after this girl broke her heart. (i know you would think she would get worse) anyway she only cut maybe three times the whole school year. i stopped really worrying about it. but then in the past week she did it really bad. only me and this other girl who cuts too knows about it. before i always could see how unhappy my best friend was but this time i couldnt really understand. nothing really drastic happened and she seemed to be doing a lot better in recent months. okay heres my dilema. she siad not to tell anyone and if i did she would know it was me and not talk to me again or at least be extremely pissed. and i know shes not lying no matter how much i mean to her. now i want to get her help but i dont know how. i dont know if she can be helped with the additude she has now.
so: do i speak up and if so who should i tell?
what would be the best help to get her?
please give me any ideas. im open to anything. and dont waste youre time if youre going to be an ignorant a** like some people on this thing.
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well i had this same problem.. i cut and it would be really bad and when someone cuts it is really hard for you to except the fact that you need help.. but i ahd wrote a note to my friends saying how i was killing my self adn everything and they knew i cut but enevr really worried about it.. that days later on i got called down to the cudence office ( i was in 7th grade too) and my friends had gone and showed them the note i was so pissed off at them and wanted to ruin my friendship with them adn never talk to them again but then i woke up and relized that they were ym true riends by trying to help me.. i got help for it all and im better off now.. i think you should tell someone she mite be mad at you for a little while but you could seriously be saving her life.
hope this helps.
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I really really like this guy named Mitch and he's just the nicest guy I've ever met before. He used to be friends with my older sister. He's been telling me he likes me, and like on aim always makes those kissing faces. Problem is; he's 21! I'm only 15. I know it's a huge difference and it's illegal. I really don't know where to go from now. I tell him I like him back, but I really want to date him, I'm just really not sure of how to tell him that. Any suggestions?
* if you think me dating a 21 year old is bad, please tell me, i'd like to hear other perspectives, too! thanks. =) (link)
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well i dont really think you should go for it.. i had a friend that was 5 years younger then this guy.. she got hurt really bad from this she thought she loved the guy and he woudl treat her like complet shit i think its bc he knows hes older then her..she would give hium everything money when he needed it for his drugs or for his phone or w/e he needed and one day he beat the shit out of her bc he knew he could she wouldnt even tell anyone but someone seen it and called the cops he went to jail for about 6 months and shes still obsessed with this guy after eveything hes done to her.. idk you can trake it if you want but i personaly wouldnt i hated seeing my friend go threw that
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