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Never been kissed </3
So i like this guy and hes really experienced and i have never kissed a guy and he likes me but thinks im experienced. I never lied and told people i did stuff, but everyone just assumed...what do i do? He asked me on a date, but were not together. AHH
14/f
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If this guy is as experienced as you say he is this try not to worry that much. Just follow his lead if he goes in for a kiss. And put you hand behind his head, that will drive him crazy(in a good way) because thats a sensitive spot for guys. If everyone just assumes your experience then just let everyone think that. no biggie. My first kiss i actually kiss the guy he didnt kiss me because he was to scared. but kissing is easy, its not as hard as people make it out to be. and once you get the hang of the simple kiss on the lips then you start using tongue which is always fun lol but just play it cool and be yourself. You cant go wrong there.
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Well if you're not together and he's asked you out, that's probably because he wants to get together with you =]. It's okay if you're not experienced. If he's a decent guy, that won't matter. Just relax, be yourself, and if he does anything that you wish to reciprocate, just follow his lead and imitate what he does (if it comes to a point where you'd like to kiss him and he goes in to kiss you) until you get the hang of it.
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well i mean since you have never told anyone that you had done stuff, and that they just assumed that you had, then you really have nothing to worry about. and if this guy is just going out with you because he thinks youll hookup with him then thats just lame, personally i would never go out with someone who just wants to get some. if i were you i would somehow start a conversation about what you both have done with the opposite sex and if he asks what youve done be completely honest. if he still likes you after youve set him straight then go on the date with him, but if hes suddenly not interested in you after youve told him the truth then hes a loser and your so much better then him.
hope i helped
-katie
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What do you do? Stop panicking for a start!
You are 14 years old. Most 14 year olds aren't "experienced" at anything.
It's good you haven't lied. Noone should feel the need to lie about things like that, because they'll probably get found out in the end.
Just go on the date (if you want to), be yourself, be relaxed. Don't worry over if you're going to kiss, because I promise, it won't be as bad as you think if. Just keep calm and follow his lead. and if you want kissing tips, there will be tonnes here.
If you go, I hope you have a great time. :)
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