i just got a record deal. But they want me to do all these things I dont want to do. How do i tell them i want to do some things my way without getting fired?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Hobbies category? Maybe give some free advice about: Music? danexmachina answered Saturday July 9 2005, 8:10 am: you have to weigh the pros and the cons. they want to make money off you, just like you want them to spend money to make you a star. you'll have to reach a compromise on many things, and if you really don't think it's worth it, get yourself dropped. but think about it this way, isn't being signed and doing a few things you don't wanna do better than getting a boring-ass real job? do what they say for a little while, they're the experts, and if you start to make money, start saving it up. later on you'll have more freedom when it matters. [ danexmachina's advice column | Ask danexmachina A Question ]
xfreakformusicx answered Sunday April 3 2005, 7:51 am: quit. dont become the next britney. obviously, if you already got one record deal, theres a possibility you can get another one that dont make you do shit like that. and if you REALLY dont wanna quit, keep arguing. [ xfreakformusicx's advice column | Ask xfreakformusicx A Question ]
ABK1900 answered Monday March 28 2005, 8:40 pm: ok, heres the thing. If they really want you then you halft to tell them that you want to do things your way. You cant do stuff that they want to . I support you in this. Tell them and Im sure they will listen. [ ABK1900's advice column | Ask ABK1900 A Question ]
jesuscouch answered Monday March 28 2005, 8:33 pm: Make sure you have a good agent. He can lobby on your behalf and has more weight than you. Also, be sure to be understanding of the label's needs while firmly but politely asserting yours. Try giving them examples of what you want, like a homemade demo to show a song idea, so they can see where you are coming from. Dont forget to remind them that your fans will hate you if you sell out.
nameless answered Saturday March 19 2005, 12:30 am: I won't pretend I know more about record deals than you do, but I will say this -- maybe the record deal just isn't the right one for you. If you have the talent, someone else will come around, someone who doesn't want to pressure you into being a star that doesn't ressemble your real life personality at all. but if you're really afraid of losing this one and never having one come around again -- I suggest you agree to the smallest number of things possible, and work your way up into stardom, independence, and eventually authority. [ nameless's advice column | Ask nameless A Question ]
XSoul0ficeX answered Friday March 18 2005, 3:17 pm: You just do. Go up to them and tell them, "Listen, this isn't exactly my style. Can we try something I want to do?" Or something like that. But don't raise your voice and don't use profanity [ XSoul0ficeX's advice column | Ask XSoul0ficeX A Question ]
karenR answered Tuesday March 15 2005, 2:51 pm: Do you have an agent? I don't know a whole lot about this but I think an agent would negotiate things for you. Or, an entertainment lawyer.You have to be careful that you aren't taken advantage of, okay? Good luck with your career. [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
chaos answered Tuesday March 15 2005, 9:54 am: You still need to be involved in some savvy give and take. You give in to some of their thoughts, and they give you some of your desires. Instead of saying no, turn it into a more positive "what if we did it this way." Things get a little easier after the first record because you become more savvy. [ chaos's advice column | Ask chaos A Question ]
LindasCounsel answered Tuesday March 15 2005, 1:51 am: Congratulations! That is awesome! The one thing that you will learn very quickly is that everybody has a boss. Even people who work for themselves have to please the public. Go easy. You may have gotten a record deal, but right now, you're still on the bottom rung of the ladder. If this is something that is really important to you, you will do what it takes to get to the next step, and the next. I would offer suggestions as to how you would like to do things, sandwiched amongst a lot of positive feedback about the original idea. Don't throw out the ideas of what your bosses want from you and for goodness sake don't douse it with negativity. Be accommodating but show that you have ideas too without being pushy. I hope I hear you on the radio soon! Good luck!
Linda [ LindasCounsel's advice column | Ask LindasCounsel A Question ]
WTF answered Monday March 14 2005, 10:14 pm: congrats, but if you stick with it, it will be hard. if theyre small things, just get used to them, but if theyre things you really dont want to do, just tell them honestly, hopefully theyll keep you if you have enough talent. [ WTF's advice column | Ask WTF A Question ]
Sherry answered Monday March 14 2005, 9:58 pm: Just say "I appreiciate you doing this for me, and the ideas are great. But I dont feel comfortable doing them, can we maybe think of something else to do that we both agree on?" Say it nicley and I'm sure they'll be nice back [ Sherry's advice column | Ask Sherry A Question ]
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