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So confusing.
Posted Saturday January 26 2008, 8:01 pm
Hey .
Okay , well , I liked this guy for a pretty long time. And so I don't have a clue why he deleted me for the second time . Like we talk in person and he came and sat beside me out of all the chairs at the resturant and everything he came to sit beside me and then same thing happened at the movies. We talked a bit and he kept looking at me and stuff. And not long ago hes all hey babe and everything. I just don't get it..
P.S What do you guys think?
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Do I love my bf and just like my friend? Or like my bf and l
Posted Saturday January 26 2008, 6:57 pm
In my past question(the really really long one, sorry if it had many shortcut words, i had to because of the length), I forgot to say my age and gender: 13/f
For a 13yr old, I think deep in these situations, so please don't tell me I'm too young.
I asked about how i might feel towards my close friend and the difference between that feeling and the feeling i have towards my current bf.
Typing that long question and seeing how people replied helped me realized much more.
They replied how my bf, "Shiro", cares for me much more than my close friend, "Kuro".
I agreed.
But I also typed another question before: How can I tell if it's love and not just really REALLY like?
People r...
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its an ongoing cycle
Posted Saturday January 26 2008, 6:02 pm
two years of drama but i'm going to try to make it short.
16/f
two years ago i liked my best friend. i liked him so bad and the butterflies were so strong i felt like i was going to throw up if i thought about him too much. the day i decided to tell him litterally 20minutes earlier one of my friends told him that she liked him. they were going out for about two months before he started flirting with me. he told me that he didnt get much action with his girlfriend. our flirting turned into a cyber friends with benefits relationship but he would sometimes smack my butt while he had a girlfriend. they went out for 8months and a week after they broke up we hooked up. we didn't kiss but we basically just felt each other up....
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This guy
Posted Saturday January 26 2008, 5:34 pm
13/f
I'm in 8th grade and have a huge crush on this boy. He sits behind me in math and he is very funny, he pulls my hair and jokes around with me too. I have 3 classes with him and he talks to me a lot. I don't really know if he likes me or not. But I told my friends yesterday. We are in a year-round school so we are off this month. So I won't see him valentines day and until March. He talks to other girls too so I am not the only girl that he talks to but as far as I know I'm the one who gets my hair pulled. But I still like him. I think he is funny, so thats not the problem. I really have no idea what to do. Is there any chance that he does like me? I am kinda more of a shy girl so you won't see me going up and talking to ...
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love/firendship
Posted Saturday January 26 2008, 5:05 pm
i think im falling for my best friend!
and im scared to. i mean i have all ways thought he was sooo cute. but know that me and my boyfriend broke up he was like hes must be blind to break up with you your beautiful. he held me for like five minutes while i cried on his shoulder. he took me to the movies the next week but his girlfriend came too:[ but he didnt pay for her he payed for me! i told him not to but he said he needed too.. i didn't know why he had to but all during the movie i would look over and he was holding her hand and i wondered what if that was me what if he held me? his friend Dylan came too. he tried to hold me like Cody was holding his gf..
it made me feel weird bc Cody wouldn't get out of my head. next day...
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My girl freinds parents are rascest and its hurting our rela
Posted Saturday January 26 2008, 3:32 pm
Her parents are hardcore rasiest fucks...im sorry she says they just "follow the bible" and think that people of mixed races black with white getting marryed and haveing kids is a sin(no matter how you look at it thats FUCKIN RASESIEM AND SHES IN HARDCORE DENIEL). in that case my famely is going to hell becuse my dad is not white and my mom is. and she says if they ever find out..they will disown her. she says she don't care if they do becuse she loves me...but I don't think she would relly want that and I don't want to be the cause of her parents disowning her... so someone help me here...I don't know what to do...
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My best friend
Posted Saturday January 26 2008, 3:13 pm
Hello. I have a problem... sort of. Me and my best friend like each other alot, okay? But, we're both girls. We're both afraid of ruining our friendship. But I always feel obliged to kiss her, yet, I never do because I'm scared of the reaction she'll have. But we always get so close to doing it... it's just really starting to bug me. I mean, should I do it anyway? And if I do... how, or even when do I do it? I've never kissed anyone before, so I'm lost.
Thank you in advance anyone who reads this...<3
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To any one who can help! :)
Posted Saturday January 26 2008, 2:57 pm
okay so me and this guy cj well we have been getting to know each other...like friends. But a while back i thought that he liked me because well we never talked and he would just like look at me a lot and he started a paper wad fight with me. But then this past thursday, we was doing this project and he said he had a girlfriend. and there was like 4 people in the group including him, and they all raised their hands but me. and when he raised his hand he kinda looked at me. I cant explain it, it was just like he was trying to tell me something. I didnt know what it was but when he looked at me it was eye contact and i just got this feeling. But anyways, ever since then we have been getting to know each other, like i always talk to him when w...
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Wtf is going on?
Posted Saturday January 26 2008, 2:43 pm
Riiight. This guy.
Another one of those questions.
I have mixed feelings for him.
I think.
Well this is how we are.
I have at least one class with him a day.
I talk to him EVERY DAY
He ALWAYS makes me laugh
We are pretty close
We hug quite a lot
When we're saying bye to each other, we kiss each other on the cheek
We sometimes go on the subway together. And if we do, he usually rides to my stop with me, and then rides three stops back to his stop.
we've never had a fight
We're into the same music and so on
He comes over to me to talk to me.
But I fucking don't know if he likes me, or is just being friendly.
I think he lik...
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Never been kissed </3
Posted Saturday January 26 2008, 2:34 pm
So i like this guy and hes really experienced and i have never kissed a guy and he likes me but thinks im experienced. I never lied and told people i did stuff, but everyone just assumed...what do i do? He asked me on a date, but were not together. AHH
14/f
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long lost or finally found
Posted Saturday January 26 2008, 2:18 pm
so i have a friend that is into drugs, and we used to be best friends calling each other every night. doing whatever. i think i had a crush on him, but i didnt want to because of the age diff [hes a senior and im a sophomore] recently, i saw him. i hadnt seen him for a really long time because he was into drugs and alcohal, and we lost communication but i never stopped thinking of him. i saw him, and barely recognized him. we hugged for a long time. but it was like something was different. and i cant get my mind off of him. what should i do? i dont want to like him, but i do. jekal;d.
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the guy im in love with may serve 6 months
Posted Saturday January 26 2008, 1:54 pm
I am in love with this guy and he is in a juvinile dention center for somthing he didnt do and he may serve 6 months but he told me to look for a new man and i shouldent wait for him and its too long to wait but i want to know how should i cope with him being gon? what should i do? and im a female im 14.
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Flirting tips for a desperate girl :[
Posted Saturday January 26 2008, 1:48 pm
I am in 8th grade, girl. I had a boyfriend last year, in 7th grade, but only for two months. It was my first and only boyfriend. We never hooked up. Only kissed. I want a boyfriend now, but all the guys only like experienced girls. And everyone knows i only had one bf, and they dont want me. What should i do? Any flirting tips to make someone, ANYONE, like me?
[I know i seem desperate, but i am. I know i dont need a guy, but they make me really happy, when i have a bf]
Sorry its long...Thank!
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Kenny is ruining my chanses with rob!
Posted Saturday January 26 2008, 1:32 pm
I really like this guy rob. He is smart, funny, nice, sweet, cute, and he likes me too, i think. Whenever i see him he always comes up to me and talks to me, and is always trying to sit near me.
Then this guy Kenny moved here. He is one of those guys whos obnoxious and thinks everyone likes him. He spread a rumor that we hooked up and that we were friends with benefits.
Since that rumor started rob hasnt come up to me, or sat with me. I always sit with him and go oh my god i HATE kenny. I would never hook up with him, hes so ugly. I dont want to be fwb with him, and im not. But rob just gives me a dirty look. He hasnt hooked up with anyone, or even kissed anyone, and i never hooked up wiith anyone, but i have...
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boyfriend trouble
Posted Saturday January 26 2008, 12:52 pm
i've been dating my boyfriend for a year and a half. we're really in love but ever month almost he does something so selfish and stupid i don't know what to do!!! I'm tired of getting mad at him, because he doesn't mean to do stupid stuff and it just tears us apart when we fight, so i started to let alot of stuff go. but now he's blowing me off all the time and lying. when i do get mad at him he acts so cocky he doesnt even try to apologize he just says alright fine and avoids me the whole day - doesnt call or anything. then he'll text me saying "hey whats up lets hang out" im like no!!! his mom always used to tell him to ignore a girl and she'll forget she's mad because she'll be to busy trying to win his attention - but i'...
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Valentines day
Posted Saturday January 26 2008, 11:24 am
okay so ive been dating this guy for about 2 years now. and we have been engaged for 3 months. he is in the navy so i hardly ever see him, but this valentines i actually get to be with him! and i want to get him somthing really sweet and special...but i have no idea what.last year i made him this little book of 101 reasons why i loved him and it had a bunch of pictures and stuff in it...he loves it! i got him someother stuff to but anyways...i want to do something better w/out doing the same thing? he is almost 20 and im 18. please give me some ideas!
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am i wrong ?
Posted Saturday January 26 2008, 10:24 am
Alright, Well my friend bailie is in town only for two days and she lives about 3 hours away , she use to live here. Well Bailie wanted this boy taylor to drop by and see her [ we were at my house ] and i felt bad because i have a boyfriend and he's kind of jelous & we've been dating for 11 months & i was like ok they can but ill just stand up front while you talk to them & thats exactly what i did , they came over i said hey and went walking for a lil . They wasnt even for 10 mins and i told them to leave . Well a while ago my boyfriend had a girl to come over to his house that i didnt like for his friend & they B0TH had cars . But after i told justin he got really really mad ! and i said sorry a million times & when i...
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triangle of luv! help
Posted Saturday January 26 2008, 9:41 am
yesterday i said i liked a guy but he dosen't like me! well i went to his b-ball game and after the game another guy starts to talk to me and say how good i am @ b-ball. then he challenges me to a 1 on 1! im pretty sure he likes me! im so lost ! i don't know what to do!
ps they are both like 4or5 years older than me!
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Lonely love.
Posted Saturday January 26 2008, 6:10 am
17/f. I've been a bit lonely lately. Me and my last boyfriend never worked out (i was pressured into a relationship with him that i never wanted) and we hardly talk anymore mainly coz i dont want him to think that i miss him. I dont miss him at all so i dont want him to think that i do.
I really liked a guy who had to go back home (overseas) just a few months ago. I was lonely before he came along and he was a bit older than me but i really liked him, then we ended up hooking up and now hes gone so im lonely again.
My best friend in the whole world (male) has had to move state and now i dont know what to do with myself.
I have friends, although not that many anymore because i have found out who my true friends are. And ...
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anti-physicalness
Posted Saturday January 26 2008, 2:44 am
my boyfriend of a yr and a half sexually assualted me. we broke up in november. a good guy friend of mine has liked me for awhile now, about 5 months? anyway.. he asked me out recently, and i said i didnt want anything serious right now. he understood bc he knows the situation. im startin to fall for him [again] and we basically act like we go out now except for the fact that we dont. im worried about being with him, because obviously along with relationships, comes the physical stuff. ive made out with him, but thats definitely as far as that goes. im worried about being with another guy because of what my ex did. obviously if i go out with my good friend, we wouldnt just jump into stuff because im not like that, it would take time. but th...
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