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long lost or finally found
so i have a friend that is into drugs, and we used to be best friends calling each other every night. doing whatever. i think i had a crush on him, but i didnt want to because of the age diff [hes a senior and im a sophomore] recently, i saw him. i hadnt seen him for a really long time because he was into drugs and alcohal, and we lost communication but i never stopped thinking of him. i saw him, and barely recognized him. we hugged for a long time. but it was like something was different. and i cant get my mind off of him. what should i do? i dont want to like him, but i do. jekal;d.
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If you like him, and you don't want to, you are just kidding yourself.
If his using drugs and drinking alchol is the only problem you have with him, than it is up to you to chose if you want to be involved with someone who is into somethings that are totally against your standard morals.
It's really sad that people get into those types of things, but I think that he needs you right now, and with your help he will help himself.
So my advice is that and one more thing: denying your feelings for someone will just come back to you until you fess up to the feelings you have for that person. And this is only proof because you were once best friends, but drifted, and now you guys are friends again and you like him...
Just putting that thought out there :]
Good luckk
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i'm in a highschool with a lot of druggies and alcoholics. and they all start to get distant from everyone else.
And really, the only way of getting over him that i can think of, it just thinking of the future. Thinking of how he would be in a relationship with someone on drugs could be. =/
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I guess,
you like this guy right? So if you're going to want him...the drugs are going to come with him whether you like it or not. Decide for yourself what to do because youre the only one in this decision that really matters. If you go out with him, you're going to be above the drugs and alcohol anyway, so i guess you just gotta sit down with him casually and talking to him about it. And ask him to stop because you're worried about him.
I hope I helped.
<3maddie
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