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My Child is turning four years of age and I am afraid that she may be depressed but I am not sure what the sinse are can you give me some advise please (link)
Usually the child becomes totally withdrawn, wets the bed, goes off food, there are so many signs to look out for but any change in her behaviour should be a cause for concern, you could ask your health visitor or doctor to have a look at her.



My father will be going into a home soon, the cost is £500 per week. He has savings of approx. £50,000. I have been told that until his savings come down to £20,000 he will not get any help. Legally were does he stand with regards to giving away his money now to his three children, so that his savings come down to £20,000. Also, the possibility of him placing his money in off-shore accounts. (link)
i know its not the same but usually people give the money away and have the house put into their childrens name before going into a home, this is the only way to stop using all of your savings and house costs to pay for residential care. Try the citizens advice bureau, they are usually really good at things like this.


I'm thinking about buying a Lacoste on ebay..for those of you who don't know what it is, it's a really expensive polo retailing for $72-$79 in stores like Saks, Nordstroms, etc..The problem is, I don't want to get scammed and be sold a fake one. How do I know if it's real? The one I am currently bidding on has a $0.99 starting bid. The seller states that it has two mother of pearl buttons. She has a feedback of 99.7%. Is this a scam? How do I spot the real ones? (link)
it is very hard to track fake clothing, the sellers score should sway you to buy or not, if they have less than 98% feedback stay away cause thats usually a sign that they are dodgy


About three weeks ago, a strange rash(feels like tiny bumps)showed up in my left armpit. Its extremely itchy. I've tried different medications for skin rashes, but every time I try to put any medicine on it, there's extreme burning pain along with the itch. I remove it immediately, (medicine). Now the right armpit is doing the same thing. I'm a 47 yr old female, and have never had a rash like this that won't go away or allow any kind of medicine to be applied. I haven't been using any soaps on it, and have increased my water consumption to aid in healing. When I start to sweat, it becomes unbearable. Cornstarch doesn't seem to work, but petroleum jelly helps out some of the time, I don't use it all day long, which would be nice if I could, I know it needs to breathe, and not blocked by ointments or jelly. What can this annoying rash be? The color is light maroonish, it feels like tons of acne pimples side-by side. Please help (link)
It sounds like ingrowing hairs usually caused by shaving, a visit to your doctor should sort this out, he will prescribe some cream for you.


I really really like this guy named Mitch and he's just the nicest guy I've ever met before. He used to be friends with my older sister. He's been telling me he likes me, and like on aim always makes those kissing faces. Problem is; he's 21! I'm only 15. I know it's a huge difference and it's illegal. I really don't know where to go from now. I tell him I like him back, but I really want to date him, I'm just really not sure of how to tell him that. Any suggestions?
* if you think me dating a 21 year old is bad, please tell me, i'd like to hear other perspectives, too! thanks. =) (link)
I really think he is too old for you, what worries me is whay a 21 year old wants to date a 15 year old, he should really be looking for girls his own age (no offence) would you want your daughter going out with someone 6 years their senior? Just be careful


my hair is pretty dark so i want to dye my hair to a brown color ..i dont want to use hair products because me and those dont mix well together because everytime i try it doesnt work.. so is there anything i can use? iheard if you put suntan lotion on ur hair it would come out lighter? should i try that? (link)
Lemon juice works but you really need to sit out in the sun for a long time, there are lots of really good non permanent dyes on the market now that are totally natural and safe to use whatever your skin type, thats probably your best bet.


i was watching vh1 last night and there was advertizements for this tanning stuff called " coppertone " and i was thinking about trying it does anyone know if it is good or does anyone use it i rate high (link)
coppertone is great for waterproof sun protection and to help prevent sunburn and provide protection for UVA rays. i think it is only available in america or by mail order to uk (which is how i get it)it comes in lotion and sprays and all different strengths. they also do an oil free and childrens sunscreen.


Hi, im 13, and i REALLY want my belly button pierced. Im not scared of the pain, because people say it doesnt hurt. But the problem is my mum. She says I cant have it. But i REAAALLY want to. Can i do it at home somehow? Please help me I want my mum to say yes, so I can have a belly button ring. Alot of my friends have it. (link)
I would say that you are a little bit young for this, maybe wait another year to make sure that you are really sure this is what you want, there are some really good magnetic rings on the market so maybe you could try one of those first. If you still really want to go ahead make sure you research the person who is going to do it cause remember you are stuck with it for life so you want it done right.


where are some good places where i can download music onto my laptop?(it doesnt have to be free)and how does this work? if i want to listen to downloaded songs do i have to go on the website or do i not have to be on the internet? im asking because for my sweet 16 im thinking of doing the music from my laptop. is it continuous play or do i have to manually click the song? can i plug big speakers into the laptop? thank you for your help...5's to everyone somewhat helpful (link)
I have been using limewire www.limewire.com for about 1 year now with no problems, sometimes a high firewall can knock it off but it's really quick for downloading. another good one is wwww.ares.com, you have to pay for this one but it comes recommended.


How do you treat or make a sun burn go away? (link)
I find that an aloe vera gel is really good for sun burn, also a cool bath and light cotton clothing, try taking paracetamol if you have a temperature (if you can take it)
Hope this helps




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