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Abusive relationships
I have a boyfriend that i love alot but he hits me.But he say he sorry and he won't do it again but he keeps doing it. He said if I leave him then he will kill me.I'm so scared that he's telling the truth .He's already put me in the hospital 2 times I don't know what to do.So I need help ASAP if anyone can help me please.My life is on the line!
Love Apple
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Report him to the police, get a restraining order. Ignore the threats -- move away if you have to. Good luck.
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this guy has a problem i dont know what ur waiting for? when he is sleep kill him before he gets to u. tell the police that he tried to kill u first set it up like he was trying to kill u. when u finally kill him just put some papers every where knock down some plates and the tv unless u want that. i am not joking i know someone that did it and it worked. so if ya need help planning where all here for u
-Jess
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My Dear Apple,
I have no idea what your age is, but my love at any age your are being both physically and mentally abused. Love does not hurt sweetheart, and you do not deserved to be abused NEVER!!!!
If you are under 18, find a trusted adult and tell them. Your paernts or the school counselor is a great place to start.You need to get away from this gut IMMEDIATELY!!!!!
This guy of yours also needs to be arrested and punished forn his cfrimes against you.
Apple please, after you have made your break from him, Never go back!!Abusers never change, as you are already seeing.Also go into domestic violence counseling. You DO NOT DESERVE TO BE ABUSED!!!
Good Luck, Your Sister In Peace,
Softouch
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This sounds like a serious problem, i dont think you can really love someone who does this to you, i've heard of people in the same situation, all you can really do is call someone. Call the Police, or someone who can help you get away from this person. Stay with a friend, if you dont want to leave him for good because you think you love him, wait until he is not home, and stay with someone he doesnt know for a while until you figure out what you think is best. If you're worried he might harm you in any other way (killing you) then you should immediatly contact the police. I hope this helps you!
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Oh Dear.
Sweetheart, where's your family? Nearby?
If you've already been to the hospital twice it's time to hit the road. Wouldn't it be awful if he accidentally kills you sometime when he doesn't mean to?
You love him for whatever reasons, you write nothing of his loving you, just that you're afraid of him and that he's lied about changing.
Here's what you do: You call one family member or very close friend. Likely as not yours is in keeping with the abusive m.o. making these people seem more distant and detached from you than they really are.
Raise the alarm bells in their heads. It will help you to be bossed (in part, sadly, because you're now used to it)Also, it will make you feel like there's something else on the other side.
Next, you get what money you can along with IDs and any small things you want to keep- take anything hockable (if he has a Babe Ruth rookie card, you've earned it) and GO!
Run Baby Run! Find a safehouse and get mad. Get really, really pissed off because without the fuel of your righteous (and right) anger- you'll fold and go back and be further broken.
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YOU have a HUGE problem on your hands! YOU need to refer these incidents to a counselor or a trustworthy adult. THis boy needs to get a great deal of help! IT will helpl you and him in the long run
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Kill him, ASAP.
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Tell an adult! This is not a good situation to be handeling yourself. Tell a counsiler or your parents as soon as possible. They will know how to handle it.
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you should really tell someone else. You know, like your mom or your best friend! but if i was someone like them i would maybe go to the police and tell them whats happening and maybe they can figure things out. plus, with polie on your side, he won't tr to kill you! hope you figure things out!!! good luck!
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Contact a women's shelter. You can sometimes find phone numbers in the front of the phone book for abuse or domestic violence. Or call a crisis hot-line. They can put you in touch with women's abuse centers. The police department can also give you contact numbers.
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I would leave him definetly and if you really are scared then get the police involved. You can't let him just keep hurting you ESPECIALLY if it is putting you in the hospital. He needs to lean how to respect women and if leaving him is the answer then so be it.
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I'm with Sp4rklingr4in. Get the police and your parents involved asap. This guy is dangerous. Get out of this relationship. You can't possibly love a guy who hurts you like that. Him threatening to kill you might be just a bluff, but I wouldn't be too sure. Feel free to contact me if you need more help. My AIM is SirenCytherea.
-Siren
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Your boyfriend is dangerous. Get the police and your parents involved as soon as possible. If any boyfriend ever hits you at all then you should break up with him. Trust me, you don't love this guy. Throw him in jail where he should belong. If he hits you hard enough to put you in the hospital... nvm I don't even want to think about it. Tell the police, throw your bf in jail and dump him. This situation has "danger" written all over it.
-Joce
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Love apple,
Tell the policeman what your boyfriend does
to you . No man has the right to put there hand
on any woman, and its just wrong . Tell the police
that your life may be on the line . They will
protect you . Then break up with the abusive
boyfriend. If you still fill like your life is in
danger, go stay with a family member until the
authorities deal with him .
You can contact me any time .
Courtney .
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Apple, you need to leave him, and you need to get help right away. Talk to someone who has experience helping battered women. The National Domestic Violence Hotline is 1-800-799-7233 (or 799-SAFE), and that would be a terrific start. They can give you good advice about how to get out of this situation and keep yourself safe.
What he's doing to you is horribly, horribly wrong, and it's only going to get worse if you stay with him. Please take care of yourself. You are not alone.
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Call the police, or go to your parents, or ANYTHING to get away. Your boyfriend needs help, and you can't be with him unless he gets better. Right now you need to leave him. I would suggest calling someone so he can get help, you cannot COMPLETELY abondon him, though it may be necessary. Even if he does love you he cannot stop, and you need to get away. Stay with a friend or relative, and I'd say call the police or someone to deal with this. And do it quickly, too.
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YES APPLE DEAR YOUR LIFE IS ON THE LINE AND IF YOU STAY WITH HIM YOUR LIFE WILL BE IN CONSTANT DANGER MEN THAT THREATEN TO HURT YOU OR EVEN KILL YOU ARE USUALLY GOING TO DO IT ONE DAY MY ADVICE IS THIS GO TO THE POLICE AND TELL THEM ABOUT HIM THEY CAN REFER YOU TO A WOMAN'S SHELTER THEY HAVE THEM ALL OVER AND IF HE IS WILLING HE CAN GET HELP BUT IT WILL TAKE 200% EFFORT ON HIS PART YES GET THE HELL AWAY FROM HIM BY ANY MEANS YOU CAN YOU DONT HAVE TO BE HIS VICTIM HE WILL MOST CERTAINLY KILL YOU IF YOU ALLOW HIM TO ONLY YOU CAN HELP YOU PLEASE WRITE AGAIN AND LET US KNOW HOW YOU MAKE OUT TAKE CARE
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