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boyfriend acting weirdly


Posted Saturday March 15 2008, 1:33 am

16/f..i have a boyfriend..we've been together for almost 3 months..and he says I'm the "only one" yet..he flirts with girls in my face..acting like nothing is wrong when he talks to me after! he changed his myspace status to "single" but he still treats me the same..(like his gf) idk what's going on. whenever i walk by with him..holding his hand..if he sees a girl that he knows..she'll obnoxiously walk over to him..(as if not noticing I'm there) and go..Jimmy(not his name lol)!!!! HEY BOO! And she'll give him a greeting kiss..I won't respond to it..I'll pretend it never happened..though I'm a bit hurt inside. He talks about how hot girls are sometimes...though limiting that subject of conversation when I'm around. Whenev...

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I need Help


Posted Saturday March 15 2008, 12:40 am

Hi, my name is Amy, im 14 years old

well - there is this reallly hot guy, and his name is Derek. He's 15 years old. He's really nice and i really like him. I tried to get to know him, but now he just thinks im a complete wierdo. he won't talk to me when he's at skating (thats where he works) he won't answer my emails he blocked me on msn and won't answer me on face book.i have no idea what to do. if there was one chance he would listen to me... what should i say? somthing meaningful something touching.

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Ugh This Gets Annoying.


Posted Friday March 14 2008, 11:47 pm

13/f
OK. So i have problems with likeing guys. i like 2 guys at once and they both like me back. and this always happens to me. and then i end up making the wrong choice. plus i cant stay in a relationship. my friends go out with there boyfriends for like 2-10 months. im a select soccer player who likes emo stuff dresses prep/skater/geek/whatever i feel like. i like to read and i like computers. I love to talk and everything. plus im geeky and a tomboy. SO that makes a very odd person. and i cant find a guy that fits into more than 2 of those things so sometimes its hard. so bottem line is
1)how can i find out what type of guy i want
2)how can i keep myself out of love triangles
3)why does this have to happen!!
Please help. = (

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Okay so,


Posted Friday March 14 2008, 11:40 pm

18/f
I had a boyfriend for three years, but then I was going though a lot of problems so I wanted to take a break. Throughout this whole time we still kept kissing and everything, so I really don't even know why I called it a break. Well, mostly because I was being very ill-tempered. Well, two months passed and we went on like this. Holding hands, everything.. But I still kept hurting him. We knew that we loved each other and everything though, so when I was finally done sorting out everything (Actually, the problems are all back now so it was really STUPID of me to even do the whole thing!) We went back out. Then, a week later he broke up with me and said he didn't want to be with me anymore because it wasn't the same. A week after ...

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we like each other but dont go out


Posted Friday March 14 2008, 11:04 pm

he is my exboyfriend (14) and we still like each other. A LOT. he tells everybody that he likes me but that he cant ask me out for "10,000 personal reasons" and that he doesnt need to "go through that anymore" i dont understand what he means because we had a GREAT relationship.

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ways to say "i love you"


Posted Friday March 14 2008, 11:01 pm

Okay, so my boyfriend and I have been together for almost nine months. I love him very much. I'm always looking for ways to show him I love him, more than just saying the words. If anyone has ideas on things I could do I would greatly appreciate it. I've already burned him a few mix cd's with songs that say how I feel about him, and I made him a notebook full of 101 reasons why I love him. I also made a list of 101 things I want us to do together. Any other suggestions...?

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Can't choose.


Posted Friday March 14 2008, 10:49 pm

So there are these two guys, that I think I like. Let's start with guy one, we'll call him X.

X was my best friend in 5-6th grade. In 5th grade, he asked me out but I didn't like him in that way so I said no. After 6th grade, our friendship kind of faded but now in 8th grade we are better friends. He doesn't think I'm that hott, he probably wouldn't go out with me. But he's still just so amazing. He's funny, and is mean but in his own way that everyone loves. Did I mention he's a great guitarist? I was at a concert for his band and when he sang and played guitar he was just so cute. I want to be the girl he sings about in all his rock songs. I am literally willing to start losing weight for this guy.


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Posted Friday March 14 2008, 8:41 pm

I like this guy, and for the past few weeks, I can't explain it, my life has been so much better, and the best parts of my day where when I got to see him, even if I didn't get a chance to talk to him. It takes a lot for me to like a person like that; I haven't fallen this hard in years.

This week I actually thought he *might* like me back, but now I find out that he most likely has a girlfriend. :/

If he does have a girlfriend, should I still put my effort into liking him, or should I forget about him now while I'm still ahead? I've been hurt too many times in the past, I can't handle being led on again.

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Boyfriend birthday.


Posted Friday March 14 2008, 7:39 pm

16-f

my boyfriends birthday is comming up in about 2 weeks he's gonna be 17. We've been dating for 7 months and i dont have like any money so my moms gonna have to buy it and she doesnt have much either....he like gummy worms so i was thinking of getting him a big bag or sour gummy worms & maybe 2 shirts that i think he would like...does this sound like an ok gift??

any more ideas??

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Guys answer this.


Posted Friday March 14 2008, 7:38 pm

I need a guys opinion on this.

I met a guy, he is a sweetheart and we get along well. I want to get to know him better, maybe be able to get into a relationship with him. But he just got out of a relationship with a girl whom, cheated; Lied; and said things like "I'm not attracted to you, but I love you though"; He is hurt by it and I understand I just don't know how to approach him with the consideration of maybe getting to know each other better maybe in hopes of a relationship.
DO you think I should give him a little more time?
Should I probably just see where things go without trying to help things along?

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Weird Situation


Posted Friday March 14 2008, 7:05 pm

There is this girl in my English Class and I really like her, but just recently she got a boyfriend.
Now because I am also friends with her boyfriend, I feel guilty liking her. Is it still ok to talk to her, as friends?

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what do i do about this guy!??


Posted Friday March 14 2008, 5:12 pm

heyyy everyone im 15 and i like this guy and i love him. hes soo amwazing but anyway ive been wanting to tell him about im afraid because i dont know what he will say and i dont want him to think he has to say it bak because he doesnt i want him to say it when he means it or if he means it now. ive known him for awhile and hes helped me alot and im also afraid that since im his like best friend it would be weird if we dated but i wanna be closer to him than just a friend its confusing lol. i need help!! i dont know if i should tell him how i truely feel or just wait til he says something im not sure which way to go i just dont want to lose him as a friend! ok thanks you guys!! and if you have any questions to ask me like about this if you didntget something message me in my inbox k ( :

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Bf's Ex


Posted Friday March 14 2008, 4:54 pm

ok so my bf had this one gf a while ago and she was his first gf and first kiss and everything and i got jealous of her because of that. because she also took him to 2nd base. i have gotten over it because i knew he had learned and now understands that he shouldnt have and all that and he told me he never talked to her anymore. he volunteers at this place and she sometimes does too. i havent gone to 2nd with him btw and im his first serious gf and hes mine she was just a fling haha. anyway so he fwd an email to me and fwd it to a bunch of other people and on it i saw her name so idk what to think. he hates talking about her and says he doesnt talk to her or like her and he and i have best friends for a couple yrs before we started dating. i...

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ways to annoy him back..?


Posted Friday March 14 2008, 3:00 pm

Well, I met a guy & really liked him & got on great with him. I had a feeling he was a player, so I didnt get too involved. Although I've found out he was messaging a friend of a friend being over "friendly", & when I asked about it lightly he openly admitted it & continued to message her (probably to annoy/keep me on my toes) but now I need advice on how to do the same back to him. I wont steep into messaging his friends, but ways which will keep him on his toes? I would really appreciate your advice! xxx

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what is the sexiest thing a girl can say to a guy


Posted Friday March 14 2008, 1:32 pm

heyy! ok so i was wondering what is the sexiest thing a girl could tell her guy she is wearing? like lingerie, a thong, a bra, nightgown, etc. just want to kno what guys think is extremely hot and sexy ;] thanx

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marriagr/step daughter


Posted Friday March 14 2008, 8:58 am

My wife and I had been married for over four years.
I have ADD and high anxiety which I'm not taking medication for.
I had a pretty good paying job but was laid off early 1n 2007.
My eyes started giving me problems before the lay off but I did get them checked out while I still had insurance.

Found out this year that both of my eyes have cataracts. I've attempted working at three jobs but my eye sight prevented me from passing the probationary period.

Here's my issue. I had a step daughter that had always found a ways into getting into trouble. Everything you asked her not to do, she went ahead and done. The computer she would stay on Instant messaging, My spacing all her friends till...

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boyfriend again.


Posted Friday March 14 2008, 5:31 am

ok. my bf and i recentllly broke up. I don't like hurting him, but I had to. But he promised me he would never date the chick he is now. I think he's doing it to make me jelous. What do you think? I meaan, I GREATLY appriciate the girl coming to me asking my opion, and I told her to go for it. Then I said no, cuz he would hurt her like he did me. ( this guy grabbed me by the throght, very aggresive, and is now threatining to hurt me and my best friend.) So OF COURSE I don't want her going out with him. I mean HELLO! Domestic violence!!! Not to mention, I lost my virginity to this guy. Bu I mean, one of my friends told me, that, I moved on, he can to. So I told his new gf, go for it. So she did. Then I herd that he was ganna hurt me and my f...

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hymen


Posted Friday March 14 2008, 12:13 am

when does the bleeding occur when a girl's hymen is broken?

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My Boyfriend Isnt ever around


Posted Friday March 14 2008, 12:10 am

Sorry its long. but you have to know the whole story.

Me and my boyfriend have been going out for like a week and we have been friends before this for like 3 years or so. And before we even started going out i made him promise we would be friends no matter what. well hes younger than me. And so he does things differently. Well ever since he asked me out i have seen him. he hasnt called or anything. i have had 3 boyfriends in a row. and im thinking i might want to be single but im not sure. because hes really cool and i know how to have fun with him but thats it i guess you could say hes not "boyfriend" like. and hes really not but hes the noly boyfriend iv had in a long time that iv had fun with. Plus theres this g...

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luv confusion


Posted Thursday March 13 2008, 10:12 pm

when i realize i had feelings for my best friend (girl) i notice i am bi...or les? but i knew i went out with men just to test the waters if it was a phase. but it wasnt i couldnt keep my mind off of her. telling how i felt was so hard for me to do. i didnt have the guts till that day after high school i met up with her and told her how i felt. she just had a shock face. as days go by we still hang out and be good friends. she became closer as in leaning,teasing and close. i wonder why she felt okay with my feelings so i wrote her a note, didnt reply. after highschool two years past we still hang out. i told her to met me online to chat. so we did. i re explain my feelings and ask the question. she said she was fine with it and confused wit...

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