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He said, she said...
A guy I know asked me out a week ago, and I refused, nicely. I thought it was all over... Until his younger sister came up to me, and asked if it was true that I'm dating her brother. I told her that I wasn't, and I that I like someone else. She said that her brother told a bunch of people that we're dating! I didn't beleive it at first, but by the end of that day, 5 other people asked if it was true! He's spreading all these false lies about me, saying that we went to the movies & made out... Well, here's the scoop: I went to the movies, but not with him. I saw him there, and he sat behind me. I touched his arm when I was walking outta the theater, I never kissed him, let alone make out with him! What should I do?
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Tell everybody the truth. Tell him how you feel. But DO NOT make fun of him or spread rumors about him. Just tell him how you feel. It can be fast, blunt, and even a little rude...don't worry about embarrassing him to a certain extent. Just tell him that you're mad and everything...and just walk away without saying anything more.
If people come up to you and question you about what happened, just tell them the truth...if they don't believe you for some strange reason, then just ignore it...it will go away. As long as you tell people what really happened, there's nothing to worry about. I know it's frustrating...just don't sweat it, talk to him, and tell everybody the truth...BUT DONT MAKE FUN OF HIM!
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He is a delusional moron. Don't let him get to you. When people ask, just laugh it off and say, "Yeah, he wishes!" And if you ever run into this boy again, be confident and tell him it is very sad that he has to pretend to date you.
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Tell him that if he doesn't stop, that you will not only ADMIT to you guys making out ( even though I know you didn't ) but you'll tell all of the girls how HORRIBLE he is at it. I'm sure he'll stop after that.
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This guy sounds a bit scary to me, like he may be infactuated with you just a tad too much. Everyone that asks you if you're going out with this dude, just tell them politely that you aren't. It's none of their business what you do anyway. I think you need to either sit the guy down and ask him why he's doing this, and talk it through with him, or get someone else (like his little sister) to talk to him. This has happened to one of my friends before, and trust me, it'll all die down and the people at school will realise that it's all a farce and find something else to occupy their time. Hope all works out :)
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What should you do?
Tell people the truth.
No need to make a drama scene out of it... just be blunt and say exactly what happened.
Let him deal with the embarassment of having to admit he made the whole thing up.
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Confront him about it. Then kick him in the groin, cover him in kerosene, and set him on fire.
For real, it's time to quit being nice. This guy obviously didn't get the point. You have to wake him up if you want him to leave you alone.
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I'd say keep denying the rumour and confront the guy. Tell him that if he ever THOUGHT you might have had a chance together that his idiotic actions just threw that chance out the window and then vomitted on it.
The guy is probably just angry because he got rejected. Keep denying the rumour and make him feel really awful and guilty if you can and I'd suggest telling him straight how crappy him saying that stuff about has made you feel.
In conclusion, he is a loser.
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If you cannot just let this pass, and it will,let this guy know in no uncertain terms that "it is NOT alright" what he's doing-I'd say make it public, to the point and in front of others since he's dragged your good reputation around a bit.(NOT in front of your current boyfriend tho')You must pick the time, like grab him in the hall at school or something. He's likely PO'd because you turned him down. I rarely tell anyone to do this,and often its best to take someone aside, but this guy wants that because he wants to get you alone. His crush on you is innocent, I'm sure but,hey-spreading gossip is NOT okay. It IS okay to stand up for yourself. Insight2020
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