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So many people in my grade have a b/f or g/f but they don't take it seriuosly. In the hall all they do is say "hey" to each other, they talk to each other on-line about "who knows what?" and in their binders they write "I love----". They don't talk on the fone or anything like that.I feel so left out, but if i ask a girl out it would be weird for me to be going out w/ a girl and telling everyone, but the girl wouldn't look me in the eye or anything like that. it's so stupid. What could i do so i don't feel left out?
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ok this is what ya gotta do! YOO have to be the 'trend setter' of dating lol- yoo have to be the one to say- thats so stupid when yoo just say hi! so ask this girl out- and talk to her AS MUCH AS YOO CAN! and go places with her and be flirty with her! and i agree- i think AIM is so annoying cuz its just for the people that are to scared to say things for themselves! so talk on tha fone! good luck!
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Well, they aren't really bf/gf in my opinion unless they go out with each other somewhere besides school. But, they can call themselves whatever makes them happy I guess.
That being said, your're really know diffrent than they are. Maybe a little more mature in your thinking!So I wouldn't get to shook up because you don't have a girl running around claiming a love that isn't really true anyway.When you are ready for a real girlfriend you'll have one like everybody else.Then you will be inseperable.
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What a girl really wants is to show her that you're totally commited to her and that you really care about her. If you show her you do, then she would show you the same return and it won't be the 6th grade relationship anymore. You have to really get to know her before she opens up to you!
♥ Always,
Maria
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well just talking to chicks may be hard to do but just do it and dont worry thing will unfold.
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i know how you feel. you feel like people might not thing you're cool because you dont have a boyfriend. i have the same problem. sometimes i see people with other people and since i pretty much just broke up with my boyfriend i feel like i need a boyfriend. you shouldnt want a girlfriend just because everyone else does. it doesnt matter, because what they have is gonna last until someone new comes along, and then it'll be over.
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It sounds like you want a girlfriend because everyone else has one. Don't feel forced into having a girlfriend. Wait until you truly feel you love someone. I know what you're talking about though, it's the same where I live. I don't have a boyfriend, but the way I look at it is I don't like anyone. I don't have any feelings for anyone, so it's pointless wasting time on something that isn't real. Hope that answered your question =.
Hope I helped!
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Well if you like that girl ask her out. Maybe she's just she, or feels uncoftorbal at the moment becuase she doen't know you. Or you could just ignore all that and focuz on your school work.
hope i helped!
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Well, I'm guessing your a little younger, since you didn't put your age... Please feel free to correct me if I'm wrong, since then I might have a little different advice to give..
Anyways, don't feel that you need to have a girlfriend just because your friends do. It seems to me that you don't even really like the kind of relationship they have, and would prefer a more mature relationship. If you do want a girlfriend, maybe she doesn't have to be from your school. Try meeting a girl through church, or an after school club. If you don't go to school together, you would probably end up talking on the phone more often, and thus it would be a more serious relationship, like you said you wanted. It wouldn't be awkward at school this way, but you would still have the luxury of saying you have a girlfriend. If you don't want to do that, I would suggest waiting until the right girl comes along at the right time, and you can have a serious relationship, since you would probably be unhappy and frustrated if your girlfriend never made eye contact with you or held a meaningful conversation with you. I hoped this helped, good luck and let me know how it goes!!!
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ask someone out. try something new and have ppl follow you. you obviously need to make a change
~natt~
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