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so friggin confused
Okay , I like this guy, and he just told me that he likes me too, we have a problem. Me and him arent sure if we should start dating because Im friends with his sister, and his sister will NEVER buy the fact that me and him were dating...and we wouldnt be able to tell our parents because we wanna have sleep overs and stuff, but i mean we dont plan on doing anything at the sleep overs, we just wanna see each other because we live an hour away from each other, but anyways, my question is, should we date behind his sisters back or tell her with the fact we both know shes not gonna buy the whole thing...???
help :(
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I think it would be best if you told her, she may even be able to help y'all sneak around your parents. Good Luck!
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i think you should just tell her. she's gonna find out- it always seems to work that way! the only thing keeping it hidden will do is make her mad. i dont know her, but if it were me it would, and she might be like ??? confused at first because its her brother , but she'll get used to it.
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Who cares if his sister believes you or not? As long as you both like each other then go for it. Hope I helped.
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I think you should tell his sister cause she probably wont care and even if she doesnt believe you then its better then going behind her back and then her finding out .Cause that might ruin your friendship with her..And this way if things dont work out with the guy you can still be friends with his sister without things feeling to awkward (sp)
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I think you should tell her because if you dont, and she finds out, she will get mad at you. And you wouldnt want to ruin your friendship with her
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Well secret relationships don't really work so I would tell her and if she is a good friend she will probably understand. But if she gets really freaked out or something i think that you should go out with this guy because having a good friendship is soo much more important than having a boyfriend because i have seen way too many times that when bf/gf break up they are complete enemies. Hope I helped!
~Becki~
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I would just tell her. If you don't, there could be a huge mess. If she really seems like she doesn't want you to go out with him, don't. A guy shouldn't ruin your friendship. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
Happy New Years!
~*Erin*~
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A relationship is not worth messing up a friendship...
Sam
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Just tell her. It will just be a huge mess if you don't. I can just imagine a million scenarios where everything goes wrong and you totally regret it. I don't care if you like the guy or not, its totally not worth the risk.
Thats my opinion and advice.
AG
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forget about his sister and parents for a min. and think to yourself is this a good idea? Is he the right guy for me? am i ganna do somthing wrong if i date him? and file out the goods and bads. What I like to do is put his name on a pice of paper and put a line in the middle of the paper on one side write all the good things about dating him and on the other side write all the bad things about dating him. Listen to your heart. Sit down and talk to your friend/his sister. I have a twin brother and I know it gets hard when people start dating him and there my friends but you have to think hes happy and hes making somone else happy tell her that. Good luck!! happy new year :D. <3 American Girl
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well you should be open and honest with evry one...urs n his parents..sister....because no good comes out of a non-honest relationship...even if she doesnt take it well she will have to deal with the fact...u 2 like eachother...and maybe with sleep overs she could get to know u better n accept the fact u 2 r goin out....hope i helped
-Jenn-
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