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Can't choose.
So there are these two guys, that I think I like. Let's start with guy one, we'll call him X.
X was my best friend in 5-6th grade. In 5th grade, he asked me out but I didn't like him in that way so I said no. After 6th grade, our friendship kind of faded but now in 8th grade we are better friends. He doesn't think I'm that hott, he probably wouldn't go out with me. But he's still just so amazing. He's funny, and is mean but in his own way that everyone loves. Did I mention he's a great guitarist? I was at a concert for his band and when he sang and played guitar he was just so cute. I want to be the girl he sings about in all his rock songs. I am literally willing to start losing weight for this guy.
Now guy number two. We'll call him Q.
Q and I were complete best friends in 5th grade. We'd hang out every weekend with my other best friend, "J." In 5th grade, Q was CRAZY about me. He asked me out and went nuts for me for a month or two. He punched his friend for talking about me behind my back. But I never answered when he asked me out. I 6th grade, our friendship faded. He became "in love" with J, and then later became obsessed with some slut. But I always sort of liked him, even if he was mean to me. And now, in 8th grade he actually has been very nice to me this past week. We laugh a lot and sit near each other. He hasn't been mean at all. He wrote this song for X's band, and when I heard the lyrics my heart practically melted. So I guess I like him. Oh, and he has the most amazing pair of eyes i've even seen.
So my problem here is that I don't know who'd be better. X, I would have to wait until he thought I was pretty, and Q I wouldn't really. Q is kind of a follower and I'm afraid that he's nervous to ask me out. I'm good friends with most of his friends, but I guess they don't approve. I just don't know who is more worth it.
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q is definitely worth it. if x doesnt think youre pretty enough than its his fault (and loss)and hes probaly a jerk if he cant see that youre a beautiful girl inside and out. and besides q actually punched someone for you.
maybe q is just waiting for you to make the first move. you know that it doesnt always have to be the guy to make the first move even if we want it to be. you can miss out on a lot of great things if you sit around and wait for other people.
i hope this helped and please write and tell me how it ended up.
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First of all, NEVER change the way you are for someone else. If X doesn't appreciate you the way you are, then he doesn't deserve the time of day from you. SERIOUSLY! Forget the guy.
I think you should wait for the second guy. He may be nervous now, but he'll approach you when he's ready. If he doesn't, there are so many other guys out there. Last thing, if his friends don't approve, then screw them. You care too much about what other people think. Just be YOU. Keep your head up and good luck!
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